A week in review

Nobody kissed me
Nobody fucked me
12 orgasms (3gifted to myself)
1 man spanked me
1 man made me gush and squirt as he fisted me
1new bullet, 3 speeds from http://www.annsummers.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/productdisplay_et!letc~ev!10201||et!letc~ev!44426||_40151_-1_10201_76644_10001_
1 man let me down (bastard!)
1 man told me I was beautiful just because he wanted too

Bought some new sexy undies, hopefully have good reason to wear them soon with my new heels.

I've rejoined www.illicitencounters.com and have been enjoying a mans attention, we are meeting for drinks tomorrow after work, worried he won't fancy me in the flesh buy I've got nothing too loose.

Worst chat up approach this week has too be:

"yo whats up,, looking all sexy and wanting some black meat,, u wana bring that tight white pussy here and ride my big black cock? x"

At least it made me laugh!

Been a while since I had full sex and even longer since I've made love. Need to remedy this asap.

3people like my OHNT (I don't think you can tell it's me this week)
14 People liked my HNT I think it had the most views of any of my hnt's ever!

Fingers crossed drinks go well tomorrow

HNT - want to pull down my panties?

~~~~~click pic to pull my panties down~~~~~~

Join in the fun...

Go see some more daring pics of other sexy peeps...

Have you ever had sex with black men?

No, I have been out on a date with one but didn't have sex.

Ask me anything

What it the one thing (sexually) that you hope to do in 2011?

Make love x on the naughty side I suppose push some boundaries, maybe be part of a fmm.

Ask me anything

Hair or bare? Shave or Wax? How old when you shaved/waxed for the first time?

Totally shaven :) first time I shaved it all off was about 3 years ago, until then I just trimmed and styled :))

Ask me anything

TMI - random sexual facts

Hi everyone! Happy New Year it's time for the first TMI Tuesday of 2011. If you participate let me know so I can add a link to your TMI post.

Jan 4, 2011 - Virtual Sin idea http://virtualsin.wordpress.com

A few "what do you think" questions.

1. What drives your sex life? Rate the following factors: libido, relationship, play, convention. Add other factors you think relevant.in order of importance...
libido - i have a high sex drive and I find myself getting emotionally frustrated without an outlet
relationship - i love to express my feelings through sex, whether its passion, affection, stress or even anger
play - i do adore to have an adventure
convention - doesn't factor for me


2. What sense turns you on? Vision, touch, scent, taste, other?touch and scent as well as the important part of having my mind stimulated. Vision is low on my list in fact being blindfolded to heighten the other senses is my preference.

3. Which of the following turn you on? Which turn you off? Comfort, familiarity, novelty, risk, pain, other?
Knowing someone intimately is a big turn on for me, knowing how to turn them on and have them aching.
If I'm in a trusting relationship risk, pain (erotic) and novelty are all good. If my other half wants me to dress up as a pixie and spank me till I squeal I'm up for it!

4. Of the factors above, which are currently working well?The erotic pain I often ache for especially when I'm stressed the Therapist helps sate.

5. Of the factors above, which are not going well?
Other than the therapist and J who I see now and then I'm without a regular partner so all of the above I seek and more than anything I want intimacy and affection.

I'm off to meet the therapist this afternoon. Christmas has been stressful work and family wise so I'm hoping for a little relief from a therapy session.

A year in review

1 man loved me and I still love him

7 men fucked me (doubling my total sexual partners) (see poll I did last week for what you guys got up to)

I played with 2 couples

3 men hurt me, I wish I didn't care

100's of orgasms

1 woman fucked me

1 Therapist pushed so many boundaries and was a great friend

I started blogging and made some great new friends. Its my blogging 1st birthday in a few weeks.


Still married, no further forward


Worst sexual experience has to be the Vampire piggy http://heelsnstocking.blogspot.com/2010/06/piggy-vampire-or-just-fucking-jerk.html

The best has to be http://heelsnstocking.blogspot.com/2010/04/tired-and-tender.html
It was the last night I spent with HIM.


I started this year loved by HIM, I ended this year with new friends but I so ache to be truly wanted again.

I hope that 2011 brings all my friends want to want and more.

Happy new year x