Wednesday, 11 January 2012
Limits list
Id love you to contribute with new things for the list, tell me your top does and top oh my god I could never do list. Send it to me and I will post it along with a link to your blog if you want to yummyx at hotmail co uk
either
a) submit your list (part or in whole
b) submit your top 10 does and top 10 donts
c) submit a new limit to the master list
d) ask me if id do it or done it before
e) send a funny or true tail of one of the limits
nice and easy!
here is mine....
Anal Sex YES PLEASE!!!!
Anal Plugs (small) er as above
Anal Plugs (large) mmmm yes please and help me get it in if you dont mind?
Anal Plug (public under clothes) yes but i must say it made me fidgit during dinner
Animal Roles , neigh! no my bag but do like those pony but plugs, they look like fun.
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) is that the bondage tape stuff? if so yes love to try I can tick this off now
Aromas yep, very sensitive to smell
Asphyxiation - not sure on this one, i like breath play, just experimenting with that at the min
Auctioned for charity ???????????? and have the embarasment of nobody bidding for me??? no thanks I'd be mortified
Ball Stretching - dont have any
Bathroom use control - yep, love to not be allowed to pee and forced to have sex
Beastiality - erm no thanks
Beating (soft) - yes so long as its done with affection.
Beating (hard) - no, I have a family to go home too so I cant risk a mark
Blindfolding - love it! love any sensory deprivation
Blood Play (Letting of, or playing with actual blood) - does that included having sex when on period and getting messy costhat I can do??
Being Serviced (sexual) yep
Being bitten - on my back and ass please! add tummy and thighs to that please
Breast/chest bondage - yep, harder please!!
Breath control - i am enjoying some breath play but not extreme, just enough to help the imagination still enjoying this especially when YSL uses his cock to gag me
Branding - not a chance!
Boot Worship - on me yes please
Bondage (light) - check
Bondage (heavy) - check
Bondage (multi-day) - checkety check!
Bondage (public under clothing) - hmm off to ponder how so!
Breast whipping - yes please just dont mark me erm ok mark me (please) see post
Brown showers (scat) - nope, not my scene
Cages (locked inside) - have to be a bloody big cage! but id fancy that, always fantasized about being in a grope box in a club
Caning - yes
Castration fantasy - not my bag
Catheterization - yes, think I'd lik trying this as I do love medical type stuff
Cattle prod (electrical toy) - hmmm, get back to you
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) - nope
Chains - any bondage is good for me
Chamber pot use - nope
Chastity belts - yes please, something so sexy about them, was wanking last night over thought of being waxed closed.
Chauffeuring - is that like driving my dom around?? if so he will be so pissed of with me, my usual trick is to get to venue and get drunk before anyone else so I can't drive!
Choking - not my bag, but i dont mind gagging on a big cock in my throat?
Chores (domestic service) - i pay £9 per hour and the list is on the wall in the utility room
Clothespins - hell yes! love them
Cock rings/straps - yes love to see them on a weel hung chap New one for YSL on its way from Eden Fantasys
Cock worship - i do, i love thee, i love the shiney helmet down to the broad base it meets my lover
Collars (worn in private), get back to you, Id like to wear a collar next time at a BDSM club with YSL, for him to surprise me with it though
Collars (worn in public) , nope
Competitions (with other subs) nope
Corsets (wearing casually) god yes, thats why god gave me curves!
Corsets (trained waist reduction) i wish!
Cuffs (leather) yep
Cuffs (metal) oooo love to try
Cutting (Light) Cutting (Deep) Cutting (Hidden Areas) Cutting (Visible Areas)- no thanks not my bag
Diapers (wearing) not for me
Diapers (wetting) not for me
Diapers (soiling) defo not for me
Dilation - need help here, are we talking being held open or something totally different
Dildos - god yes as many as you can fit please
Double Penetration - Ive only done it with a toy and a partner, Ive always had such a fantasy about this that I dont want to blow it on a quicky
Electricity - love to try a violet wand
Enemas (for cleansing) - yes so long as evacuation is in private, ok this has to be the biggest limit i pushed, see video here (dont worry scat free zone)
Enemas ( retention/punishment) - love to try
Enforced chastity - mmm sounds a good game
Erotic Dance (for audience) - yes but im sure it doesnt look as good as it does in my head! It would be like that scene when jamie lee curtis falls on floor when dancing for Arni in true lies
Examinations (physical) yes - is there a doctor in the house? Especially on a medical table in strirrups!
Exercise (forced/required) - FFS why would I do that for sex?
Exhibitionism (friends) - yep
Exhibitionism (strangers) - yep
Eye contact restrictions - nope
Face Slapping - erm dunno - kind of like it but can risk any marks Adore being slapped by YSL's cock
Fantasy Abandonment - yep
Fantasy rape - yes
Fantasy gang rape - yes
Fear (being scared) - only if i really trusted the person
Fisting (anal) - er yes! have you read my blog!
Fisting (vaginal) - yes (and now double fisting) video here
Fisting Anal and Vaginal - yes, and OMG what a sensation
Flame play - nope my insurance wouldnt allow it!
Following orders - yep im a good girl
Foot worship - worship mine
Forced bedwetting - only if putting out afore mentioned flames
Forced Bi - oh no! please dont make me kiss a beautiful woman
forced dressing - yep
Forced eating - depends on what it is
Forced homosexuality - have a fantasy of it but dont think I could force someone to partake
Forced heterosexuality
Forced masturbation - i think id cope, really comfortable masturbating for YSL
Forced nudity (private) - yep
Forced nudity (around others) - dont think so OOO another that I have busted big style! a whole week at a naturist resort put pay to that
Forced Servitude - nope, role play in bedroom maybe
Forced Straight - ok
Forced smoking - I'll bring the cigs
Forced TV / Gender Change - sounds fun
Full head hoods – yep
Gags (cloth) ... use my panties please x
Gags (inflatable) ... id give it a bash
Gags (phallic) ... why go false when you could have real?
Gags (rubber) .... see above
Gags (tape) ... yes, will save on getting waxed x
Gas masks ... only if partner had a curry night before
Gates of Hell (male) .. have a glorious picture of a partner wearing this... fond memories (back in 5 mins, need to ponder a moment)
Genital sex .. im stumped, whats this mean?
Given away to another Dom (temp) - could be fun if done kindly
Given away to another Dom (perm) - if only this worked in marriage
Golden Showers - just don't ruin my hair or make up! or i will be more than pissed with you Did this with YSL in Cap D'Agde, I gave and it really was a lovely turn on having him hold my cunt while a pee'd
Gun play - nope
Hair brush spankings - that's why god (john frieda) gave us the paddle brush!
Hair pulling - ooo yes harder
Hand Jobs (giving) - if i must! rather give a tit job or BJ take that back... I adore wanking YSL, i get so transfixed on his cock it turns me on so much
Hand Jobs (receiving) - love it
Harems (serving w/other subs) good god no! sex is meant to be my brake from life
Harnessing (leather) - could be fun
Harnessing (rope) - ditto
Having food chosen for you - hmmm not sure id like this unless the person know i would kill him if he picks a salad and no pudding! Happy to let YSL choose dinner, we like all the same things.
Having clothing chosen for you - could cope
Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) love it, have several Olympic medals for it
Head (rcv fellation/cunnilingus) god yes and don't come back up until your covered in my juices please! YSL has been responsible for giving me the best oral sex EVER just last week I was i a post orgasmic paralysis for hours after a marathon oral session
High Heel Wearing - I don't think I need to answer this do I?
High Heel Worship - as above
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) whats this about?
Hoods - been there done it, got the t-shirt but... ruined my hair and got very hot.. was still fun though
Hot oils (on genitals) - sound fun
Hot waxing - yes yes yes
Housework (doing) - FFS! why would I do that? I get a woman in for that stuff Vacancy for cleaner
Human puppy dog - now if this means i get to lie on the sofa and be stroked, where do I sign up?
Humiliation (private) - depends on context really dont think I could do this these days I think I struggle with that in reality enoug
Humiliation (public) - no thanks
Hypnotism - What so I could behave like a chicken having sex n stuff? seriously though have spoken to a Dr who is into sexual hypnotism and it sounds great, I have a kink for sleep sex so it ticks my box
Ice cubes - as punishment for being a bad girl do you mean, then putting them in my ass? making me hold it while they melt?? while im spanked?? no never thought about that much! ha!
Immobilisation - is this just a big word for being tied up? if so yes
Infantilism - kinda like the role play but not the connotations of this so tend to not do it, but for the record I do want to be a good girl x
Initiation rites - got me?? dunno?? neither does google??
Injections - does having lube squirted into my holes from a syringe count?
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage - love to try, they can look so sexy
Interrogations - "honest I haven't just bought them" I'd stand up well I think!
Kidnapping - now this is fun
Kneeling - nope, broke both knee caps
Knife play - no thanks
Leather Clothing - rather rubber, silk, lace...
Leather restraints - yes
Lectures for misbehavior - daily!
Licking (non-sexual) - how can you lick non sexually? especially on a list of sexual limits??
Lingerie (wearing) - yep, love to dress to please x
Manacles and Irons - ooo yes
Manicures (giving) - lmao have you seen my nails!
Massage (giving) - yes, love it, so sensual
Massage (receiving) - see above
Medical scenes - yep, bought the busband some scrubs, was hoping for a full ER George Clooney thing but he tried them on said they would be great for deorating in! FFS do I need to take out a front page advert? So enjoyed the medical table stuff we did on holiday, my head was cumming before anywhere else was even touched
Modeling for erotic photos - love it, done it twice
Mouth bits - love to ty
Mummification - suppose this is a step on from immobilisation, depends on if id by bound and pleasured or if your just bound and left alone cos that isnt going to do tried this with the Therapist, I looked like something off a bad US drama waiting for my bandages to be removed, I deleted the pics they were so bad
Name change (for scene) yep
Needle Play - like to watch but scared to try
Nipple clamps - yes please and hard
Nipple rings (piercing) - got the one done
Nipple weights - not tried YET
Oral/anal play (rimming) yep, giving and recieving
Over the knee spanking - love it especially with some role play thrown in
Orgasm denial - mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Orgasm control - double mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Outdoor scenes - can be fun but always prefer the comforts of a bedroom
Pain (severe) - hmm so subjective cant answer
Pain (mild) - yes
Persona training (in scene) - que?
Personal modification (rl) - que?
Phone sex (serving Dom) nope
Phone sex (serving Dom’s friends) nope
Phone sex (commercial provider) nope
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) yes
Piercing (permanent) yes
Plastic surgery - if you're paying???
Prison scenes - sounds fun! (can any one remember prisioner cell block H? vinegar tits!)
Prostitution (public pretense) nope,
Prostitution (actual) nope (unless dinner and drinks count as payment)
Pony slave - dont get it
Public exposure - nope, change that to a yes
Punishment scene - yes please
Pussy/cock whipping - mmmmm this can be sooo good if done right
Pussy worship - come pray at the alter!
Riding crops - got one in the car for emgancies! love this, especially as YSL is enjoying administering!
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort) - dont understand but sounds good, need to know more
Rituals - i like to read erotica about this kind of stuff so i think Id like a bit of role play on it
Religious scenes - see above
Restrictive rules on behavior - depends, very subjective
Rubber/latex clothing - yep, big girls sizes though please
Rope body harness - mmm i love the sight of the rope bondage it can look soooo sexy
Saran wrap - i think this is like the mummyfication stuff??? if so see comments for that
Scarification - dont know what it is?
Scratching - getting - yes
Scratching - giving - yes
Sensory deprivation - love it, makes everything feel soo good.Must buy some ear plugs as Id love to go whole hog wih YSL on this
Serving nope
Serving as art - nope
Serving as ashtray - nope
Serving as furniture - nope
Serving as a maid - nope
Serving as a toilet (urine) peeing in my ass only wouldnt drink it
Serving as a toilet (feces) eeeewww nope
Serving as waitress/waiter nope
Serving orally (sexual) yes
Serving other Doms (supervised) nope
Serving other Doms (unsupervised) nope
Sexual deprivation (short term) see marriage
Sexual deprivation (long term) see marriage
Shaving (body hair) daily adore having YSL shave me, its such an act of intimacy and care
Shaving (head hair) nope
Skinny dipping - can be fun Busted this big style in Cap D'Agde having sex in the sea while others watched
Sleep deprivation - who wants to sleep when in bed with a sexy partner?
Sleep sacks - que?
Slutty clothing (private) - Im more of a classy lady and Id rather do sultry than slutty
Slutty clothing (public) - Im more of a classy lady and Id rather do sultry than slutty
Spandex clothing - for gym only!
Spanking - yes please, i never realised how much I loved it though (video of it here, scroll down post past pussy spanking vid)
Speech restrictions (when/what) - nope
Speculums (anal) - god yes id love to tr
Speculums (vaginal) - absoloutly!
Spitting - depends
Spreader bars - ooooh yes, only tried it the once and loved it
Standing in corner - never going to happen
Stocks - que?
Straight jackets hmmm that could be lots of fun
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) dont see the pleasure?
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) yep
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) yep Busted this, had never given it before until the weekend away in June
Strapping (full body beating) nope
Suspension (upright) nope
Suspension (inverted) nope
Supplying new partners for Dom - nope
Swallowing feces - nope
Swallowing semen - yes
Swallowing urine - nope
Swapping (with one other couple) yes
Swinging (multiple couples) - yes
Tampon training (in ass) - que?
Tattooing - nope
Teasing - love it, make me beg
TENS unit (electrical toy) - love to try
Thumb cuffs (metal) - yes
Tickling - no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Triple Penetration - yes Id love to
Urethral Sounds (metal rods) - like to try
Uniforms - maybe depends
Vaginal dildo - owner of over 10
Verbal humiliation - see marriage
Vibrator on genitals - well i dont want them on my knee do I???
Violet wand (electrical toy) - love to try it
Voyeurism (watching others) - yes, love to watch an orgy
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) - nope
Video (watching others) - yes
Video (recordings of you) - no! erm ok i think I might of pushed this limit a tad
Water torture - dont know enough about it to comment
Waxing (hair removal) - monthly and it hurts!
Wearing symbolic jewelry - does my toe ring count?
Weight gain (forced) - daily, cadburys force me to!
Weight loss (forced) - maybe this is the relationship i need, a date with weightwatchers!!
Whipping - yes just no marks please
Wooden paddles - mmmm love the sound they make
Wrestling - yes please
Master lists below on limits page>
Monday, 9 January 2012
TMI - The Wedding Tackle
1. What’s more important – length or width? Why?
I think it's a combo deal, one is little good without the other. I've become a bit of a cock snob these days and it's fuelled by having access to the most wonderful cock. YSL has best of both, I love that when he pushes inside me I feel myself stretch to accommodate him. When out swinging with YSL he is as bad as me! I remember us both lay on the beach in Cap D'Agde watching Dutch stroke his cock, both of us in awe of it. When we had the chance YSL ensured in the midst of the orgy I was the lucky girl getting Dutch's length. Full post here.. sex on the beach **aplause**
2. Ever encountered one that was too big for you to handle?
Nope and I look forward to the day I get fuck by one that is.
3. Best place to put a penis?
I'm torn to answer this...
If its one hole only, like forever, I'm going cunt but I so love YSL in every hole.
4. If you had a penis for a day, what would you do with it?
I'd fuck YSL all day so he knows how good it feels.
5. You’re a penis, which love canal (that’s a vagina) would you most like to visit:
a. short and shallow
b. fall into the gap, gliding smoothly along the slick walls
c. tight suction lip-lock
d. none, I prefer the back door thank you
What's with having to chose again? I'd go for all, slowly appraising the benefits if each and having a second turn just to check I was right first time!
Hmm I think YSL needs to add a comment here... Which is mine?
Bonus: What is the perfect name for your penis or a penis you use often?
I don't have a pet name for YSL's cock, I do often say its MY COCK and MY CUM and that he should give me it.
Go see who else is playing with there cocks... I mean TMI
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Sunday, 8 January 2012
The Dungeon Club
When we arrive it was a conflicting sight, so many enthusiasts with great gear in but... It was the Christmas party so comedy was added to the image before us. Adding green tights to leather shorts and vest makes an instant kinky elf!
We grab drinks and soak up the room, a representative from every fetish and kink seemed to be in the place, if you ignored the outfits at a quick glance it was light any works Xmas do. Look closer and there's a guy in some purple Buck Rogers type suit talking to a TV and a girl with a collar and as pieced as my pin cushion, everybody accepted and relaxed, good company to be in as I'm dressed the most vanilla in the place!
We get chatting to another couple, swingers that like a little spanking and bondage, both attractive and good conversation. They were here to expand their horizons much like ourselves.
We head downstairs and watch the equipment in full use, before us on the spanking table is a sub guy getting a caning from a FemDom dressed as Mrs Christmas. His cheeks are already as red as her dress and covered in strike marks, 1 thank you mistress, 2 thank you mistress... He counts to about 15 and moves away on a strike, she warns him and makes him start again. He takes 20 before she swaps sides and starts again. His backside is almost purple when he stands and thanks her again.
To the right is a big guy in a business suit, a petite blonde is taking such a thorough flogging, I'm wincing with each throw there is so much power behind them. To the left a pretty blonde FemDom and a guy dressed in full Military uniform dish out punishment and experimenting with equipment. I found his uniform coupled with his precision quite arousing to watch.
The spanking bench was dutifully cleaned by the sub and before I know it I'm bent over the spanking table and YSL I pushing a butt plug inside me and telling me there is an audience behind me.
YSL gets his tools of choice out of our bag, most have big sports bags, one a tennis racket case... Us... A Chanel large handbag!
He lines up in front of me what is about to be used and collects a few extra from the Dungeon library of tools. He starts with the flogger, throwing it so confidently, part of me is so proud of YSL, it might sound silly but we are both new to this environment and I know the way he is striking me would have any expert nodding with approval.
The glass paddle comes out and a brace myself as my position gives me no harbour from the full might of it, no room or ability to move away. He strikes me hard and mixed with the pain is the absolute arousal and knowledge of being utterly his.
I'm having to grip onto the butt plug to keep it in place, I have visions of it shooting out at taking out one of the spectators. He places the Glass paddle back down in front of me and exchanges it for the crop. He leans in and tells me I'm being a good girl but have to take more, he also tells me how many are watching my red cheeks take it.
He pushes me forward and strikes me with the crop, I know I'm aroused but the proof is dripping down my thighs as I take the hardest and most prolonged cropping I've ever had.
Intermittently he crops the end of the butt plug sending sensations deep inside me. He pauses a moment and leans in to tell me he isn't finished yet, I know he is checking I'm ok though and I encourage him further.
He continues with the horse hair whip and my skin feels alight, even when he isn't touching me I can feel him intensely upon me. He finishes with another flogging then gently removes the blug and caresses my skin before helping me to my feet, part of me wished we were alone as I wanted him close and inside me right now.
After the enthusiasts admire our glass paddle we head upstairs for a break and celebratory activities, Santa had gifts for us all. The Dom, from my first visit, dressed as Santa encourages me with many innuendos to delve deep into his sack for my gift. It was bondage tape, an enthusiastic sub we were chatting to asked me to bind his wrists, I oblige as we watch a woman tied in rope suspension and another woman shared tales of her role as a professional FemDom.
We head back to the dungeon and watch a thorough flogging amongst other activities, a large guy throws his flogger fiercely against a nice round pre reddened bottom. She complains he is striking her in the wrong place but he continues after verbal acknowledgement but no adjustment. He changes tools and strikes ever harder, you can see her whole cheek lift with each strike, something I feel when YSL strikes me and I like watching it and it mirrors the image I had in my head and arouses me further.
The flogging ends and he retrieves what looks like a cross between a pastry lattice cutter and a combine harvester and offers to plough her furrows! She declines and he demonstrates on his and many of the spectators arms how gentle and pleasing it is but fails to win her over when he draws blood on himself using it, I hard to try hard not to giggle.
To our left our usual bar lady at the club is exchanging places with the lady we had earlier seen in rope suspension. The bar lady exclaimed as she left that she could fry an egg on her arse. She lies on the table and enjoys being spanked by the Military guy, he increases intensity slowly but punctuates every now and then with firmer strikes and finds her limits.
YSL leads me towards the wall where the chains were, on our way the enthusiastic sub was in the same place I was earlier inviting the FemDom from last week to punish his arse. After a light spanking she goes to collect another item, the Military guy came over to offer his services but he declined, it was too much for him. I ask if I can, I already have the flogger in my hand when he nods. I've never used one on someone else so I was delighted when my throw ended with a satisfying crack noise and a yelp. I continue as YSL sets up in the corner, the FemDom returns and I head to be chained to the wall.
My breasts are exposed and he attaches our purple leather handcuffs to each wrist then secures each wrist to the rings on the wall. My arms are outstretched and unable to move . He moves in and whispers to me, he knows it turns me on so much, he tells me he is about to flog and crop my breasts.
I'm ready for his attention but surprised by his ferocity and intensity, this is the most in the zone I've seen and felt from him. He alternates strike on each breast I'm growling and stamping with the pain, our eyes are locked and I feel like we are hard wired to each other. Each strike is now pushing my limits, too much and I want more of it. He breathes on my breast before gently sucking my nipple, it takes my breath away with how sensitive my skin now is feeling.
He takes hold of the riding crop and I nod that I want it. It's the first time I look up and take in the room. The sub guy is getting a post spanking massage, a caning is happening on the table and at the door as a few onlookers, a blonde TV gives an encouraging nod and continues to watch.
The first sting of the crop has me trying to pull away, he is relentless and I feel my thighs become more soaked with each hit. Its too much and this time I can't take more, YSL reads me and checks I'm ok, I want more but can't. He lifts my slip and crops my thighs and cunt, in my head I know if we were at home right now he would untie me and fuck me while I'm in such a state, I want that right now.
I think YSL knows my thoughts, he unties me, just as I drop my arms he spins me round and re ties me and pushes me against the wall with his entire body. I gasp, the dungeon wall is bitter sweet against my thoroughly cropped and flogged breasts. I love that he has been so spontaneous and controlling. He lifts my slip and proceeds to flog my bottom, thighs and back. The rhythmic thrashes have me almost in a trance except for the awakening sharp pains that follow the beat.
He pushes against me again, his face so close to me telling me he isn't finished and ensuring my breasts are pressed against the wall still. He picks up the crop and strikes me harder than I've ever felt. I thought it was going to be too much for me as I'm engulfed in such a feeling of emotion but as soon as I've taken it I'm ready for the next. I adore feeling so entirely at his mercy.
After I can't take no more he leads me into a side room and we lie on a bed holding me close and giving me the care I need. When I recover enough he suggests we go home and be close. I don't argue and once home he holds me in his arms and masturbates me until I cum and then rewards me with cumming over my red tender breasts before falling asleep holding each other.
Saturday, 7 January 2012
Are you just YSL's or are you open to other swinging partners
Since meeting YSL I've not been with another man other than in his presence and whilst I have enjoyed every experience the pleasure comes from sharing the moment, adding to us.
If you follow the blog carefully you will see I'm fussy who fucks me, I turn down or remain 'soft swing' only, no penetration.
Thanks for question xxx
Sinful Sunday - one for each hole
Friday, 6 January 2012
How would you describe your personality?
I think I'm a pretty well balance person but I think personalities can only be judged by how you interact with others.
At work I'm very assertive and confident yet at home I'm caring and always tend to put others first. I'd say most of my friends would say I'm the funny one of the group always up for a laugh and pretty outgoing.
What do you think of my personality?
Happy Birthday!I have to compliment ur breast, they are unbelievable.:) A question: Would like to RP ur were getting Fcked by several guys u met at a bar?
Not quite sure what the question was but... Trying to have a stab at it...
As a fantasy I like the idea of meeting several guys and then having a gang bang but in practice... I really need contection and trust to relax and enjoy sex fully. My enjoyment in group sex is underpinned by it being a shared pleasure with YSL, also knowing I'm safe and cared for as he always puts my comfort and happiness ahead of any pleasure.



