Something for the weekend #16

It's week 16 :)

Don't forget to message me if you want to be the featured blog ..Any contributors that want to send over a "introduction to there blog" and a picture to tease I will do one a week.

Feel free to nominate a blog you enjoy as well and share the love!!







What it's all about?

With about lots visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that  gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.


I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT.

I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade. If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one!

I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.


A few simple rules:
1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once


2) The post should be sex or relationship related, it can be erotica, education, discussion or pictures/video


3) DO NOT USE YOUR POST TITLE, unless it describes what the post is about, tell the reader what is about e.g Photos and details of 3some, Male sex toy review and pictures, Thoughts on Poly Relationships.If your unsure just ask and I will amend


4) Add a link  using code on the side bar to let people you are part of the SFTW community


5) Tell people to visit if you are using social media, this is about helping other bloggers in the community so share the joy and it benefits us all



Submissions now open.....

Tonight's sex

Just back from a relaxing night with YSL, it's been a long hard week for both of us so tonight's slow loving pace has been perfect. After holding me close for some time and giving in to letting go of the stress held in my body I reached between my thighs and started to masturbate. I loved the look upon YSL's face as he appreciated my arousal, his eyes lit up as my first orgasm of many crashed through me as he continued to hold me.

His cock showed great interest and with little adjustment he place his cock right next to my hole and joined in stroking his cock. Knowing he was so close to entering me but not allowing himself inside was like pouring fuel on the fire and sent me into another orgasm. YSL plunged his cock inside me and made love to me whilst caressing my swollen clit. He pulled out and continued to stroke his cock this time over my clit until I felt his warmth spill over me.

Right now I'm back home, I can still taste him as I sit here in bed.

TMI Who's counting (my answers)

1. Do you/have you ever kept track of the number or people you have been with?

I used to but not these days and not because the number is so great it's just I'm more confident and don't worry about such details.

2. To get specific, How many people have you -

a. slept with

I don't sleep much :) time wasted in my book

It's a rare occasion that I've actually slept over with anyone, I can only think of 4. I struggle to sleep and frequently have nightmares and just from being embarrassed never mind the comforted sometimes needed I have avoided the situation.

b. kissed (in a romantic way, obviously)

A lot but less than you think

c. given oral to

A fair few but picking about who I dish out my skills too.

d. received oral from

Less than you think as I'm frequently surprised by how many don't like to give, they are just into receiving?!?

3. What is the most amount of people you have been with at one time? (twosome, threesome, foursome, etc)

16some on the beach I think is our most but the night at the club was also about that as well when we had our first full on group moment together.

4. Have you ever had multiple partners in the same day, just different times? (One person in the morning, another at lunch, and one at dinner, etc)

Yes, shared them with YSL and loved it.

Bonus: Describe your best multiple person encounter, either something that actually happened or one that you would want to happen. Or both.

I do still wish for the ideal MMF moment, 2 men wanting me in such a passionate way but so far our 'extras' haven't met the mark yet.

TMI - who's counting YSL answers

I shall be doing mine shortly!

1. Do you/have you ever kept track of the number or people you have been with?

In my earlier years, yes, but as you get older you realise that it's not a numbers game, it's about quality, pleasure and enjoyment

 

2. To get specific, How many people have you -

a. slept with

I prefer to be active with others rather than sleeping :)
b. kissed (in a romantic way, obviously)

Countless, and kissing is always expected
c. given oral to

A very similar number to 2b, it's all part of the enjoyment package for me
d. received oral from

Lower than 2b/c and it's not something that is make or break for me, it's all about enjoying together
etc.

 

3. What is the most amount of people you have been with at one time? (twosome, threesome, foursome, etc)

A sixteensome on the beach at Cap d'Agde with Yummy :)

 

4. Have you ever had multiple partners in the same day, just different times? (One person in the morning, another at lunch, and one at dinner, etc)

My birthday trip to Edinburgh with Yummy last year was very memorable for that reason :)

 

Bonus: Describe your best multiple person encounter, either something that actually happened or one that you would want to happen. Or both. 

I guess that I still have fond memories of my early multiple encounters, really because at the time it was so new and there was excitement about entering the unknown and just essentially living out a fantasy thinking, 'Wow, I'm actually doing this. I never thought that it would ever happen in my life'.

 

Whilst I am certainly in no way jaded or take multiple encounters for granted these days, Yummy and I simply go to our local club or meet other people as a regular couple would say, 'Do you fancy a trip to the cinema?' To carry on the cinema analogy, we are discerning about what is showing and won't go if there is nothing on that we fancy. There have been a number of times when we have visited clubs and simply sat in the bar, not even removing our clothing as there has been no-one that we have wanted to play with. So going back to Q1 one. Yes, it's exciting at first and you are just pleased to be invited to join if you have not done it before, but once that period has passed. Quality over quantity every time for me.

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Something for the weekend #15

It's week 15 :)

In bed cover in his seed after morning pleasures and just realised I haven't posted my SFTW. Last night we ended up at the Dungeon Club, it was quieter than usual but than gave us pretty much free use of every implement and table in the dungeon. Needless to say I have a tender bottom this morning (I've posted a picat the bottom of here) BUT the most pleasure came after we got home. 

YSL got out the liberator ramp which we haven't used since I did a backward roll almost tipsy the day I got them! 

I thoroughly enjoyed using it, the angle it put me in made it feel easy and natural just to have my legs fully apart and exposing my cunt which YSL claim as his to abuse along with my other hole. After plenty of lick, fucking and fingering, me squirting everywhere, YSL then proceeded to fuck my arse for a good hour.

Now I'm just waiting for my croissant and fresh coffee he is grinding downstairs  :)



Dont forget to message me if you want to be the featured blog ..Any contributors that want to send over a "introduction to there blog" and a picture to tease I will do one a week.

Feel free to nominate a blog you enjoy as well and share the love!!

What it's all about?

With about lots visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that  gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.


I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT.

I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade. If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one!

I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.


A few simple rules:
1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once


2) The post should be sex or relationship related, it can be erotica, education, discussion or pictures/video


3) DO NOT USE YOUR POST TITLE, unless it describes what the post is about, tell the reader what is about e.g Photos and details of 3some, Male sex toy review and pictures, Thoughts on Poly Relationships.If your unsure just ask and I will amend


4) Add a link  using code on the side bar to let people you are part of the SFTW community


5) Tell people to visit if you are using social media, this is about helping other bloggers in the community so share the joy and it benefits us all

Submissions now open.....

TMI - navigating sex

My answers 

1. Answer Yes or No:

I Regret My First Kiss - Yes

I Miss My First Love - no (as I'm still married to him)

I Married My First Love - yes

I Loved Someone That Didn’t Love Me - no

2. Do you consider yourself monogamous or polyamorous or some other category which you will explain or define for us now?

I'm 'Havinmycakeandeaterous'!

My marriage works as I get all that's missing from my lover. The sex, adventure and passion that was missing to the point of neglect is no longer a stress or concern for me.

3. Your partner is in the mood for sex and you are tired – what do you do?

a. Start snoring. There is no way I’m giving it up tonight.

b. Trade. You give me a massage… and we will see…

c. That would never happen!

With YSL it would never happen. Just being in the room with him turns me on. Illness would be the only reason I would withhold sex but I also know it would never be sought in that circumstance. 

4. Does your partner mind if you masturbate, in bed, when they are there?

It is actively encouraged by YSL, he often wakes to find me masturbating and enjoys just listening to my moans. 

5. Describe your typical sexual romp:

a. You are playful and tame

b. You have occasionally introduced a few things like outfits and toys

c. You love trying new things and shocking your partner

I will go with all of the above!

Bonus: What was your best ever masturbation experience. Why was it the best? Describe.

Last night comes close, YSL impaled my arse on his cock in spoons position and then put my leg over his hip. He held me so tight, not moving his cock, just filling me, then masturbated me until I couldn't cum any more

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And YSL's answers 

1. Answer Yes or No:
I Regret My First Kiss - No
I Miss My First Love - No
I Married My First Love - No
I Loved Someone That Didn’t Love Me - No

2. Do you consider yourself monogamous or polyamorous or some other category which you will explain or define for us now?

Polyamorous without permission

3. Your partner is in the mood for sex and you are tired – what do you do?
a. Start snoring. There is no way I’m giving it up tonight.
b. Trade. You give me a massage… and we will see…
c. That would never happen!

For any relationship to work and this includes the sexual side, there has to be open and clear communications, so with Yummy, where the above does happen......and it does, I clearly explain that I just physically can't do it, although the mental desire is always there

4. Does your partner mind if you masturbate, in bed, when they are there?

Yummy always seems to take it as a signal that play is about to commence!!

5. Describe your typical sexual romp:
a. You are playful and tame
b. You have occasionally introduced a few things like outfits and toys
c. You love trying new things and shocking your partner

'C' with an adjustment. Not sure about the word 'shock'. Whilst welcome surprises may sometimes come in to play, I wouldn't wish to shock anyone.

Bonus: What was your best ever masturbation experience. Why was it the best? Describe.

Not sure that there has ever been the 'one', but I very much enjoy masturbating whilst Yummy sits on my face and covers me with her juices