Thursday, 31 January 2013

YSL - Giving and Sharing

This is the YSL point of view of the experience that Yummy and I shared and the account that she posted on 13th January 2013, Sinful Sunday - Giving and Sharing



As you may know, Yummy and I are members of a swinging community and we have a main account that we have used for over a year now and it does state on there that I am bi curious, which I am. However we have found that whilst it appears to be perfectly acceptable, if not the norm for the majority of ladies in the community to be bisexual, this is most certainly not the case for males. We have had instances where males in a couple of have been quite frightened that they may be even so much as touched by another man and it certainly isn't something that is the norm in clubs, although for ladies it is nothing unusual to see.



So, with the above in mind, we have another account that is specifically for meeting single bi males and it is amazing the number of genuine males who have 'straight' on their profile, but in reality they are actually bi. How do we know this apart from taking their word? From the feedback that others have given whom they have met, it is single males, TVs etc.



We used this secondary account to contact a number of guys and one took our fancy as he sounded intelligent, could write well and there was a good tone in his messages. Initially the day that we wished to meet he was otherwise committed, however his plans fell through mid evening and he asked us if we could still make it that evening. We said yes, and fifty minutes later we were in a very quiet bar adjoining a hotel waiting for him.



Unusually for us, this was a completely blind date as we hadn't asked for any face pictures and took confidence from his writing abilities. When he arrived, facially, it was a little more disappointing than we expected, however we were there and 'never judge a book by its cover, etc (unless it's a really ugly book, obviously) so we waited whilst he got a drink and started conversation. His conversation was a little at odds with his writing as he turned out to a bit more of detail obsessive person than the genial host that we were expecting, however he was interesting and there were points where he really seemed to come alive and warm to the conversation. After about forty minutes conversation in which the benefit of the doubt was given and thinking about the description of this being a 'hung guy', I asked if we could see his room.



We retired to the hotel next door and as it was getting relatively late in the evening, the front door was locked and we had to be let in by the receptionist. Nothing new for her I'm sure, after all, she works in a building that is full of beds!!!



Within minutes, Yummy was laid in the centre of the bed and 'hung guy' followed suit with whatever I did, shirt off, trousers off, sucking nipples and so on. All very respectful and a man not wishing to overstep the mark or do anything unwelcome. When his underwear was removed, he was indeed a 'hung guy', not a monster, but certainly an inch or so above the norm and nicely thick. It was fairly hard from the start and Yummy simply enjoyed having a cock for each hand!!



After a period of double Yummy appreciation, she set to work on sucking this fine cock whilst I rimmed her. Once everyone felt more settled with the situation, I moved up and joined Yummy. Hung guy was sitting up at the end of the bed and both Yummy and I were laid down on our fronts between his legs. Yummy passed his cock to me and I greedily took it. It felt thick in my mouth with that warm sponginess that you get from the head. For a guy, he was very clean and had very little scent to him, which I liked and it got me even more enthusiastic about this cock as I am not really that attracted to male muskiness, although I probably have it myself. We proceeded to enjoy this cock between us for what must have been a good 20 to 30 minutes. We grabbed the cock out of each other's mouths to suck it, we kissed each other with this member in-between our mouths, we licked the shaft, kissed the balls, wanked it and of course we each enjoyed traditional deep throat and sucking. All of the while, pleasurable moans could be heard from him no matter who was doing the pleasing.



I then sat at the head of the bed and Yummy started sucking me. She looked at him with encouraging eyes and it was quite obvious that she wished for him to join in, as we had done for him, but he clearly didn't wish to. We didn't force anything and we didn't make an issue of it.



After about ten minutes of enjoying me, I stayed at the head of the bed, Yummy turned around onto her back with her head in my lap and hard erection pressed against her cheek and hung man started fucking her. It was wonderful to see Yummy being fucked from my vantage point, as I could view her tits, her fabulous tummy and see her thighs and legs as they pointed directly up to the ceiling whilst this chap pounded away into her. He was fucking her hard for a good fifteen minutes and it started to become clear that he was close to cumming but wanting to hold it in to keep going, however Yummy just said 'Biting your lip isn't going to stop you cumming, give it to me'!!! And on hearing this the fucking got even harder and more intense and he came inside her cunt.



The whole of the way through this, my cock was absolutely solid, I didn't touch it at all and it remained pressed against Yummys cheek. Whilst she was being fucked, I held her, stroked her face and brushed my hand over her hair.



I like the idea of Yummy receiving multiple cocks in one session, so I had no hesitation in moving out of position and down between her thighs to place my cock in her cunt only seconds after another one had left having cum in her. For me it is the thought of a different feeling for her inside her with a different cock, slightly different technique and most importantly, a fresh cock that isn't weary and is ready to start again hard!!!! And hard it was, Yummy simply sprayed her cum everywhere as soon as my cock entered. I pulled out and took advantage of this heightened arousal by vigorously rubbing my cock up and down her cunt and across her clit, to which the splashing just began fully like turning on a tap and raindrops shooting in all directions from that delicious juicy cunt.



Hung guy was at the side of the bed now mimicking the tenderness that I had shown Yummy when our roles were reversed, I began fucking in earnest, however within a few minutes the mood in the room had changed, Hung guy seemed distant and it was clear that he was tired having been at work all day as he had a faraway look in eyes and wasn't engaged. Nothing was said, however for us there has to be passion there with all parties, so I withdrew from Yummy without cumming and we proceeded to wind down.



Over idle chit chat we proceeded to get redressed, kind words were exchanged and we left the room and suffered the ignominy of the receptionist having to tell us how to unlock the front door of the hotel, at one in the morning, whilst we tried to avoid eye contact.



Overall it was a good meeting. The downsides being his face didn't meet our expectations, but he was fine and nice, his loss of engagement at the end, but then it was late, and his refusal to reciprocate male oral attentions. However...........when we arrived home, we found that we had such passion for each other. Not that this is usually lacking for us, but we just devoured each other as we retired to our own bed. We deeply kissed, we fucked hard, Yummy's juices simply poured over me like a torrent from a river and we held each other so tightly...........all after sharing a cock between us!!!!



When we discussed this as we were recovering, we felt that we both had this euphoria as we could be so open and honest with each other, which we can't be with others. There are always things that we hold back from others, even in the swinging world, which is why I put the context of this in at the start. Even with other swingers that you can be having the most intimately physical exchanges that any human can have with another, there are often thoughts and desires that you have to hold back on, but this evening was a physical demonstration between the two of us of what we find exciting, what we both want and wish to do and how we can simply enjoy viewing the our other partner revel in their desires and what they find arousing without any holding back or shame.




Whilst the evening wasn't perfect, it was a good evening and it did so much to reveal to us things that we perhaps hadn't thought about previously and what makes what we have so special and valuable.



Taking into account all manner of risk factors, physical and emotional, and mitigating them as much as is possible, it is such a wonderful feeling of relief and freedom to be able to share, uncensored, your true thoughts, feelings and desires with such a close friend who feels the same way too.

YSL

Wednesday, 30 January 2013

Denial

Popped for lunch and asked the question "should I have any expectation of sex?" We both have loads of work on at the moment and while passions always run high we both keep our eye on the ball work wise.

Yes, sex is likely to occur so both if us get our head down and finish off our emails. I close down my laptop and head upstairs, 5 minutes later YSL joins me naked in bed. He's full of compliments after my recent weight loss and strokes his hands across my curves before pulling me closer and kissing me passionately.

We both move and as my hand reaches for his cock the words are already by YSL "lie back" I relent from his cock and part my thighs.

His fingers already smothered in liquid silk glide over my entire cunt, instantly I can feel my arousal grow exponentially and my clit starts to fill up. Before long I can feel my first orgasm start to build and I'm encouraging it with the thoughts if this weeks erotic fun we have planned. His hand slows and moves from my clit, I gasp and lock eyes on his, he smiles and I realise it was intentional. His fingers encircle my aching clit again and I ready myself to cum, waiting seems so worth it as I know this orgasm is going to rip through me. He stops again and holds my cunt a moment, I realise that cumming isn't going to happen for a while. He pulls me close and starts to whisper in my ear "imagine if I just made you put your panties back on and send you home like this" I'm so wet and unable to image how I could cope with not cumming given my state of arousal.

YSL starts to stroke the entire length of my cunt starting with his fingers dipping into my hole and scooping out my wetness then parting my lips and just grazing the top of my swollen clit. It's not enough to make me cum but it has me in a state of desperation, I'm breathless and pushing my hips forward to try and increase the pressure against me, failing though as he doesn't allow it to make a difference. I'm so on the verge of cumming but this time YSL leaps out the bed, I'm confuse and unsure what toy he is going to get.

He stops and picks up my clothes I had left of the floor, I had been in a hurry to get naked. I touch my breasts while I wait, not helping my state but not caring as I don't believe I will be leaving here without release. He throws my panties at me, I'm confuse as he nods at them indicating I should put them on.

The realisation of what's about to happen washes over me, no, I can't leave here with out cumming?? I play along and slip on my panties as part of the game but my leggings are passed next, he nods to put them on. My face must be saying "no way" as YSL asserts I need to dress. I stand and put them on and check what time it is, I need the reassurance that I have time for this to play out.

He passes my dress and I slip it on, hating and loving what is happening. The rush of his control over me married with the desperation of my arousal levels. Clothed and frustrated he tells me to sit on the chair he has positioned at the bottom of the bed. I sit and he sits before me stroking his cock and he allows me to lick it to capture the pre cum that's escaping before having the watch again. He canes hold of my cunt through my leggings and panties, again it's not enough but it comes close and any touch is welcome. His cock looks angry and so hard, I want it inside me so badly,

He stands and pulls out my breasts from under my dress and slides his between them, I'm grateful but it's just driving me closer to the edge of madness. I feel like my cunt will explode and my whole body is shuddering with the urgency, YSL tells me to bend over at the window. All I can think of is he is going to pull down my panties and cum in them then send me home.

I brace myself for the extreme of the denial and I'm taken by surprise as I feel the hardness of his cock push inside me. Long slow deep strokes have me in raptures immediately, he keeps the pace slow and makes me wait for it. Im about to start to cum half worried he will stop I gasp "I'm about to cum" if he's going to stop do it now, he doesn't stop, he fucks me harder and it starts, it swirls from the pit of my stomach and rips through every inch, it's beautiful and worthy of the wait and then he spills cum inside me pushing my climax on even further until my legs start to give way. I'm clinging to the window sill as he slowly pulls out, he strips me with care and affection and leads me back to the bed. He holds me so close as I bathed in the moment, our mixed juices dripping from me as he loves me.

Monday, 28 January 2013

TMI - Describe it

Here's a first...

I've got YSL to play along


Yummy contribution:


1. Describe your or a lover’s penis with a movie title.


What women want


2. Describe your pussy or a lover’s pussy with a movie title.

A few good men


Or perhaps

Predator



3. Describe your last sexual encounter with a song title.



It's such a perfect day

4. Describe your body with a song title.


I am what I am

Or

Big girl you are beautiful 

5. Describe your sexual appetite with a book, song, or movie title.

A song
She's a monster

A movie
Requiem for a dream



Bonus: Recommend your favorite sexy, sensual or kink oriented book.

The bottoming book



YSL contribution


1. Describe your or a lover’s penis with a movie title.

Snakes on a Plane - I have a snake and along with me, it is often to be found on a plane :)

or

There will be blood - Sometimes there is ;-)


2. Describe your pussy or a lover’s pussy with a movie title.


Traffic - What? What?? I'm jus' sayin'

or

No country for old men - Better?



3. Describe your last sexual encounter with a song title.

Come Together, The Beatles 

or

Didn't expect that, Billy Crawford 


4. Describe your body with a song title.

Getting better, The Beatles 

or

GG Allin, Hot candy cock 

5. Describe your sexual appetite with a book, song, or movie title.

Gimme dat ass, Sidney Samson 

or

There is nothing else!!!

Bonus: Recommend your favorite sexy, sensual or kink oriented book.

I was trying to remember the title of the dom/submissive books that you first gave me shortly after we met as it gave me such insight into what it was all about.

(I found the link)

http://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/1890159360?ie=UTF8&force-full-site=1&ref_=aw_bottom_links

Failing the above, I'll go for 'The Sexual life of Catherine M' by Catherine Millet


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Saturday, 26 January 2013

Sinful Sunday - in your face

I came on his face then felt the warmth hit my back and arse cheeks as he spilled his cum over me.



Sinful Sunday



Friday, 25 January 2013

3 years blogging

In some respects I feel like Ive been blogging for longer than 3 years but I think that's due to the fact that I felt like I blogged so much before I met YSL and now we have been together nearly 2 years, its doesn't feel like it adds up.

I initially started blogging as I needed a friend to talk to that wouldn't judge just listen and be there if I needed them, I needed to get stuff out of my head and process it, the blog provided this and so much more.
Its funny looking back, the initial few months there are no pictures other than the odd HNT which by my current standards are very very tame. The blog has helped with my body confidence, my discovery of myself and certainly has helped keep my sanity.

These days the blog and twitter gives me a window to a world of pleasure even when I'm trapped in the confines of my marriage. It gives me such pleasure  as I read back over my own archieves reliving the moments, I often sit shaking my head thinking 'no way' in sheer disbelief I had the confidence or audacity to do such things!!

At the end of my first year I rejoiced that 70,000 visitors had graced the blog, these days that's just over a month of traffic which hurts my head to even think about.
 My first visitors and people to comment where:


I'm still good freinds with Ron and Out Side Vanilla (hopefully catching up with him in March when I visit London), Secretly naughty stopped blogging a while back and I'm not sure what happened to her.


My first real introduction to the sex blogging community though came from participating in HNT, every Thursday we all use to post a Half Nekkid picture and unite. HNT isn't around anymore but I have found a new friend and community in Sinful Sunday (highly recommend participating and even just viewing).



My first ever post was during the decline of my relationship with Him, I was starting to resent the one sided nature of the relationship, my dropping everything to work around him and his jealousy turning into paranoia




So thank you for coming to visit, I value the friendship, comments and the lurking. I hope to keep blogging for many years to come and hopefully continuing to share more of mine and YSL's adventures and passion for each other.

xxx

Monday, 21 January 2013

TMI - First, Best, Only, Last, Worst..... SEX

Thanks to an anonymous TMI Tuesday fan and lurker for this week’s TMI Tuesday questions.

Complete each sentence with an anecdote of sexual adventure or misadventure:

1. The first time I climaxed from oral sex my boyfriend dressed and then sang a song while playing his guitar he had wrote about me, I just wanted more oral #AkwardMoment

2. The last time I masturbated I couldn't cum :(

3. The only time I ever spoke to YSL on the phone is the first night we met to organise venue. After a couple of drinks we ended up back at his and enjoyed 6 hours of pleasure.

Read about that night here 

4. My best friend in the world is YSL, I love that I can be entirely myself and not feel judged or have to hold back, though sometimes i do but he knows me well enough to know when I need a little encouragement, support or confidence.

5. My worst ever injury I've had during sex was when I was being taken over the kitchen bench while waiting for the pan to boil (the reader gasps in anticipation) at the height of passion he flings his arm back and catches the pan handle and the entire pan catapulted over me. I spent the rest of the night in a bath of cold water and couldn't sit or wear clothes for days!

BONUS: Everyone, however much experienced, still has some unfulfilled desires. What is at the top of your yet-to-do list?

I really don't have anything on the 'to do' list, for me these days it's more a 'to discover' list.



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Happy TMI Tuesday!

Saturday, 19 January 2013

Sinful Sunday - Better than chocolate truffles

I suspect most of you will take a moment to even see the truffles. I shall be sharing much more of our fun night over the next few days including a video of me being taken by a woman with a strap on.

YSL also wrote a wonderful post this week, his point of view on me taking him with a strap on. Hope you enjoy reading it as much as I did.

YSL: I'm usually doing the fucking


Yummy: I switched and blissed him out 




Sinful Sunday

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