Tuesday 31 December 2013

Happy New Year

First thank you to all my readers, lurkers and commentators alike, my twitter friends and fellow bloggers. I hope 2013 was everything  you wished for and 2014 brings you more.

It's been a strange year for me blog wise. Following the blog awards ridicousness and the stream of hateful messages for months after and continued trolling by misguided idiots I have struggled to keep up posting as much. I started blogging to have an outlet and a friend to talk to about my adventures and I have neither the time or requirement of negativity or abuse so I have not felt inclined to share as much. 

I'm still undecided on whether to take the blog private or even retire it. Time will tell this year I'm sure. 

It's 18mths since Mum died and I'm able to reflect these days on the positive memories which I now find a comfort. Dad recently announced he is getting married which I feel uneasy with for so many reasons but mainly as the new girlfriend is isolating him from us. I'm trying not to be selfish but it's hard when he has been so close and integral to the family I hate him being taken away from us.

Home life is much the same, I've lost count of the years since me and the husband were last intimate, at a guess if say 6 or 7 years now. Thankfully YSL fills this void in my life as I'm pleased we are still together as a family unit. The kids are a source of such joy, they are growing into such wonderful people and I do think having a stable happy family home is key to their continued development.

2013 has been a great year for myself and YSL, as ever I've found him a source of strength, a person to confide in and I feel deeply loved and wanted by him. This year we travelled to Cap D'Agde again, our 3rd year we have managed a full weeks holiday there together. We have had many trips away in the UK and indulged in more new swingers clubs including CJ's in Glasgow and Chameleons in Birmingham, the later being our favourite. 

We have experienced some amazing group sex, BDSM acts and as ever thoroughly enjoyed each other in a sexual sense. We've also endured some dire sexual encounters that thankfully we can laugh about and count as a learning experience.

More so in the past few months we have provided such support to each other business wise. YSL has listened when I needed an ear and given my reassurance at a much needed time. 

2014 may bring change as YSL might be working out if the area for a long period but I'm confident that whatever changes it brings we will cope with, adapt and continue our relationship. 

Thank you YSL for being there for me, I couldn't love you more xxxx


Monday 30 December 2013

Cap D'Agde Club review - Le Tantra

Le Tantra

www.letantra.com

Open 11:00 - 05.00

 

The website is up to date and there is good information about the dress code, which is the usual stuff of sexy for ladies and closed toe shoes, trousers and shirts for men, the entry fees, however whilst the photographs of the club are accurate and up to date, they certainly don't do any justice to the place and it is much nicer than the pics suggest.

 

Le Tantra is no Le Glamour (but then, what is.....anywhere in the world???), however we really like this club as it has a good atmosphere, is kept in good order by the owner/manager who is always visible and the place is very clean. We have visited a couple of times per week on each of our three trips to Cap d'Agde and with Le Glamour being a must do for us on Saturday/Friday and Sunday eveningchill out at 2+2 each year, we have been there on Monday to Thursdays.

 

It seems to be an ever changing club, following the previous incarnation of it being burnt down in 2008 (along with other clubs at Cap) as it simply had a small, but good, outdoor upstairs terrace in 2011, along with the main club downstairs and in 2012 the terrace was extended and includes a large seating/fucking area along with a retractable roof, which makes things much more agreeable temperature wise on cooler evenings.

 

The location is just a few seconds walk down a path away from Port Nature next to where the steps are around the shops/restaurants that are near to the beach and it is highly visible with a brightly lit, white palm tree directing the way. At the entrance is a ticket box and couples entry is €20 with two drinks and this is also the cloakroom. Down a couple of steps takes you in to the club itself. The first part of the club is relatively small, it has a dancefloor with seating around it, a pole at the side and opposite is the bar and standing area with the DJ booth at the end of the bar.

 

The music is dance, sound is good quality and the atmosphere has always been very positive on our visits. At the bottom of the bar room is a doorway that lead in to the play section. It always has a security presence on it and no glasses are allowed beyond that point. The lighting is dull and it is a long narrow sliver of a room with various beds and play areas down it with a shower at the far end. People do play along there and we have done in previous years and found it very enjoyable, however the greatest thing that we currently like is just standing under the air conditioning machine that is blasting out very welcome freezing cold air!!

 

The upstairs outdoor terrace is reached by heading back out of the main club and going up the outdoor stairs that are opposite the ticket office. Beware, the heights on the steps are very uneven all of the way and whilst you can see it going up, it could be a nasty surprise coming down, especially after a few drinks.

 

At the top of the stairs is a area that anyone can be in and it also includes a medical table. However the best bit of the terrace is by turning left, once again past a security presence, and this take you in to the couples only section. We have always found it busy in there and of course there is a clamour of single guys at the doorway wanting to see what is going on, and wishing they were in there.

 

The centre of the terrace features a large four poster play bed and around it are seated alcoves and a bar at the end. Music playing upstairs and once again a very positive vibe.

 

On all of our visits, we haven't actually joined in and played with others there, simply because the opportunity has not presented itself and we found that people very much kept in their own groups, but perhaps that is either just us or the nights that we went. Having said this, we did take a Swiss couple there this year that we met in a bar earlier in the evening.....and whilst he was fine, she was rubbish!!

 

Over the years that we have been going there, the owner has taken a special interest in Yummy, i.e. motorboating her breasts and enjoying playing with her cootch and he really does it in such a nice way and always remembers us every year. He knows that we are not a 'free for all' couple and the first year we knew him when he was enjoying Yummy, some unfortunate single guy thought that it was open season and he was unceremoniously told 'priveet paartee' (French accent) and sent on his way. Later on, the owner even brought us up complimentary sparkling wine on the terrace too!!

 

A good club with a good atmosphere and although group play is not guaranteed by any means, we have always had a great night there.

Monday 23 December 2013

Snoopify

YSL showed me a daft new app he had downloaded and took a picture of me in bed earlier then 'snoopified' me. 

I thought I would do an enthusiastic response!!

Sunday 22 December 2013

Sinful Sunday - Stuffed and tenderised


I had a horrid week, the tension head ache and hadn't slept all night. As the painkillers started to work YSL started to massage my body, slowly and lovingly. The pain ebbed away as he kissed my forehead and it gave way to increased arousal. He turned me over and continued to caress me, I closed my eyes and felt lost to him. He left the room and return with something, I didn't care to look, I just wanted to feel.

He started to spank me, gently at first and building the warmth. He parted my cheeks and lubed my hole, his finger slipped inside before the cold hard pressure if the butt plug was felt. The sting was more than I expected and made me growl and bite at the pillow. I needed the pain and the release was welcome. 

The spanking started again, this time harder, quicker, so much more intense. He stopped and his fingers pushed between my thighs and before I could draw breath his hand was inside me. I was so full and about to cum.

He is everything I ever need

and more. 



Sinful Sunday

Sunday 15 December 2013

Sinful Sunday - covered


Covered in jets of warm cum as we take turns masturbating each other at our hotel earlier this week. 

Sinful Sunday

Monday 9 December 2013

Just doing the washing up


Checked into a luxury apartment for a night of pleasure with YSL, guest joining us shortly. 

Sunday 8 December 2013

Sinful Sunday - aroused for me


I love that from touching me YSL becomes so aroused, it turns me on and gives me the confidence in his desire for me.

Sorry not been posting much, been on the receiving end of continued hate messages and it's become a tad wearing.

Sinful Sunday

Friday 6 December 2013

Something for the weekend #43

How to get involved with Something for the weekend...

With lots visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.

We love new blogs, don't be shy, add you link and become part of the community. I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT. I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade.  If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one! I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.

 A few simple rules:

 1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once

 2) The post should be sex or relationship related, it can be erotica, education, discussion or pictures/video

 3) DO NOT USE YOUR POST TITLE, unless it describes what the post is about, tell the reader what is about e.g Photos and details of 3some, Male sex toy review and pictures, Thoughts on Poly Relationships.If your unsure just ask and I will amend

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Thursday 28 November 2013

Something for the weekend #42

How to get involved with Something for the weekend... 

With lots visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.

We love new blogs, don't be shy, add you link and become part of the community. I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT. I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade.  If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one! I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.

 A few simple rules:

 1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once

 2) The post should be sex or relationship related, it can be erotica, education, discussion or pictures/video

 3) DO NOT USE YOUR POST TITLE, unless it describes what the post is about, tell the reader what is about e.g Photos and details of 3some, Male sex toy review and pictures, Thoughts on Poly Relationships.If your unsure just ask and I will amend

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Sunday 24 November 2013

Sinful Sunday - hold it




Better late than never! Just back from family weekend away.

This image was taken in Cap D'Agde, YSL had just filled me using the anal douche kit and then plugged be before he fucked me to orgasm.

Sinful Sunday

Thursday 21 November 2013

Something for the weekend #41



How to get involved with Something for the weekend... 

With lots visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.

We love new blogs, don't be shy, add you link and become part of the community. I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT. I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade.  If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one! I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.

 A few simple rules:

 1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once

 2) The post should be sex or relationship related, it can be erotica, education, discussion or pictures/video

 3) DO NOT USE YOUR POST TITLE, unless it describes what the post is about, tell the reader what is about e.g Photos and details of 3some, Male sex toy review and pictures, Thoughts on Poly Relationships.If your unsure just ask and I will amend

 4) Add a link using code on the side bar to let people you are part of the SFTW community Tell people to visit if you are using social media, this is about helping other bloggers in the community so share the joy and it benefits us all.

Saturday 16 November 2013

A full sexual history


When we first met I recall explaining to YSL that i was a blogger, just for my own pleasure but I felt it right he should know from the outset as from the first night I hoped he would feature in my adventure. Whilst I shared this information i did not share the details of it as I wanted him to get to know me and like me for who I was with him not what I had done with others. He seemed happy with my request and it wasn't until about 4 months into our relationship, the first time we spent a weekend away together that I shared the URL.

Until this week YSL still hadn't read the back story, I've always been open about my past and experiences both good and bad but that's different to reading the intimate details. On Wednesday YSL informed me that he had read the blog, every single post and picture. my heart felt like it was stuck in my throat until I discovered it was all good.

We spent the night sipping drinks and discussing some of my experiences. Something I hadn't expected had occurred from YSL reading the blog., he had been aroused and even masturbated over it. Most of my blog had reinforced many things I like, it had explained my thoughts behind many things that we have experienced since together giving him a deeper understanding to me and what I enjoy.

The best thing though that has occurred is that YSL has seen in perspective just how much I value our relationship and how very different our relationship is to what I have previously experienced.
 
Wednesday nights sex was electric, the passion we had for each other was like we had just met but with the knowledge and experience of each other. The excitement between us feels like it has gone to another level and the closeness like nothing I've experienced.

 

 

Thursday 14 November 2013

Something for the weekend #40

I've just seen that last weeks didn't publish! So sorry, not sure if any if you blog via iPhone, having a few issues with the blogger app I'm using since the big update.

Any way.... 

Had an amazing week so far, seen YSL every day and even managed a sleepover last night. 

For the first time ever YSL has read my back posts. When we first met and I shared the blog with him I asked him not to read old stuff until he knew me for who I am. He stuck to his word and then time was never there for him to read the 800 posts! 

I was apprehensive at first when he said he had read them all and was ready for the questions. I will right about it all in the next few days, I was shocked by his reaction.


How to get involved with Something for the weekend... 

With lots visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.

We love new blogs, don't be shy, add you link and become part of the community. I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT. I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade.  If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one! I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.

 A few simple rules:

 1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once

 2) The post should be sex or relationship related, it can be erotica, education, discussion or pictures/video

 3) DO NOT USE YOUR POST TITLE, unless it describes what the post is about, tell the reader what is about e.g Photos and details of 3some, Male sex toy review and pictures, Thoughts on Poly Relationships.If your unsure just ask and I will amend

 4) Add a link using code on the side bar to let people you are part of the SFTW community Tell people to visit if you are using social media, this is about helping other bloggers in the community so share the joy and it benefits us all.

Friday 8 November 2013

Police prevented sex!

It's been an dry spell sex wise for me and YSL, between work an d family holidays I've only seen him once prior to last night. 

I've been so aroused waiting for last night. I had time yesterday morning to masturbate and I was tempted as I was so wound up but I decided not to and savour the moment to share with YSL.

I gig his a little early and wait for him. I had been in the kitchen but hadn't noticed what YSL was about to discover. Someone had tried to break in and had smash the window on the door!! 

Once we check no one had managed to get in and nothing had been taken YSL called the police. I had to go as I couldn't risk being on a police statement so I headed to the local supermarket and sipped tea slowly. 

Once they had left I returned and cooked tea, whilst I was in need of sexual attention we also needed tea and to calm down. The scenes of crime guys were also due so clothes were needed to remain on. 

We waited, kisses, caressed and waited more.... No sign of them and I needed to leave. YSL offered to give me some relief but I wanted everything and I would rather wait until the morning to enjoy the moment.

I had a restless night, waking to find my fingers between my thighs, I was soaked. 

The school run done I drive straight to YSL's but was confused to discover him dressed and downstairs as opposed to naked in bed waiting for me. The glazier was due between 9 and 12!!!! 

A strong coffee was needed and we both got on with some work to distract us from the urge to pounce on each other. I needed to leave by 12 for a meeting so every moment counted. By 11 I had resigned myself to another week without sex. Again YSL offered to masturbate me but I wanted all of him, not just him trying to placate my sexual needs. Besides I think it would only make me worse.

The door went and the glazier got to work. Thankfully he was pretty quick and as he drove off my clothes were hitting the bedroom floor. We had 20 minutes and I was planning on making every second count.

We held each other close and I could feel his cock grow hard instantly and he move to between my thighs. I felt every inch of him slip inside me as he held my ankles.

He slowly moved inside me until my first orgasm started to build and he increased the depth and how hard with each thrust until I was shuddering with my orgasm.

He passed the Hitachi and continued to fuck me but instructed me to masturbate at the same time. I was off the chart, I'm sure I was screaming but I was too busy enjoying him fill me with his cock to care.

He was near coming but he wanted me to come again and I could see him holding off. As me orgasm broke his cum jetted out of him and spurted inside of me.

It might of been if fastest sex but damn it was worth it!

Thursday 31 October 2013

Something for the weekend #39

Happy Halloween!!

Kids have been out trick or treating and I'm having a big family party at the weekend. I might post a glimps of my outfit if I can.

After 2 weeks without him I managed to spend Tuesday afternoon in YSL's arms. I felt like I melted as he held me, it was just heaven. The sex the followed was wonderful, it was almost worth the 2 week abstinence!


How to get involved with Something for the weekend... 

With lots visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.

We love new blogs, don't be shy, add you link and become part of the community. I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT. I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade.  If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one! I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.

 A few simple rules:

 1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once

 2) The post should be sex or relationship related, it can be erotica, education, discussion or pictures/video

 3) DO NOT USE YOUR POST TITLE, unless it describes what the post is about, tell the reader what is about e.g Photos and details of 3some, Male sex toy review and pictures, Thoughts on Poly Relationships.If your unsure just ask and I will amend

 4) Add a link using code on the side bar to let people you are part of the SFTW community Tell people to visit if you are using social media, this is about helping other bloggers in the community so share the joy and it benefits us all.

Saturday 26 October 2013

Sinful Sunday - Tan lines

Just back from a week away, not as eventful as my last holiday though!

I felt uncomfortable sunbathing and certainly didn't get a chance to go topless. I also heard today that there was a nudest beach area at our resort that I clearly missed!!



Sinful Sunday



Friday 25 October 2013

Self doubt

Last trip away with YSL was to Cap D'Agde, the naked city. Despite being a 'big girl' YSL has my body confidence high, making me feel comfortable with who I am. Ever since I met him he had me feeling this way. I remember the liberating feeling of not needing to hide behind the sexy lingerie but to enjoy just being naked with him, even if it was just to make cocktails in his kitchen. 

I wrote this May 2011:

My new lover (to be refered to as YSL from now on)first approached me as my profile said BBW, I've always used that in my title as I dont want any guy thinking some thin chick is going to turn up on a meet.

Years ago I used to hide away under unflattering clothes, the post baby years the worst but I rediscovered myself and whilst nothing physically changed, I didnt loose weight, it was the mental change that made me more attractive. I decided I would love myself, I would be happy with my own body image. If I wasnt happy I should do something about it.

It took some time to grow to love myself, I used to slip some sexy underwear on and lie on the bed playing with myself, seeing if I could enjoy just being with me, clearly this has worked because I now adoring lying back and playing with nothing more than some naughty heels on.

I also used to avoid wearing heels because im so tall but that again came with the growth in confidence, these days I have no challenge walking into a room whatever the occasion in 5 inch heels and being the tallest by far.

Just last week YSL asked me to stand naked before him naked, even though we have become close quite quickly I still gulped at the thought of doing this as whilst over the past 3 year I have made major leaps with body confidence I still hide behind the sexy undies and the stockings... YSL doesnt want that, he wants raw natural me.

I was quivering the first time I did it. He reads me well and he holds me tight after and tells me how much he adores me, every inch. I believe him, his eyes and his physical reaction to me are very apparent and appreciative.


I know YSL's preference is for the fuller figure and I don't expect to be many mens 'type' but I have always felt in his company that I was good enough.

The last trip away with YSL was literally only last month but the contrast to this holiday with how I feel about myself is vast. I couldn't pin point one conversation or comment that has me where I am but the small chipping away from husband and my father this week has had me not wanting to be seen outside in my swimsuit. Added to that a few to many cruel messagesegt on the blog my self esteem is at an all time low I found myself not being able to look myself in the mirror this week. I have never felt this way for such a long time and I dislike how it has effected my enjoyment. I sincerely hope back home I can dust this back off and get back to my normal self.






Something for the weekend #38

Sorry for delay, haven't been able to get in wifi, currently on holiday with the family.

Been a great week family wise but a strange one personally. Hoping to blog about it later. 

How to get involved with Something for the weekend... 

With lots visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.

We love new blogs, don't be shy, add you link and become part of the community. I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT. I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade.  If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one! I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.

 A few simple rules:

 1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once

 2) The post should be sex or relationship related, it can be erotica, education, discussion or pictures/video

 3) DO NOT USE YOUR POST TITLE, unless it describes what the post is about, tell the reader what is about e.g Photos and details of 3some, Male sex toy review and pictures, Thoughts on Poly Relationships.If your unsure just ask and I will amend

 4) Add a link using code on the side bar to let people you are part of the SFTW community Tell people to visit if you are using social media, this is about helping other bloggers in the community so share the joy and it benefits us all.


Thursday 17 October 2013

Something for the weekend #37

Packed and ready for my holiday day with the family, looking forward to quality time with the kids and getting done rest and relaxation in for myself. I might be a tad quiet on twitter so apologies in advance... I will be back soon!



How to get involved with Something for the weekend... 

With lots visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.

We love new blogs, don't be shy, add you link and become part of the community. I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT. I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade.  If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one! I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.

 A few simple rules:

 1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once

 2) The post should be sex or relationship related, it can be erotica, education, discussion or pictures/video

 3) DO NOT USE YOUR POST TITLE, unless it describes what the post is about, tell the reader what is about e.g Photos and details of 3some, Male sex toy review and pictures, Thoughts on Poly Relationships.If your unsure just ask and I will amend

 4) Add a link using code on the side bar to let people you are part of the SFTW community Tell people to visit if you are using social media, this is about helping other bloggers in the community so share the joy and it benefits us all.

Saturday 12 October 2013

Sinful Sunday - room service

We stayed away earlier in the week and met up with done friends. After a full night of fun we ordered our selves a treat from room services.... And whilst the steak sandwich was delicious I enjoyed the other tasty portion of meat YSL served me :) 

I was generous and gave him some room service of his own to enjoy.


Go see who else played...
Sinful Sunday


Friday 11 October 2013

Proud to call him my lover


I've been swinging off and on for over 5 years now and in my time I've been fortunate to meet some really great guys, most if which I can still call a friend to this day. But along side those great people lies a long list of failures, the extremes of which upon reflection have me giggle and horrified that I even order a coffee, I should of just turned on my heels the second I saw them.

From the moment I met YSL I knew I was on to something good, the immediate connection intellectually and sexual was electric. 

Even from the early months other couples would comment about how connected we were, I remember our first swingers club visit together the couple at the end of the bar couldn't believe we had just met of a swingers website and that was before we had love in our dynamic, it was just pure lust.

These days when in a group environment I love to sit back and watch at times, I love the moment the other see YSL's cock grow, I adore seeing a woman receive oral from him like nothing they have experienced before and the moment his hard cock enters them they get to appreciate just what I get from him sexually. I've expressed this explanation before... It's like ordering the best meal in the restaurant and whilst you want to eat it all yourself you want someone else to toast it and to appreciate what it is you have.

But my pride in having YSL as my lover goes much further than that... His sexual ability and stamina I have yet to see matched (I would thoroughly enjoy the moment it is) our male friend this week, who we have played with previously commented that YSL was clearly not human!

The core of my pride though lies in YSL's sexual intelligence, his impeccable manners and social skills. Most of my previous swinging disasters have come down to a social mismatch, the blatant lack of care for others, the other party's selfish attitude to sex and of course poor hygiene!!! 

I'm always proud to be with him and to him my lover.

Something for the weekend #36

Sorry I'm a tad late posting! I was a tad busy with work... Today though I'm taking the day off.

Had fun earlier this week with a naughty foursome, my favourite moment has to be when our lady friend climbed on my face then YSL opened my thighs and fucked me while sucking the other guy... Not that I saw that bit as I was busy eating cunt.



How to get involved with Something for the weekend... 

With lots visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.

We love new blogs, don't be shy, add you link and become part of the community. I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT. I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade.  If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one! I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.

 A few simple rules:

 1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once

 2) The post should be sex or relationship related, it can be erotica, education, discussion or pictures/video

 3) DO NOT USE YOUR POST TITLE, unless it describes what the post is about, tell the reader what is about e.g Photos and details of 3some, Male sex toy review and pictures, Thoughts on Poly Relationships.If your unsure just ask and I will amend

 4) Add a link using code on the side bar to let people you are part of the SFTW community Tell people to visit if you are using social media, this is about helping other bloggers in the community so share the joy and it benefits us all.


Sunday 6 October 2013

Sinful Sunday - back to school prompt

A little bit of old school punishment for me being a naughty girl for sir. It's an image from my archives but one of my favourites.


Sinful Sunday

Thursday 3 October 2013

Something for the weekend #35

Spent a couple of evenings with YSL this week and they have been wonderfully chilled, especially given how busy and hectic the last week has been. We lost a grand parent and had the car broken into so in sure you can imagine that it's been a tad stressful.

On Tuesday I hadn't realised how much I needed to come until YSL disappeared under the duvet and devoured my cunt until I was a shuddering wreck. He proceeded to make live to me and my final orgasm reduced me to tears, I was so overwhelmed and relieved I just let go. YSL held me, it was like the reset button had been pressed.



How to get involved with Something for the weekend... 

With lots visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.

We love new blogs, don't be shy, add you link and become part of the community. I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT. I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade.  If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one! I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.

 A few simple rules:

 1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once

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Sunday 29 September 2013

Sinful Sunday - toe to toe

This was taken on our holiday to Cap D'Agde, we went in the see and got playful with our waterproof camera.

I love this shot, whilst it's not reflecting the naughty events around us it does show the tranquil feeling that being in the water naked together gave us.

Just after this was taken YSL was hard and entered me from behind, the waves kept surging us forward though making it hard to stay together. He re entered me but this time he wrapped his legs around me and I held him. It was anamalistic, him attached and inside me, pumping hard and deep as I staggered in the surf.



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Sinful Sunday

Thursday 26 September 2013

Something for the weekend #34

Just getting ready to meet a couple with YSL, we met them earlier in the year and had a great night (except for the guy wanting to play 'Ben' to name one of many ill fitting tunes for the occasion)

How to get involved with Something for the weekend... 

With lots visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.

We love new blogs, don't be shy, add you link and become part of the community. I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT. I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade.  If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one! I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.

 A few simple rules:

 1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once

 2) The post should be sex or relationship related, it can be erotica, education, discussion or pictures/video

 3) DO NOT USE YOUR POST TITLE, unless it describes what the post is about, tell the reader what is about e.g Photos and details of 3some, Male sex toy review and pictures, Thoughts on Poly Relationships.If your unsure just ask and I will amend

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Wednesday 25 September 2013

Awesome video in breast cancer

This has to be the best video I have ever seen, even you guys might appreciate the humour whilst it gives an educational message.


Here is the link in case it doesn't work in your browser 
http://youtu.be/VsyE2rCW71o
Watch it until the very end, the doctor certainly surprised me!

Top Sex Blogger

A blogger called Rori, from http://www.betweenmysheets.com/ each year gives her time to create a list of the top 100 adult blogs, it's her personal choice not a vote or anything but its a great reference point for people to discover new blogs. 2 years ago I made the list for the first time, I was just getting established as a blogger and it meant the world to me, it meant I was aknowledged by the blogging community and I got lots of traffic.

As a blog reader, enjoying free fresh writing, photography and videos this your time to say thank you to the people behind the blogs. Head over and nominate any blog you love, it only takes a minute to do:


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Saturday 21 September 2013

Sinful Sunday - smiles, breasts, water etc

I think I shall let the picture say everything this week.

Don't forget to check out who else played by clicking on the link below xx



Sinful Sunday

Thursday 19 September 2013

Something for the weekend #33

Not seen much of YSL this week but the time we did have on Tuesday certainly made up for it. Even today when I sat down at work I could still feel the after effects of the thorough pussy spanking I received. How to get involved with Something for the weekend... 

With lots visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.

 We love new blogs, don't be shy, add you link and become part of the community. I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT. I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade. If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one! I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.

 A few simple rules:

 1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once

 2) The post should be sex or relationship related, it can be erotica, education, discussion or pictures/video

 3) DO NOT USE YOUR POST TITLE, unless it describes what the post is about, tell the reader what is about e.g Photos and details of 3some, Male sex toy review and pictures, Thoughts on Poly Relationships.If your unsure just ask and I will amend

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 Submissions now open!

Wednesday 18 September 2013

Elust #50

mia Photo courtesy of Down the Rabbit Hole

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #51? Start with the newly updated rules, come back October 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

When the sex isn't great

The Least You Can Do

I don't know how to dominate

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

TO THE MAN WHO OWNS MY SUBMISSION

Why I Need Him There.

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

First lesbian love

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Erotic Non-Fiction

Dressing Up for Master
2 nights of great sex - Monday
Marking My Body
Let's Get It On
Better Lucky Than Good
starry night
Master's Filthy Whore
Silence
Watching
Eat Dust
We Made a Sex Tape
Incapable of Thinking
Spank Bank

Erotic Fiction

Hickory, dickory, dock...
Oatmeal and Almost Orgasms
Classroom Adventure
The Inspection
The Hood
Opportunity Knocks
Little Red
Remember Me
Scorched Flesh
Awakening
Lolita Twenty-Thirteen, Part Eight
So Easily Bruised
Under the Desk

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

The Q&A's of Stainless Steel Sex Toys
Triggers and PTSD
Palate Cleanser
Relationships: Is a sexless marriage normal?
Why Premature Ejaculation is Hot
Casual Encounters on trains and at stations
I wouldn’t really class a client as a lover

Blogging

Introducing Me
Why Bad Sex Toy Reviews Are Important
You never know who you’re going to meet.

Poetry

I want. . .
The Grand Old Duke of York ...

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Penis Truths

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Strap-on Sex & Empowerment
Never Thought
Two Cocks, One Mouth, One Excited Jade
Aural Sex
Why I Stay Silent
Sub in Space
Hotter Sex Through Intellect
Nazisploitation and how it relates to BDSM
Service and Ritual
No Stupid (Kink) Questions: Episode 18 – SSC
Kink of the week: Exhibitionism
Pegging: Fun for men, awesome for women


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Tuesday 17 September 2013

2 et 2 sex spa review - Cap D'Agde

2 et 2

http://nathammam.free.fr/le2et2/sommaire.html

12:00 - 18:00 and 20:00 - 02:00

 

Another website that is hopelessly out of date (2003) and the pictures are nothing like what the place looks like now. The website shows velvet reds and a generally cheap looking wood finish, however the reality is far more appealing.

 

This is a chilled out spa as opposed to a full on dance/fucking club experience and very restful, but still arousing and erotic.

 

The exterior is black and white tiled and there are two entrances. One is for 2 et 2, which is for couples only and next door is called Histoire d'O which is for single males. As a couple we go in the 2 et 2 entrance and the fee is €35. You are given your towels and a locker key and buzzed in to the changing room opposite the reception desk. Off with all of the clothes and the dress code is wrap yourself in a towel.

 

You then come out of the changing room through the metal chain curtain into the bar area. All soft drinks and coffee are complimentary and alcoholic drinks are to pay for and added to a tab for when you depart. Don't bother with the house red wine at €5 a glass, it ain't great.

 

Next to the bar there is a seating area that is well maintained with staff constantly placing back cushions in their rightful place and the decor is tranquil with clean well maintained white upholstery. Throughout the spa there is very soothing low key music to set the mood, and if your mood isn't set, there are plasma screens playing hard core pornography to assist, although they are aren't obtrusive.

 

Following the path of the spa around, to the left are the toilets and a little further round to the right, there is the first of the play areas with a large sofa style section and opposite it a more cosy little caged section. Following the corridor down, out to the left leads you to the wet spa section. Through the double doors and it is straight into the pool area. A very nice room with a series of tastefully installed showers with an interesting pebble floor below them situated opposite the pool itself which has a constant flow of water entering it, seating around the edge and great for having fun in.

 

Through the next door is the steam room, once again a good size, seating around the edge and a mosaic massage table built in to the room too.

 

Back out of the wet area and turn left, we enter the main room. It is dominated by what can be best described a large raised play area. Simply climb aboard and enjoy!!! The atmosphere is low key, quiet, sensual and arousing. Quiet play between couples and sometimes groups. A few appear to come here as 4somes and others make up 4somes as they play, but it isn't always guaranteed and a lot of couples seem to prefer to keep to themselves and simply enjoy each other in the relaxed environment.

 

In two corners of the room, there are a couple of private rooms behind metal chain curtains, where occasionally more vigorous action can be heard. They are not closed off and couples often wander up and become voyeurs for a few minutes before moving on.

 

And that is it for the couples side, however, you can visit the male side too from the internal door that runs between the two sides. The Histoire d'O side can be visited by couples, but no males are allowed in the 2 et 2 side, even by invitation. To get through, you press a buzzer and a member of staff remotely unlocks the door for you. This side is just as clean and chilled as the couples side, there are a usually a reasonable number of men in there and they have always been very cool when we have visited as opposed to pouncing on couples as soon as they enter. This side has toilets, a pool, St Andrews cross, open beds and private rooms. the far end of the corridor contains a bar area with lounge seating and of course pornography on the plasma.

 

We really do love this place as it is so relaxing, the clientele is always really cool and it is very well maintained, however if you are looking for party central, this won't be for you. A lovely place that is always a pleasure to visit.

Here is a post sharing an arousing night we enjoyed there on our 2013 visit.

Saturday 14 September 2013

Sinful Sunday - I was taking the pic

We were lucky enough to meet an amazing couple while away in Cap D'Adge. We first met them at the mousse party and then we enjoyed them on the beach the following day.

If we live in the same country we would be making regular plans to meet up they were on our wave length. 

I took this picture while we playfully enjoyed each other in the sea. Check out the shore line, the hoards of naked people all enjoying each other in the sunshine!




Sinful Sunday

Friday 13 September 2013

A busy week

Been Busy with work and children after the holiday but we have managed to squeeze in quite a bit if together time.

I'm pleased we did, after the intense closeness if the week before I was feeling bereft of YSL on Sunday. 

Today has been the first day of no physical contact and the weekend will be the same. I will be keeping busy planning a family holiday and dozens of household chores but my head is just full of YSL! 

Yet again I feel we have taken our relationship to the next level. We are still both content in our independent relationships but I really feel the depth of our care for each other has grown (even if he did make me eat sheeps brains on holiday).

We took this image last night while enjoying each other.




Thursday 12 September 2013

Something for the weekend #32

I'm back! What an amazing week!!! Another week packed full of adventure, fun, loving and so much excitement! I posted lots of pictures on twitter each day (@heelsnstocking) but I will be pulling together the 'what I did on my holiday' homework over the next couple of weeks. More firsts as well!!! Some of it was mind blowing. How to get involved with Something for the weekend... 

With lots visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.

 We love new blogs, don't be shy, add you link and become part of the community. I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT. I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade. If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one! I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.

 A few simple rules:

 1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once

 2) The post should be sex or relationship related, it can be erotica, education, discussion or pictures/video

 3) DO NOT USE YOUR POST TITLE, unless it describes what the post is about, tell the reader what is about e.g Photos and details of 3some, Male sex toy review and pictures, Thoughts on Poly Relationships.If your unsure just ask and I will amend

 4) Add a link using code on the side bar to let people you are part of the SFTW community Tell people to visit if you are using social media, this is about helping other bloggers in the community so share the joy and it benefits us all.

 Submissions now open!

Wednesday 11 September 2013

Cap D'Agde club review: Le Glamour & Mousses Party

Yummy and YSL's Cap d'Agde club reviews

 


We have now been to the naturist village of Cap d'Agde three years running from 2011 and as I jokingly said to Yummy when disembarking from a flight to Paris last year (to see the city......erm, and the clubs), 'we are sex tourists', so there is no pretence that we are there to simply be naturists, we like to make the most of our time there both daytimes and evenings for not only enjoying each other, but to meet others, enjoy watching others and just having a good time. No Sudoku on the beach or early nights for us!!!!

 

With this in mind, as a week in Cap d'Agde goes by so quickly, and let's be honest, it's not a cheap place for going out of an evening with average club drinks running at €10 each, we of course wanted to read reviews of the clubs and bars to ensure that our time and money was spent wisely, and to be honest there is very little out on the internet that does this. The only two sites that we have ever found devoted to club reviews are http://extravaganza.voila.net/clubs.htmlwhich is a little outdated and certainly the images on the page do not show the exteriors of the clubs as they are today and the more superior, but still a little out of datehttp://www.feverparties.com/cap-dagde-clubs/

 

So, as far as we know, this is the only 2013 Cap d'Agde club review page.

 

It must be borne in mind that this is very much a subjective review of the clubs that we have visited over a three year period as part of our holidays there and most certainly not a cold, objective and balanced view where the idea was to specifically 'test the facilities'. They are as we saw them on the evenings we visited and how we felt the night went. We recognise that we haven't visited all of the clubs, and some of them we have deliberately  given a wide berth from purely due to what we could see of them from the outside. For all of the clubs, they are simply doors, with at most, all you can see is the reception/payment desk, so you don't know what you are going to get until you have paid your money and entered.

 

So then, on to the reviews and they are done in descending order of our preferences with number one being 'the best'!!!!

 

1. Le Glamour

www.leglamour.com

Open: 23:30 - 05:00

The website used to be really useful and helpful and also had a page that delivered mixes from the club, but sadly they decided to change it for 2013 and to be honest, it is no use whatsoever at the moment.

 

We have visited twice every year, once on our Saturday of arrival and then on our last evening, the following Friday. Every year we have found both nights quite different in the type of people who attend.

 

This club is not cheap. For a couple (and in high season it is strictly couples only) it is €60 entry with complimentary drink each. After that, it is €10 per drink. Yummy found an alternative payment method for entry that still carries on today, once again not cheap....but  cheaper, pay €140 on the door and you get couples entry and a full bottle of premium spirit with as much mixer as you want. Following entry, hand your ticket over the bar, tell them what bottle you would like, put your name on it and you are set for the night. You don't have to drink it all in one night, you can leave it behind the bar and come back tomorrow, however we have never done this :)

 

There is a cloakroom on the entry for bags, €3.

 

So you're a high roller and got the scrilla to enter, make sure you're dressed correct. It's sexy for ladies (no trousers) and smart for gents with closed toe shoes. We have seen plenty of people turned away, e.g. a great looking couple, but sadly the guy made the mistake of wearing sandals.

 

So then, we are dressed correct, we are in, we have dropped off our bag, got our drinks, what's next?

 

This is big club!!! We would say it is the best 'normal' nightclub that we have ever been in. The whole of the ground floor is one huge normal style club with three main bars. There is a dancefloor in front of one bar that has three poles for a spot of poledancing at the end of it, a section with scattered neon lights moving around, an outdoor area, a dancing cubicle with a shower above it for a bit of wet clothing entertainment and hard core porn is playing on the plasma screens. Most of the seating is white sofas and it can be difficult to get a seat as they often have reserved signs on them, but we have always done alright sitting on the stools at the bar.

 

The music is modern dance and fantastic. They have a great sound system in there which has clearly had a lot of investment in it as the volume is nightclub level, but you can easily have a conversation in there.

 

The clientele in there has been different just about every time we have visited. Our first visit was on a Saturday closing end of season night in 2011 and the place was filled with seriously rich young Europeans (Eurotrash) who had the white shoes, white trousers, floppy haircuts, toned and tanned and looked as if hard work and money wasn't an issue. We then went on the following Friday and it was full of regular holidaymakers. We have been when it has been filled with bikers and so forth, so the message is, don't have expectations on the type of person that will be in there. But no matter who is in there, the people will be interesting, they will have made an effort.....and so should you.

 

If you simply wished to have an evening of drinking, dancing and enjoying the people having fun around you, then simply stay on the ground floor and you will have a good time.......however, if you are looking for a little bit more, find the very small spiral staircase that is in the section at the top right of the dancefloor as you enter the club.

 

It is a very small and tight spiral which leads down to a dark maze. Turn right at the bottom of the stairs and you are in the toilettes but turn left and you then come to a junction that has two options, guarded by at least two members of staff. Turn left, anyone can go that way, turn right, it is couples only. If you go right, you must be there as a couple, no 'aw, but my girlfriend is dancing upstairs', it just won't be happening. So then first the left hand side. A very dim corridor with rooms leading off either side and some play beds that are placed in as part of the open corridor. There is one large private room that is lockable, but still has a hole in the door for naughty voyeurs. Our favourite room is the 'dark room' which is near the junction. When we say 'dark', it's not just dull/dim, this is full on, cannot see anything at all!!!! When you enter you need to gingerly move forward as you have no idea if anyone is there, where walls are, where beds or anything. Even lying down with Yummy, it is all a sense of touch, nothing can be seen at all. As Yummy knows, men will enter, feel their way around and if all is well, fucking occurs with a complete stranger and you have no idea who this person is......or was!!!

 

Turn right, and it is the couples only section. Once again, this is a maze style corridor with rooms leading off, some beds on open display and some lockable rooms. Of note, there is a little kink room that has a St Andrews cross, stocks and most importantly for us, a medical table with stirrups. Further along to the right is a room that we used to enjoy, but recent visits have proved to be a little disappointing, but maybes we just haven't gone at the right time. It is dark room, not pitch black, but certainly very dim that has a wooden section in the middle with holes cut out from the walls to allow hands to go from the outside to the in or perhaps cocks/breasts from the inside to the out. Apart from the very back of this room, it is standing only and as well as those outside 'copping a feel' of those on the inside, hands can wander freely inside. However, with the latter point, even on good nights we have seen no shortage of advances that were unwelcomed and even Yummy and YSL have had their hands unceremoniously slapped away on occasion.

 

At the end of the corridor there are a couple of sofas and there are shower facilities down there too.

 

In summary, it's all here. Dancing, drinking, fucking, fun and all in a very ordered, modern and clean environment. Sure, it's not cheap, but we feel that even if you only do it the once, it'll be an experience that will stay with you for the rest of your life and will always be remembered.

 

 

2. Mousse Parties (Le Glamour)

www.leglamour.com/#/mousses

Open 14:00 - 19:00

Once again, the official website provides you with no useful information whatsoever. We missed out on our first visit as we just saw the posters outside Le Glamour but really didn't pay them much attention as we went to the beach every day, but in 2012 we were curious about the Mousse and tried to search online about what happens and what is required to attend and it was only through lack of information that we decided to 'give it a go' on our final day........and what a day it was!!!

 

These are daytime parties held in the outdoor section of Le Glamour. Entrance is at the right hand side of the club as you face it, not the main entrance doors. The dress code is 'naked' and nothing else will do. €20 per couple entry (couples only) and €3 cloakroom charge and your personal belongings, flip flops etc go in a nice shiny Le Glamour bag which is yours to keep when you leave.

 

Everyone is completely naked, not even footwear and the ground is fine as it is very smooth concrete underfoot. You walk through a lounge area that has sofas, beds and general areas for erm, lounging (e.g. sex), past the bar, past the huge Jacuzzi and then towards the mousse/dance area. There is a DJ in a high up box on the left and next to him is the lengthy outdoor bar that is accessible when the club is open in the evening.

 

As with the evening club, the music is modern dance, sound system excellent and everyone dances naked in the mousse (foam). The foam is topped up on a regular basis from overhead and can be up to ten/twelve foot deep from the ground. When the mousse gets like that, you can only see the white mousse, it's difficult to breath, but it is so much fun!!! Everyone dancing in the mousse without exception is in good spirits and it is simply a free for all for touching, stroking,wanking, fingering each other, nobody minds. It is a wonderful feeling slipping and sliding up against other naked bodies as you dance euphorically in the open air in the middle of the afternoon with other like minded people.

 

When you leave the 'Mousse Floor', you are covered in mousse and the famous 'mousse boots' (i.e. foam covered legs) come in to play, so it's time to wash them off in the outdoor shower. Once that has been done, and perhaps you have assisted a friend too, it's time to go in the very large Jacuzzi. It must hold about forty people. There is a seating ledge around the outside and a seating island in the middle. All around there is oral sex, wanking, pleasuring and general hedonism occurring.

 

Next, you'll likely fancy a drink. I think the average drink prices were about €5 - €7. To pay, you will need money, so as you are naked and you also need to keep your cloakroom ticket (both dry too), make sure you have brought a waterproof box with you for carrying around your neck.

 

Kick back, enjoy your cold one and enjoy the sex that will doubtless be taking place in the lounge area. Perhaps like us, you made some new friends in the mousse and you are getting to know them a little better in the traditional Cap way on one of the sofas.

 

In summary, a great alternative to the beach, great fun, always busy and never a disappointment.

 

 



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