Winners In my book as well

As I learn and explore more about myself both sexually and as an independent person I often look to the Internet for inspiration, education and advice. Recently I've found myself frequently at the door of Eden Cafe part of Eden fantasys  website. Often these sites are focused on selling toys but between the great writers and contributors they seem to get it right so I was pleased to see they just won an award and it's rightly deserved.

I get many emails from followers looking for advice and words of experience so I know how much people count on such resources as we push our own boundaries or head into unchartered sexual territories. 

In recent weeks I've used them as a source of knowledge for pegging as it was all new to me.
(this article)
So if you haven't visited already go browse you might surprise yourself what you might learn or want to try!

Prostate Massage

Last week of voting so your support would be great, Im top at the moment but im competing against some great blogs.



So if youve been kind enough to vote thank you so much, but please vote again, you know I will repay in filthy pictures of me using them!

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Whilst I know you all think Im pretty experienced at most things in the bedroom one aspect I haven’t done much with is Prostate massaging. I have once given a direct prostate massage and had a few other attempts but nothing great. Last week while YSL was masturbating I decided to take the sofar teasing his ass to penetrating it with my fingers. We have discussed it before as he has a few toys on his night stand including a feeldoe so I knew it would be welcomed.
Ive never inserted a toy into a partner except him but I used to hold it in position and make him push back onto it so he controlled the speed/pressure. I thought I would read up on the subject a little more and found this cute video…

YSL really seemed to enjoy the prostate massage as I came hard in my mouth and then was still hard, he rolled me over and fucked me until he came again.

MALE READERS
I want to explore more of this with him but don’t want to be fumbling when I do so Id really like the male perspective on what works on doesn’t work for you with anal play. Also what toys you have or would want as I’m thinking of getting him one as a gift click here to see the choice I have.

As you know I love anal play and get so much from it and want to be able to share the pleasure with him but I am also aware of if its not done right it can really hurt and put a dampner on things.

FEMALE READERS
What has worked for you and your partners? Which sex toys do you both prefer and get the most pleasure from?

Being BBW - big beautiful woman

My new lover (to be refered to as YSL from now on)first approached me as my profile said BBW, ive alsways used that in my title as I dont want any guy thinking some thin chick is going to turn up.

Years ago I used to hide away under unflattering clothes, the post baby years the worst but I rediscovered myself and whilst nothing physically changed, I didnt loose weight, it was the mental change that made me more attractive. I decided I would love myself, I would be happy with my own body image. If I wasnt happy I should do something about it.

It took some time to grow to love myself, I used to slip some sexy underwear on and lie on the bed playing with myself, seeing if I could enjoy just being with me, clearly this has worked because I now adoring lying back and playing with nothing more than some naughty heels on.

I also used to avoid wearing heels because im so tall but that again came with the growth in confidence, these days I have no challenge walking into a room whatever the occasion in 5 inch heels and being the tallest by far.

Just last week YSL asked me to stand naked before him naked, whilst we have become close quite quickly I still gulped at the thought of doing this as whilst over the past 3 year I have made major leaps with body confidence I still hide behind the sexy undies nd the stockings... YSL doesnt want that, he wants raw natural me.

I was quivering the first time I did it. He reads me well and he holds me tight after and tells me how much he adores me, every inch. I believe him, his eyes and his physical reaction to me are very apparent and appreciative.

Just yesterday I read an article on Eden Cafe called Submission meets body image and it struck such a chord with me and this current situation I thought I would comment and share.

There are lots more posts about Sexual Health and body image I highly recommend adding it to your reading list.


Now dont forget to go vote for me! the competetion is judged on daily votes/visitors so I need your votes as often as you visit xxxx