TMI - Music

1. What’s the most annoying song in the world?

I hate it when I get a tune in my head, thats more annoying than anything, I love this song but its so stuck in my head this week...

2. What’s the saddest song in the world?

3. What’s the sexiest song in the world?

I love Gotan Project, there music is so sexy, makes you want to grin yourself against a man on a dancefloor

4. Name a new, to you, band or music artist that you can’t get enough of? Post a link to one of their songs.



5. Have you met any famous musicians?

Yes a fair few and also im related to an 80's chart topper!



6. What song best describes your life?

7. Do you sing in the shower?
we all know what i like to do in the shower!



8. What was the last live music show you attended? Did you buy a t-shirt?
Girls Aloud! took daughter, was an ok show though. no t-shirt purchased



9. What’s the sweetest song in the world?

10. Can you play a musical instrument? Which one?
As a child I used to play the violin but these days I leave that stuff to the kids.




Bonus: Describe your worst, best, strangest, funniest or saddest concert moment.

Not had one of those but I did ram Mick Hucknel with a shopping trolley and on the same day I stood on his foot in the Hacienda Night club, complete accident on both accounts!



Bonus, Bonus: If you listen to the radio, what station and type of music are you tuned to the most?
These days im loving lounge radio, a special person introduced me to it :) its web based and no adverts! just great music to chill and fuck to.

The second part of Wednesday

Back at YSL's place and he tells me to strip after holding me close, his hands tracing my curves and telling me how much he had enjoyed the night, he then tells me to bend over the sofa. He pushes his cock slowly deep inside me then fucks me so wonderfully. He pulls out, drops to his knees and licks me from clit to arse, tasting all my juices, then as he stands again he instantly penetrates me. As I get close to cumming he stops and licks me again, keep me close but making me ache for it. He fucks me hard again and I'm starting to cum, as I'm cumming I feel his intensity, I feel him swell and then he fills me with his cum. It takes my breath away feeling him cum inside me again, it is such a special thing for me knowing how YSL feels about me now he is willing to cum in my cunt.

We sit on the sofa and his cock is still ridged, I drop to my knees and enjoy slowly sucking and licking our cum off his cock, no intention if cumming just me enjoying his beautiful cock.

After cock, cocktails and a few nibbles we head upstairs to bed. He licks me and then lies behind me and we recount the nights pleasure as he masturbates me. I'm holding his cock as he tells me how much he enjoyed sharing me and sharing the women together.

Conversation moves on to the holiday, things he has seen before at Cap D'Agde, things that could happen between us, he pushes his fingers into my arse opening it up for his cock, it feels wonderful, I grab my glass dildo and push it into my cunt. Ysl fucks me harder and rubs my clit matching his rhythm. I cum but not enough, I'm so aroused I need to cum again and harder, he reaches out for the hitachi and I hold it against my clit as we talk about fucking in the sand dunes on holiday, that like tonight he will be holding me and inviting men to fuck me. I tell him I want to share a cock with him, I want him to feed a cock into me and to fist me and feel a cock inside me, wank it like he has wanked his own cock from my cunt while it's in my arse. I cum so hard I'm physically shaking and almost in tears it's so intense, all holes full but more importantly is how he fucks my mind until I could almost cum without him even touching me.

We fall asleep holding each other and we stir a few hours later both hungry to be close to each other, YSL's arms wrapped around me as he plants kisses all over my face, pressing his lips firmly to mine intermittently building the passion. He moves and his mouth locks around my left nipple, still holding me, he tells me he is going to spank me so I have a reminder of him. He moves to sit at the top of the bed, I know I'm to lay over his knee.

His spanks are firm, no build up, each one stinging perfectly taking my breath away. He trails a finger down my slit and he discovers I'm wet. The glass dildo from the night before is within reach of him as I discovered as the cold glass pushes inside me. He continues to spank me, each spank especially as it lands on the right cheek drives the dildo inside me. He tells me I have 4 more to take, I'm at that point I want him to never stop but can't take anymore. Each spank was perfectly executed, my skin felt his attention, my flesh tender. He tells me to lie face down and present my arse to him.

I place a couple of pillows under my hips and lie down. Before I've even drawn my next breath his tongue is inside me, pushing so deep, his fingers inside me, he is relentless in his licking and probing for what must be 20 minutes before he moves in to fuck me. His hands cup my breast as he pushes inside and fills me. Slow deliberate fucking, we are so close, our bodies could not create anymore contact points.

We talk of the sharing of the night before, how he had enjoyed watching me be fucked and likewise I'd enjoyed watching him pleasure other women. I'm getting close to cumming and I try to hold back, i want to cum together but it's too late I can't stop myself. I start to cum hard on his cock and I feel him swell and harder as I do, my climax is rewarded with a hot jet of YSL's seed, he holds me tight as he shudders. We embrace and kiss before YSL prepares croissants and fresh coffee and invites me to join him in the bath, could a morning be more perfect?

A 16some, 4 men fucked me, shared 2 pussies, and a partridge in a pear tree!

We have Drinks at bar, both a disappointed by some of the potential prey but both not worried as we are there to enjoy each other so nothing can take away from that.
As we get changed we ran into daughters boyfriends mum again!!


After a brief wander around, noone is playing yet, just clusters of single guys walking around and a few people watching porn. We end up alone in play room, ysl starts teasing me, he tells me to lie down and he starts licking me. An audience of single males surround the platform I'm lay on YSL starts to fist me as he continues licking.

The single guys are wanking furiously at the sound of me cumming and the wet slurps from ysl
Ysl decides to put on a show, he pushes his other hand inside me, double fisting me while licking me.
Gasps and exclamations of disbelief from our audience as I'm squirting and cumming on both his hands. I'm a shaking orgasmic mess! It was intense and naughty, I loved it!

After a little refreshment and conversation in the bar we go on the hunt for more fun, the rooms are quiet so we decide to enjoy each other. We lie on the bed in the orgy room, almost spooning, YSL masturbating me. YSL whispers in my ear that he is going to invite the black guy on the bed to enjoy me. He holds me tight and lovingly as the black guy presents his cock to be sucked, ysl is fingering me, the black guy is rubbing my clit and playing with my breasts. I'm so aroused by what's happening and when YSL tells the guy he can fuck me, my clit feels electrified as I hear him say this, I love that he has decided and instructed this. YSL then asks me what position I want, I want to remain as I am, I want to be lay in YSL's arms while the man he picked to fuck me goes to work on me. We kiss, I feel so close to him while the black guy fucks me good and hard. I cum not so much from the fucking but from the entirety of the situation, his cock feels good, he fucks well but not a patch on how YSL gives it but the full situation is so mind blowing I cum hard. I think my orgasm triggered the black guy to cum, he holds me and kisses my exposed tummy and breasts before he retreats gratefully from the bed.

A single guy hops on the bed stupidly thinking it was a queue and he wanted next on the ride! YSL moves between my legs and licks me, I switch off from the room, the guys wanking and watching, I'm enjoying YSL's attention only.

As we leave the orgy room the couples room was busy with about 3/4 couples playing on the bed. It looked pleasant but not inviting, we move to the next room and were delighted by what we saw. More than a dozen bodies all interlinked, people fucking, licking, sucking, touching, kissing... The room was filled with sex.

A funny and bizarre sight was a single older guy who must of been part of the fun earlier was sat curled up looking almost scared, he must of spent his load and couldn't work out how to get off the bed due to all the bodies!! He eventually leaves and we push through the dozen of wanking hopeful single guys and climb on the bed heading to the middle. I lie down, my head is near two ladies heads that are being fucked, I kiss and play with their breasts as YSL fucks me. My nipples and nipple chains attract the ladies attention, the room seems to of focused on me, lots of fabulous comments come my way.

The blonde woman, pretty, early 50's great full figure, moves to lick my breasts and then lick my cunt. YSL moves behind her and as I'm rubbing her clit he fucks her. A guy, with no more than a 1 inch cock tries to thrust it in my mouth I move and tell him politely no thanks and move as I want to watch YSL fuck the blonde. I'm kissing and holding her arse as YSL fucks her and she licks me. Such a hot moment, I start rubbing her clit and I feel the juices from their fucking trickle down my arm. She exclaims that my 'husband' is distracting her from licking my cunt, it amuses me but also made me think how in tune and comfortable we are together to give that impression.

After the blonde cums YSL tells her to lie on her back and I mount her face, YSL pushes back inside her and pounds her while kissing me, it is so intense, totally mind blowingly amazing after a few minutes of her licking and sucking on my clit, her fingers deep inside me I cum, I know before I even look I've soaked her and she is very pleased about it. YSL makes her squirt everywhere as I sit back and watch him give so much pleasure.

YSL tells me to lie on my side and he spoons me as we look upon the sea of bodies fucking, the blonde moves to lie in front of me, we kiss as the older guy from last week enters her from behind. The next few moments were so sensual, YSL fucking me slowly as me and the blonde kiss and caress each other, I'm whispering in her ear how much she is turning me on, how close I am to cumming, YSL is holding both our breasts, I cum holding her as YSL holds me, heavenly!

YSL tells me to roll on my front and he pushes hard and deep into my arse, the blonde is kissing me, the older guy now fucking her doggy, her hand fingering my cunt and feeling YSL's cock penetrate my arse. The blonde cums again and leaves the bed after a long slow snog is exchanged each way between the 3 of us all agreeing that we must play again sometime.

The room is starting to empty, it must be gone midnight, only a few single guys left watching and optimistic to be invited to play. YSL invites another black guy to join us, whispering to me I'm going to get another thick black cock. I'm being fucked still by ysl hard in the arse as I start to suck the black guy, his cock kept growing, it went from ample to OMG stretching my mouth to take it.

YSL asks him if he has condoms, no!! What the fuck? Who goes to a swingers club without condoms,??? He leaves the warm comfort of my mouth and runs out the room in search of condoms. He returns and I get on all 4's ready to take a pounding, YSL sits in front of me, watching me get fucked, I'm watching him wank while he looks proudly at me. Our eyes locked on each other as I'm enjoying the second cock of the night.

YSL moves closer and feeds his cock in my mouth enjoying spit roasting me from the other end. The black guy doesn't last long, the tightening of my cunt as I came was too much for him.

He leaves and as we are about to leave the room a single female has climbed on the bed clearly looking for YSLs attention. I sit back and enjoy watching, slowly wanking myself. The older well hung guy from earlier and last week climbs on the bed and asks if he can help. He fingers me but I'm not the aroused by his actions and I turn round for him to fuck me. YSLs turns round just as he is pushing inside me and smiles at me, returning to licking and fucking her. The older guy fucks me hard, his cock has a good girth and he is fucking me with passion this week, he doesn't last long though and cums before I do.

YSL has the woman squirting and cumming so much, her cuckhold partner watching on in amazement, YSL then invites me to share her cunt I don't need asking twice, he holds her cunt open for me and I lick and suck on her clit.

It's closing time as as ever we are the last ones still fucking, we head down stairs to get dressed. In the changing rooms my nipples and nipplecharms are the topic of conversation, even a woman asked for a photograph! (she was kind enough to post a note of thanks on the swing site the next day saying thankyou to the anon lady who let me rake a photo of her boobs last night!"

HNT - more holiday shoes and the secret about the holiday

                        ~~~~If you click the photo I might open my thighs~~~~~


you didnt think id just have one pair did you? and I'm flirting with another pair in the shop that might just have to come home with me next week.

For those that follow on twitter you might of picked up the odd hint of the holiday plans but for clarification, flaunting how lucky I am and making you jealous here's the details...

YSL is whisking me off for 9 days in total, i still cant believe its happening, When we first started talking about it all it seemed like it was just talk, wouldn't it be nice etc but now the apartment is booked, flights sorted and Ive packed it is all becoming very real and so so exciting.


Day 1 day  we travelling to the London airport we are flying from and staying there, we fly in the morning
next 7 days are being spent in the South of France at Cap D'Agde ...According to Fever website....No swinger should die without experiencing Cap D'Agde. Tens of thousands of sexual adventurers migrate there from all over Europe every summer for wonderful weeks of sunbathing and sex. There is nowhere like it in the world, by day a naked city focused on a fantastic beach, by night a constellation of swinging clubs thronged by cosmopolitan libertines if you want to read more about where we are heading click here

When we come back we have one more night with each other before returning to reality. We haven't decided what to do as yet, we might stop at a club on the way back or just head home and curl up and recollect what is going to be more entertaining than any holiday I have ever experienced. I think it will all depend on if my clit has called amnesty international by then and complained of the torture and abuse it has endured all week!

I'm sure being naked all day and being able to enjoy both voyeurism and exhibitionism as we soak up the sun will be mind blowing but the 6 sex clubs and many bars all focused around sex, swingers or as they say exchangist is going to be truly unbelievable.

Packing is done already, wasn't much to pack for daytime, just 2 see through sarongs but for night I have packed a few naughty outfits and im sure we will grab some pictures as and when we can.


Happy HNT xxxxx




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More first and the most intimate moment together

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After dinner we load up the laptop and get ready to choose which apartment for the holiday, it doesn't take long before we both agree to a smart looking place in the centre of the resort.

I'm so aroused ready for the night and even though we are sorting the practical arrangements for the holiday I'm literally dripping wet. When I get up from the sofa you could see my kiss mark from my soaked cunt.

We head to the club and enjoy a drink before getting changed and heading up stairs. As we approach the group play room the fun is audible. There are 2 couples on the bed, one couple, a pretty bbw and her partners just playing with each other, the other couple enjoying a few extra cocks around them as they play. Around the bed are about ten single guys and another couple watching. A short odd looking guy stares at me like a puppy, ysl is amused by his immediate fascination with me.

The bbw and her man leave just as I was plucking up the courage to join in but the other lady invites us to join the fun on the bed. I don't need asking twice, I climb on and move close to her, I start be sucking her breasts, enjoying her firm nipple and then move in to kiss her. Ysl moves from between my legs to hers after an approving nod to each other. As I lift my head from kissing her husbands cock is presented initially for us both to lick but she then encourages me to take over and I take his very ample (and very bent) cock in deep. I open my throat and let him fuck my mouth, sucking him slowly at intervals then pulling him deep again.

After much fun together they go for a break and we take a moment to enjoy each other, the small odd looking guy stood close by, hopeful I would invite him to play but I had no intention of it. Ysl fists me deep on the bed while licking my clit, he has me cumming and gushing juices everywhere as a few guys watch.

We head downstairs to grab drinks, as I'm at the bar my concerns that I had send someone I knew from real life the week before where confirmed as she smiled at me, its one of the kids best friends mum! Lets hope vegas rules apply!

We have a look around the play rooms in the basement, the woman from upstairs is being fucked by some young guy and she has about 6 guys around her, presenting their cocks to her and pleasuring her.

Before long we are back in the group room and there is another lady enjoying 2 cocks on the bed, she is sucking her partner in between telling an older well hung guy to fuck harder. The older guy retreats and ysl asks me if I mind if he fucks her, it excites me and I move on the bed ready to watch, he goes down on her first, she is moaning with sheer delight, after about 20 mins ysl sits up and sheaths his cock, I want to see his cock push inside her. She gasps as he enters, he takes hold of her hips, I know he won't need telling to fuck harder, her partner is whispering to me as I lazily suck his cock as I watch. He tells me she must be loving YSL's cock judging by her reactions. it doesn't take long of ysl pounding her for her to be on the edge of cumming, her face was a picture as she received such a seeing to. All the time he is fucking her ysl is looking at me, sharing the pleasure.

While he is fucking I'm lazily rubbing myself for ysl to see, her partner and another guy are sucking my breasts and fingering me. Both asking to fuck me but I decline, a mixture of unimpressive cocks, lack of stature and too interested in watching ysl fuck. Beside neither had been able to pleasure me with their fingers and I doubted that their cocks would be an improvement.

When she came she excused her self for a break and ysl removed the condom moved between my legs, pushing his hard cock inside me. The single guys retreat back to watching and we enjoy slowly fucking. The original couple return to the room and the wife comes over and asks if I will suck her husbands cock again, she tells me I sucked it like no other, ysl nods and I get on all 4's, ysl continues to fuck me while him, i can here the other guy id sucked earlier telling his friend to watch me deep throat the cock, telling him i was good at sucking cock and commenting on my nipples, ysl and the guy agree to swap. The husband moves round to fuck me and ysl starts to fuck her. Both of us ensuring we are comfortable, sharing each others pleasure. The general discussion in the room now being my nipples!

This is the first time another man has fucked me with my lover present, I'm aroused by the very nature of it but what blows my mind more is how connected I feel with ysl as I do this. Her husband cums and sits back to watch, I move to suck on her nipples again, whispering to her how I want her to cum on YSL's cock just like I did on her husband, ysl tells me I'm about to get another cock, as I comprehend his words I feel a cock push inside me, for a second I'm confused then so aroused that ysl has told the older guy to fuck me. I kiss her, ysl joins me, such a sensual 3way kiss, connecting us even deeper. After a pleasurable but uneventful pounding the older guy cums and the wife is shuddering in my arms from climaxing on YSL's cock, it's such a surreal and erotic moment but I need to cum, ysl suggests I lick the woman.

I move to between her legs and as I bend forward to lick ysl pushes inside me. I push 2 fingers inside her as I'm licking and sucking her soaking cunt, her husband thoroughly enjoying the show, she has 4 maybe 5 guys around her wanking, she takes turns sucking each cock in turn. Ysl holds her thighs and cunt wide open while fucking me, letting me lick so deeply.

I'm getting close to cumming, her husband takes over wanking her then makes her gush everywhere, I start to climax, ysl is so hard and deep inside me as we watch her suck all the cocks.

It's nearly closing time and as everyone disperses we slowly fuck on the bed, ysl tells me he is ready to give me his cum. I'm hopeful he means in my cunt but know he won't, despite me begging him on previous occasions he won't. I respect his reasons and adore him cumming in my ass as a second best.

He keeps fucking my cunt, I realise as he keeps pounding me that he does mean in my cunt, I'm close to cumming and the thought of feeling him fill me sends me head first into the most wonderful climax, as I'm cumming I feel it, the most intimately connected moment with ysl as he fills me with his seed.

We lie holding each other, I'm speechless and overwhelmed by the moment, it is such a special thing. I feel so wanted and loved by him.

We head home both blown away by the night so far, both still hungry for each other still. It's not long that we are in the house and I'm over his knee, naked getting the spanking I'd ask for. He tells me it's a reward for being so good, for taking 2 cocks and pleasuring the woman. My cheeks were raw and stinging by the time he finished, as I stood up he told me to lie on the bed so he could rim me.


Feeling his tongue push deep inside me, knowing my cunt was so full of him was heavenly, he pushed his hand inside me, fisting me as his tongue continued to probe my ass.

We fuck slowly and passionately, never feeling so close than tonight. We move to masturbating each other and ysl recounts my actions of the night, telling me how aroused he was, telling me how on holiday we will enjoy more moments sharing each other. Eventually after I'm a sated, shuddering post orgasmic wreck we fall asleep holding each other. I know I feel happy I sleep so deeply. I wake a few hours later as his cock enters me. I don't open my eyes, I gasp and push back onto him. I love him waking me like this, I know on holiday there will be so many opportunities like this, I'm smiling as he fucks me thinking soon I will have this every day for a week. Before long I'm cumming, he doesn't stop fucking me, he is so hard, my head full of last nights pleasure, knowing he came inside me and his attention right now has me cumming again.

He tells me not to move out of bed, he returns with fresh coffee, an amazing omelette, the bath is running and I'm feeling so cared for. After devouring the breakfast I sink into the bath and he joins me, he sits next to me and he slowly bathes me, washing every inch of me, I adore the care and affection he gives me. The intimacy of such acts is indescribable and so pleasurable, I'm feeling a very lucky lady right now.

TMI Tuesday - Random stuff

For those curious to what I sound like... Here is my first audio boo
1. When you go to a party, would you rather show up accidentally underdressed or overdressed?

Over dressed, I’d rather be the talk of the place for looking too good

2. What is something you have won and how did you win it? (Inspired by the An Optimistic Virgin)

I won a years supply of Ponds cold cream from the finish this sentence. I want to win a years supply of ponds cream because.... I want to be a model when I grow up.

My best ever win has to be £500 of sex toys though! And I won that because of you wonderful readers voted enough to get me the award of UK Adult Blogger of the year 2011. The toys are at YSL's, we havent even tried half of them yet! we have enjoyed a few though that have brought us new experiences together, most noteably the strap on.

3. Do you squeeze the toothpaste from the middle, end, or top?

From the bottom always ;-)

4. What is something your parents used to say to you that you promised yourself you would never say–but now you catch yourself saying frequently?
If I have to come up those stairs....


5. What 3 lies did you regularly tell your parents? If applicable, what 3 lies do you tell your parents now?
1) Im babysitting tonight (off clubbing)
2) I think they must of spiked my drink (id been drinking)

3) Yep school have stopped doing school reports due to cost cutting

Lies I tell them now... hmm I don’t keep much from my Dad, he even knows about YSL, he is the one that has made going away possible, created alibi and excuses for me. He is the worlds best Dad! As for lies to my Mum, we dont speak much, but I think the biggest is when she rings that I lie that Dad isnt there having coffee and seeing the kids.

6. What is something that you intended to do today but didn’t? Why not? Will you do it tomorrow?
Masturbate! I was horny this morning and the day just went downhill. Maybe still time to enjoy a moment alone.

7. What is something that people do in traffic that really bothers you? (inspired by My Quest To Be A Good Girl)
Nothing really, I tend not to get bothered by other people unless it affects me so they can pick their noses all the like.

8. Whose autographs have you collected? (You can stop at five, in case you’re an autograph hound or celebrity stalker).
I personally have none, not really into that kind of thing although i did enjoy getting a hug of James P Sullivan when getting his autograph for the kids at Disney!

Bonus: Where do you go to find solitude, tranquility or connection to a higher power?
YSL’s arms, I so need to be there tonight. I’m so pleased I’m now seeing him on Wednesday, I think I might combust otherwise. We weren’t meant to be seeing each other until the holiday due to busy diaries.

Last night I woke in the throws of an orgasm, fingers wet, nipples stiff

Last night I had such an erotic dream ...


Im lay on the bed, pillows under my hips, fully exposed to ysl, he soaps up my pussy and slowly shaves me, as he pays such teasing and diligent attention to my cunt he is telling me that tonight when we are out I need to follow his every instruction, if I do, when we come back to the apartment he will reward me.

Ysl choose what I should wear, a see through dress and panties, he dressed me and took my hand and led me to the first bar. There were a group of people waiting for us, a few ladies but mainly men. After introductions and a social drink we all go into the club. Ysl leads me away from everyone and whispers I promise I will be right here, nothing will happen that I don't want to see. He tells me to lie down on the centre of a huge cushion covered bed. I'm nervous with anticipation of what he has planned but so aroused by not knowing. Ysl slips on a blindfold and lies next to me, spooning me but with my leg latched over his, slowly wanking my clit. Talking in hushed tones, telling me he is about to share me. I hear footsteps approach and movement on the bed. No hands touch me yet, ysl tells me how many people are sat watching, wanking, waiting to taste me. He tells me to open my mouth for my first cock of the night. As I suck the cock, someone starts licking my cunt, other hands upon my breasts, all the while ysl is holding me and telling me how much he wants this, telling me to cum for him

I woke in the throws of a shuddering orgasm.

I wonder how much of this will occur on the holiday.

I did an audio boo if you want to hear my voice..

Guess who?

Heres a fun game... one of these pictures is of me and YSL pushing my benwa balls inside me,  the other one is of a fellow blogger and tweeter.

 

Can you guess which is mine and who the other naughty girl is? Add your guesses in the comments and you can guess as many times as you like.

I will announce who it is next Friday.

HNT - holiday shoes

Trying on shoes for the holiday, 15days to go!!!

Was with YSL last night at a swing club.... so many major firsts again!

Including bumping into someone i know for family life!!

And ending up centre of attention while ysl held my hand as he fucked another woman.


Lots to share! for me last night. Will get posting soon.


Happy HNT xxxxx

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Swinging, boundaries and the holiday

Swinging with YSL so far met and exceeded my expectations, I've done a few firsts but the main and most significant first is swinging with someone I care for so much.

Previously I've been to clubs, parties or enjoyed 4somes with a friend/fuck buddy, J being the most notable, we were good friends he always made sure I was safe and happy and we had fun.

With YSL it feels different, it's about adding to 'us', sharing more pleasure together. Each time we have swung our connection together has been so much closer, both times we have enjoyed the most erotic sex together for hours after. I don't know if it's the added dimension of pleasure, the need for intimacy and as ever for me reassurance (I do wish I would stop the need for it but I think it's just that chink in my armour that I have to live with and YSL seems happy to deal with).

My next major first was YSL fucking me while alternating sucking 2 cocks. I was hesitant at first, not because I didn't want to but because I needed that reassurance that it was part of the shared experience, I don't want to do something that is just for me.

It works in reverse and I'm pleased from our chats ysl is of the same mind. I dont want YSL to go off and fuck someone else in another room, I want to be there, share the moment, be connected even just by sight.

It's an arousing thought to share YSL with another woman. I can't explain how amazing it feels to be fucked by him, It's kind of like when you're in a great restaurant and your meal is amazing, you want to eat it all yourself, not share any but you also need someone to know just how perfect it tastes.

There is little that I wouldn't try with YSL at my side, I'm open minded and want to experience so much so long as he was enjoying the experience but the test is whether I will enjoy/repeat/climax.

I've done things in the past that directly haven't turned me on but seeing how much it turned my partner on has given me so much pleasure and been the beneficiary of that passion, much like the cock sucking on Wednesday.

The other factor of enjoyment for me and I think YSL felt the same was how aroused others were by our actions. To know a room full of men were all hard because they were watching me cum is quite a heady thought and a huge turn on.

To take things further I've asked YSL to be in charge on Wednesday, I want him to tell me what to do, it turns me on just thinking about him doing that. Before going we are going to have a chat to discuss so he feels comfortable doing so.

The other week as YSL masturbated me he told me about scenarios he wanted to see, how he wanted to hold me close while others touched/licked/fucked me, I want that but I know I will struggle at the time to ask for that even though YSL has made it so clear I can ask/do. I also know it will turn me on more doing it 'for him'. I have a few fantasies I enjoy when playing with myself that are about doing sexual acts for my lover, the taking away responsibility for my actions and doing it to please turns me on big style. I want to here him say "do it for me", "take it for me", "choose which one to join us" I know how arousing those words will sound coming from him.

Whilst this might be a shock to some of you but I can be shy and lack confidence at times and I think I might enjoy more with YSLs instructions. I'm confident enough with our relationship to say no to something I don't want and I also trust YSL not to put me at risk, plus he reads me well, he can tell how I'm feeling even if I'm hiding behind a smile.

Also the active verbal encouragement, YSL has such a way with words when we are playing together, he leans in close, his face pressed to mine, his words are not often what others would consider dirty talk but they convey a stronger more arousing message than that. The last weekend away when I was tied to the wall, his words alone had me at the point of cumming, he explicitly described how he was going to let a stranger touch me, that they were going to make me cum (wet now recollecting that moment). As people came into the room that YSL did not feel were good enough for me he pulled in closer, kissed me so deeply, almost a primitive or animalistic way of showing ownership, it had me dripping.

You might if gathered from the subtle suggestions THE COUNTDOWN me and YSL are off on holiday together or should I say we both have a business trip! You might also of gathered the holiday is to involve swinging. In readiness for our holiday I'm pleased we are doing some club visits, this is all untrodden ground between me and YSL and I want to feel we have understood each others boundaries and comfort zones by the time we get there so we get the most from our week together.

TMI Tuesday - Now and Then

1. What ’80s or ’90s fashion did you love but would be embarrassed to wear today, even if it came back in style?


A flouresent green Ra Ra skirt! My ass couldnt take the ruffles then and certainly couldn’t take it now! why did my parents even allow me to own it!

2. What current fashion do you wear and love? Or What current fashion do you wear but probably shouldn’t?

I tend to dress quite classy (I hope those that know me agree) I’m not one to be overly fashionable unless its a girls night out and then I lip rip with something a little more spicey.


3. What was your favorite toy as a kid?

My Girls World, but I did end up chopping all its hair off and pocking its eyes out! I was more an outdoor kind of girl, was always either on my bike or walking the dogs.

4. What is your favorite “toy” today?

Torn between my Iphone and the Hitachi!

5. Did you ever own a Sony Walkman? A boombox?

Boombox yes and a cheap version of a walkman.

6. What’s the most played song on your mp3 player?

At the moment its Black Eyed Peas, Dont stop the Party due to the kids and for my pleasure this week Itunes tells me Ive been listening to Adele

7. Who was your best friend in elementary/primary school?

I had lots of friends but never really a close friend, closest was Nicki, I still see her now and then. I never really let anyone get close to me as a teenager, I think I had too much going on at home that I didnt want to share.

8. Who is your best friend now?

My Dad and S, They are my 2 closest. I have some very good on-line friends that I have been fortunate to find through blogging and Twitter and im grateful for their kindness, love and friendship.

9. Who was your favorite musical group in your early teens (age 13/14)? Post a photo.

Totally had a crush on WET WET WET, and loved the music from Curiosity Killed the Cat

and loved this clasic from the stranglers....

10. Who is your favorite musical group now? Post a link to a song of theirs that you like.

I think at the moment Adele is the winner here.

Bonus: What do you think is the secret to a good life?

Don’t take any advice from me

Nipple attraction

Only one nipple is pierced, the bling is non pirecing nipple jewelry

Following last weekends visit to the swinger’s club party and the huge interest from everyone we met in my non piercing nipple jewelry, I thought I’d share my thoughts further on.


A couple of years ago I took the plunge and got one nipple pierced. I only pierced one as M gave me great advice to keep the contrast. He thought it looked sexy.


It hurt when it was done but I do love the affect it gives and I'm pleased I took the plunge. Yet, I doubt I'd be brave enough to ever get the other one done no matter how much I love the look of it. Oh, the pain of it.


The pain I hadn’t thought about was telling the husband or the kids for that matter and it certainly never entered my head that my parents would get to know. I might be in my late 30’s but I’m still not wanting to disappoint the parents!


I remember I was sitting in the bath, post sexathon with M. My daughter walked into the bathroom and we were just chatting, catching up on the week. Suddenly she left the room. I was too tired to put 2 + 2 together. She returned a few minutes later on the phone “yes Gran its pierced, tell Grandad” OMG! Then I heard the husband shout “she better be kidding?”


As usual I just laughed it off and I'm pleased with my little secret that not many people know about in my real life. I love how the piercing keeps my nipple erect and my breast in its full prime shape. As a woman with a full figure, an official BBW, I like to make the most of my assets! Adding some extra bling certainly focuses any man’s eyes.


In recent months I've found a great sexy solution to keep my other breast looking as 'perky' and arousing when playing with my partner. This solution, in recent weeks, afforded me being the envy of the women in the room when swinging too.


Just last week I was fortunate to have nearly all the women in the room comment how outstanding my nipples and breasts were thanks to the non pierced nipple jewelry I purchased from NippleCharms.com. The nipple rings made me the center of much wanted attention and admiration.


In addition to how great they look and the attention they grab, I have to admit I enjoy the sensation. I like to feel them holding my nipple. My friend also wears nipple jewelry from NippleCharms.com. She told me she does not have to adjust them at all; she does not like them as tight as I do. She thinks they are so comfortable you can't feel you have them on. Yet she knows they are there!!

She looks so hot! and I loved putting them on her

As a girl who is a fan of nipple clips I like my nipple dangles on tight. I need to know they are there so that I can feel the sexy tingle all over my body! And knowing I am wearing them when no one else knows is just exotic!


I'm off to a swingers resort soon for a holiday, whilst packing will be light as it's a naturist area, I know I will be packing my nipple chains.

I will let you know how I make it... it should be fun!

Last Wednesday -a different swing experience

So exited for our holiday!!!!! I will share more once all the details are sorted.


After food and a few drinks (well I did he was driving) we head to the club after signing in we headed to the bar. I was surprised how busy the place was and how many couples. Midweek single guys are allowed in and I had heard it can be a high male to female ratio and I wasn't keen on that much attention.

After a drink we headed to the changing rooms, I slip on my babydoll and panties. The panties I took off where soaked, I passed them to YSL to enjoy while I finished dressing. We went downstairs to have a look around, the place had changed loads (for the better) since I was last there.

There was a couple fucking in one of the rooms, it was an erotic sight, first time for a while I'd seen someone other than YSL fuck like they knew what they were doing.

We went to the main play area downstairs, porn was playing in the den. There were a few couple sat about kissing, touching, looking bored! And lots of single men in towels wanking. I'm as close to ysl as I can be, I'm aroused but very aware of the predatory glances from some of the men.

We start kissing, I'm frozen to the spot, I'm aroused and needing to cum but not ready to lie back incase all the single men start approaching. A guy was getting too close with his unimpressive cock i shake my head and he leaves.

A few more men leave the room following a couple who were off to play upstairs and we get onto the bed. YSL whispers to just kiss and be close so it's clear it's just us 2 until we are both comfortable. He holds me close and reassures me both verbally and physically. His protectiveness and care is such an intimate thing to experience, I can recollect ever feeling this before.

There's a couple on the sofa watching us and I'm aware there are a couple guys just out of my eye line wanking as they watch. YSL's hand moves to my pussy, he starts to rub my clit and i start to relax and forget where i am. All the time he is kissing me, holding me close, making me feel safe.

As I relax more YSL moves between my legs and starts licking at my juices. I know I'm soaked, I've felt trickles of my arousal run between my thighs as we kissed. He pushes his fingers inside of me and has me in a state, I'm about to cum, I'm aware again of being watch but this time it turns me on even more. I cum hard and just as I'm relaxing from the intensity of it he pushes his had inside, still licking, but now also fisting me.

When I've recovered he takes my hand and we visit the other rooms, we enjoy some light play, another drink, a wander round watching others fuck and play. We end up in YSL's favourite room. There is a high platform/bed, probably about 3msq he tells me to sit on the edge, he holds me close and kisses me "lie back I'm going to lick you" as I lie back I notice the room is busy. All single guys stood around in varying stages of arousal or towel tenting!

He has me in a frenzy and cumming he holds my hand as he pushes the other deep inside me, I gasp and I hear the room also gasp as they here how wet I am. YSL fists me vigorously,I'm getting close to cumming again and the squelching noise is so audible. I cum and I know I've squirted as my thighs got covered. The guys have moved for a front row seat as YSL continues to fist me, he knows just how to make me cum so hard and so deep and knowing that all these men were so aroused by me made me even turned on.

I start to cum, I'd tried to keep my volume down earlier but I didn't care or have the ability to anything except cum for YSL.

As I gushed the entire room seemed to gasp in disbelief and amazement, YSL looked so proud and aroused.

We had tried playing in another room near a couple on the sex swing but play was disrupted by drunk idiots so we left the room and went back to the favourite room. I want YSL to fuck me so I mount the bed and get on all 4's. He pushes inside and it feels like heaven, I adore him penetrating me.

He fucks me hard and an audience starts to appear, one of the guys we had agreed earlier looked nice was stood near by offering his cock. YSL encourages me to suck it. The guy is on a hair trigger, he can't take much and he keeps pulling back, another cock appears, a well hung young Arab guy, I look at YSL and again he encourages me, I swap between both cocks as YSL fucks me. I can feel how it is arousing YSL his cock is so hard, I'm loving pleasing him and the attention and arousal of the guys. The hair trigger guy cums and thanks me as he kisses my shoulder and leaves the room. I dismiss the young guy, I need to just be close to YSL now. I needed reassurance that all was ok with what I'd done.

After another voyeuristic wander it's close to closing and I want YSL's cum. We lie on the bed and I wank him slowly as he fingers my wet cunt. The young guy appears back on the scene and asks YSL if he can join in. I suck him as I wank YSL, its not long till the young guy cums.



YSL is rigid but not sharing his cum, we head home. Just as we leave I need him to hold me, I need him close, I've never been the one to benefit from group play like that, I was feeling guilty and needing to know it was all ok. That I hadn't overstepped the mark. He held me just as I needed it and when we got back I felt our play together was even more connected as he fucked me over the sofa filling my ass with a warm jet of cum.

We played for a couple of hours before falling asleep together. As I woke he whispered in my ear he wanted to stick his tongue in my ass and make me cum. He followed his words with the actions, preparing my ass for such a good hard morning fuck.

I left for work with 2 loads of his cum inside me.

OMG, it's really happening!!

The Swing Club with YSL

We arrive at the club at about 9ish and enjoy a drink at the bar after a brief show round the club, both just relaxed and enjoying each others company. The heat from the pool makes it feel like we are on holiday and ysl was impressed with the quality and cleanliness of the place. There were a few couples dotted about poolside some dressed, some in sexy underwear and some just with towels.




He wouldn't fuck me or give me relief back at the hotel and he knew how aroused I was as my panties had been ruined earlier and I was back in the same state as he stroked my thighs.



He took my hand and we went upstairs to the play rooms, stopping at the changing room to loose some clothes. I was wearing a black slip and a black diamonte bra (nipple chains under ready to look my best when the bra came off).



We went to the pleasure room, it was the room kitted out with the restraints, sex swing and a few other bdsm and fetish equipment. I was about to head for the bed in the corner when ysl stopped me. He took hold of my wrist and strapped it in place, then the other. I'm attached to the wall, he straps my ankles next, I'm totally helpless and totally his.



I was so wet at it was down my thighs, he leans in and holds me, he reassures me and reminds me to say red at any point, then he starts to tell me how much he wants me, how much I turn him on, how attractive he finds me... His words are so soothing and arousing.



He tells me how he wants other people to touch me, to share me, I start to beg, I need to cum, he has me so aroused I swear I'm about to cum without his touch. He won't do it. He tells me he might let someone else make me cum. From that point every creak of the floor boards sends electric through my clit.



A few couples pass the door but don't enter, the noise of them being so close was arousing enough. Someone enters the room, I can't even raise my head to look I'm so scared but so wanting and aroused. YSL moves close and kisses me, I know he is signally to them that thus is just us 2, ysl thinks they aren't right. He tells me how whoever touches me has to be good enough for me, I know that he would be protecting but I never knew how lived I'd feel when it happened.



His hands move between my thighs but just to tease and to feel how wet I am as he continues to talk to me, making me feel so wanted, aroused and attractive. Every now and then he stepped back and admired me from across the room, i can see him drinking in the moment and the view, i feel vulnerable but also so safe in his care. A few more couples enter the room but don't meet mine or YSL's standards or preference. He knows I need relief and unties me. Again I'm about to make fir the bed but ysl had I better idea.



There us a bench, like a weights bench, it's meant to be fir the fucking machine but it was out of order. He tells me to straddle the bench and lie forward. I follow his instruction and feel myself so open and exposed despite still having my panties on in this position.



He starts to spank me, the noise of each strike and my low moans of pleasure get peoples attention and I can see feet from my position stop and watch for a while. He leans in and whispers "show me your cunt" he spanks it firmly, again, again. I start to flinch and instinctively arch my back to hide my cunt but he tells me again "show me your cunt" stroking his fingers over the drenched fabric, I'm so close to cumming, he spanks me hard and fast and I start to cum, I notice more feet and the awareness if being watched adds to the excitement and release. I'm shuddering and quivering with the intensity of my orgasm.



He tells me I need to take 5 more, its so intense now after cumming, I know 5 will be near my limit. 1, I gasp,2, it's so much to take, 3,4 omg not sure If I can do it, I move instinctively again and he tells ne to put it back "show me your cunt" 5... 6.... Fuck he can't count!! 7 he stops and tells me well done. An audience had appeared and he didn't want to stop.... Me neither, I adored him pushing me, taking charge, making me do it.



I sit up and ysl sits in front of me and holds me. He is hard and stroking his cock as he looks adoringly at me. I can tell by his face and eyes he is so pleased with me. I go to touch his hard cock but he grabs my wrist and stops me. I'm only to watch, he sits back and admires me again. His cock now fully exposed I lean forward and take him in my mouth. Slowly I lick and suck the tip, enjoying the precum as it weeps from his cock. He gets up and tells me to move further up the bench. I feel ysl sit behind me and pull my panties aside. His hardness pushes inside me making me gasp. I sit up and push back he holds me tightly and starts fucking me hard. His cock feels so hard and thick inside me, the angle and the way my cunt is stretch open for him by the bench mean every thrust is driving me wild.



He spanks my ass as he pounds me harder, I know he is close to cumming, his cock has just gone even harder, he slows down then pauses, I know he won't cum in my cunt no matter how much I beg him for it, he starts pounding again and I start to cum again. I'm oblivious to the room full of people now. Im just cumming for my lover.

We head down stairs for a drink, im in need of replacing the fluids hat are streaming down my thighs. As we stand at the bar a couple pass comment on how long we had been and how it looked like we were enjoying ourselves. I glanced at the clock, it was gone 1 am! I thought we had only been up there an hour or so. They must have been a pair of the feet I could see watching us. We talk briefly with them, they comment how in tune we were and wondered how long we had been together. They were shocked to hear 4 months with how comfortable we both were, it made me smile knowing other can see what we feel.

We head back upstairs and wander along to the orgy room, we had seen some couples go along there while we were having our drinks. When we got there on one side of the room 2 couples were entwined in a mass of heavy bodies. We went into the room to the other side and pleasured each other as we watched. Another couple enter the room and start fucking but I look past them as Im more interested in the 4some that was in full throws. YSL starts fucking me as we watch, just slowly, perfectly, as we enjoy the live show that was unfolding before us. One of the girls moves to straddle one of the guys cocks and the other girls sits on his face while the last guy moves round to fuck her ass but the angle isn’t quite right but the anticipation and action was so arousing none the less for me. The leave the room and its just me and YSL, fucking and enjoying that people can see but not performing for them, it was just us two allowing people to see our intimacy.

He starts to fist me and sucks my clit, it was what I needed at that moment, I didn’t need to ask, YSL mst of sensed my need or needed it himself. As I cum another couple enter the room, They go to the far side, like ourselves happy to be watched but there for each other. He lies back and is wanking, I move so I can watch, YSL pushes into my ass and starts slowly fucking it. The guy lifts his head and sees im blatantly staring at his cock as he wanks, he instantly goes rock solid. YSL notices as well and whispers to me that im turning him on. That him knowing Im watching while being fuckes is making the stranger so hard. It was such an erotic sight to see, one of the most arousing things I saw the whole night beyond ourselves. YSL came deep inside me as we watched.

After they left there was much slapping and giggling going on outside the room and we went to see what was happening. The woman we had been talking to downstairs was sat in a chair and her friend, a woman was clearly skillfully licking her into a frezy. Another woman leans in and starts sucking on her breasts. I was half tempted to join in but a mixture of just enjoying watching and fear of overstepping a boundary held me back. Once she had came we move back to the pleasure room and watch while one of the 4some where tied to the wall and flogged, another is in the sex swing, and in the corner a woman being licked by her partner.

The attention turns to my nipples. The woman from earlier catches sight of my nipple jewelry and asks if she can touch. I encourage her and then after she has sucked on my nipples I take off the nipple charm and place it on hers. Taking my time to enjoy touching her breasts. All the room seems to be now taken with the non piercing nipple charms and the ample size of my nipples. Another woman comes over and starts touching and sucking my nipples, asking about my piercing and sucking on that nipple. The whole room is a buzz about them and all the ladies especially enjoying how they hold my nipples so pert. Ysl is sat behind me holding all this time. Im aroused knowing I’m receiving this attention but still so close to him, I feel so totally his, I don’t want anything that is detached from that but want everything that we can enjoy together. Myself and the woman start kissing making it clear I’m up for more but its 2:45 am and the club closes shortly. They are off home and despite her enthusiasm she has to go home. As we change they ask if we are on any websites, clearly after playing again but her husband held no interest for me, it was purely a right here right now situation for me.

We get dressed and head back to the hotel after grabbing a bite to eat. Both of us in the same frame of mind, not ready to sleep, both feeling refresh and aroused even though its 4am. We get naked and close, we spend the next 2 hours fucking, licking, sucking, holding, laughing, cuddling, loving each other in so many ways.

Some 2 hours later he woke and before I had fully opened my eyes he was parting my thighs, he was hungry for my cunt and I wasn’t grumbling! He slowly licked me, his fingers pushing inside me, his passion and skill was felt in so many ways. He made me cum twice then he knelt up between my legs, his cock so hard and ready for me, he holds my legs and pounds me. The way he fucks me reminds me of our first ever night together, the confident hard fucking, the hardness of his cock inside me. As he gets close to cumming he moves to wank over me. I suggest I sit at the top of the bed and have him sit between my legs with his ass press against me, his cock and balls pressed against my cunt and tummy. I hold him firm and wank him until he shoot his cum over me, I love watching it fire out of his swollen cock from this angle.

HNT -new jewel

Was with YSL last night, so many major firsts for me last night. Will get posting soon.

The weekends fun posts late tonight about the swing club at the weekend.

Happy HNT xxxxx

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Last Thursday and the frozen glass dildo!

Last Thursday after not seeing each other for over a week we were both so ready for each other. It had been such a hard week personally so I wanted the sanctuary of his arms so much.

Before too much wine is drank we discuss expectations for the weekend at the swing club, making sure both of us are happy and any boundaries are understood. By the time we've finished chatting we have a room booked and a plan, I'm feeling happy and confident about the pleasure ahead and very certain about his care and attention I will have at the club. My greatest fear is to be ignored and left at such a place but before we even got this far I know that with YSL it wouldn’t be the case. My only thing I wanted to ensure about swinging with ysl was that it had to be a shared experience and I was pleased that it was also a priority for him.



We talked, ate and sipped wine before he took me upstairs. He immediately put the chair to the middle of the room and I knew I was to lie over his knee for my spanking. Instantly my clit is fully charged. He lifts my dress and spanks me, admiring my choice of panties in between spanks.



Each spanks is so firm, he alternates sides and builds up the heat and sting.

He tells me to stand a moment and he unhooks my bra and frees my breasts, removes my panties and tells me to lie back over his knee. He holds my breasts with one hand while spanking me and trailing his fingers through my wet slit. I'm so aroused and ready to cum for him.



He asks how many more I can take, in my head I argue, I want lots, don't stop, can't take much more but love it. He decides 4. Each one so hard, I need it, I can feel my stress slip away with each sting, I feel the warmth of his care as he caresses me and holds me so tight.



We enjoy each other on the bed, he laps up my juices and straddles me and wanks until he jets cum all over me. As we recover he holds me tight, his mouth to my ear and he tells me things he wants to do with me, things he would welcome at the weekend. He tells me how proud he will be to be with me, how he wants to hold me as we are right now, his hand moves to my clit as he speaks to me.

He tells me he wants to be holding me so close, my leg is cast over his thigh so im exposed, my legs apart himmasturbating me. Men will come to me and want to touch, pleasure and fuck me while he holds me, he wants to be so close to me as we watch others around us fuck.



I cum so hard, it was such a turn on hearing my fantasies that I thought I'd never do come from him.



After cocktails and lots more intimacy and fucking YSL brings up the new sex toy a glass dildo, it's been in the freezer!

I lie back and part my thighs ready for it. He trails it down my wet slit then pushes it in deep, it makes me gasp with the shock if the cold. He lies behind me and holds me. The dildo is so cold and firm, so definite. As his fingers are circling my clit the hardness and chill are an arousing reminder of how penetrated I am. He tells me of more arousing scenarios that could happen at the swing club. He has me shuddering and cumming, the feeling of the glass dildo intensifies the orgasm.

I reach for his cock and start to wank him. I tell him I want him inside me, I want him to feel the coldness left of the glass dildo, he pushes inside and gasps as he feels my cold cunt wraps around his cock. He fucks me adoringly and until we end up in a loving cuddle, enjoying the closeness.



After cocktails, porn and much more mutual pleasure we fall asleep together I wake a few hours later and he is still holding me. Within a few minutes he is hard and pushing inside me, we fuck slowly until he pauses to tell me he us going to go down on me, that he wants to taste me.



He licks me so beautifully, his face burrows into my wetness, his fingers pushing inside, I'm cumming so hard. He makes me cum again before returning to fuck me. Ive slipped the glass dildo back inside me and this time he pushes into my ass. The hardness of the glass dildo and the fullness of his cock are such a divine combination, he pushes deep and I reach for the hitachi and adore the pleasure he is giving me. he removes his cock and slides in his fingers, im so full, I'm so close to cumming, i know its going to be so overwhelming the way it is building, As I cum he slips back inside me and I feel him harden more and and swell, I ask him to fill my ass with cum, he never disapoints me.

TMI Tuesday

1. You have been separated from your significant other for six months. An attractive, attentive neighbor has paid you flattering attention. It is obvious he/she wishes to take the relationship further. Do you:
a. Dismiss him/her, you’re in a committed relationship.
b. Continue to flirt, but go no further.
c. Fantasize about him/her, but take care of your sexual needs solo.
d. Let the affair become physical.

Hmmm tough one with so many variables... Who am I kidding d) and I didn't wait 6months!

2. A male co-worker whom you have heard is great in bed and very well endowed has been flirting with you a lot. He obviously wishes to start a relationship. Do you:
(This question is for women AND men).
a. Make it clear to him you’re not interested.
b. Flirt with him but go no further
c. Mentally undress him and wonder what he’d be like in bed.
d. Let the relationship become sexual.

Seems I like the letter d) again.


3. Your significant other is impotent most of the time, showing little interest in you and little interest in being sexual. Do you:
a. Resign yourself to no sex.
b. Satisfy your needs with masturbation
c. Find someone who can satisfy you sexually but remain with your significant other
d. Leave him or her

C)!!! This one isn't hypothetical either. I'm committed to my family but lucky I have found someone that asks no more than what I'm able to give and he gives me so much in return.

4. The last time you and your mate had sex, were you:
a. Concentrating mostly on him/her, and you didn’t even orgasm
b. Thinking about your pleasure and theirs.
c. Concentrating mainly on your own pleasure.
d. Used his/her body as a tool to reach your own orgasm.

Last time I had sex with the husband it was a) in fact it was always that way. With ysl it is mutual pleasure, we are both bothered about each others experience, pleasure and comfort.


5. What kind of partner do you prefer while making love or having sex?
a. Tender, loving, slow and sweeet
b. I don’t care, just do me; it’s been a while
c. Tough, take-charge, I like it a little rough
d. Any lovin’ is good lovin’

I want a partner to be everything to me as I will be to him.



Bonus: Do you mind if your significant other ogles/checks out another sexy person? What if they comment on that person, do you mind that?

I love that, I take it as a compliment that it's me they want to take home to bed. I like to share in the admiration or if it went further I want to know the details, the enjoyment and share the pleasure.

Bonus, Bonus: What are your thoughts on the TMI Tuesday image above and the caption beneath it?

She's thinking "wish I had the hitachi to hand"

On another subject....

It’s that time of year again – time to give Sweet Rori your nominations for the annual Top Sex Bloggers list!

So if I tickle your fancy please take a second to click here and nominate me

Winners In my book as well

As I learn and explore more about myself both sexually and as an independent person I often look to the Internet for inspiration, education and advice. Recently I've found myself frequently at the door of Eden Cafe part of Eden fantasys  website. Often these sites are focused on selling toys but between the great writers and contributors they seem to get it right so I was pleased to see they just won an award and it's rightly deserved.

I get many emails from followers looking for advice and words of experience so I know how much people count on such resources as we push our own boundaries or head into unchartered sexual territories. 

In recent weeks I've used them as a source of knowledge for pegging as it was all new to me.
(this article)
So if you haven't visited already go browse you might surprise yourself what you might learn or want to try!

HNT -afternoon nap

Tonight I'm his again. It's been a long and very hard week so I can't wait even more to escape to YSL's arms.

I took these pics yesterday as I escaped to bed for an afternoon nap.
Happy HNT xxxxx

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A few more firsts and the best spanking ever

After the promise of a spanking I arrived even more aroused the usual. My skin ached and tingled for his attention.

After welcoming kisses and the shopping unpacked and food starting to be cooked he cleared the bench and told me to bend over. He slowly lifts my dress and strokes my bottom.

The first hard spank lands, its about an 8 on my scale, 10 being too much for me. The other cheek feels his attention and im bracing myself for another spank. He spanks again this time a 9, its so much but perfect. He takes care touching and caressing me in between spanks.

 

He spanks again, about an 8 but I'm getting more tender so feel it more, I'm gasping as each sting lands, it hurts but I adore the feeling and want more. I instinctively brace myself and move, he takes hold of me and leans in close whispering for me to keep still, keeping my legs straight so my bottom sticks right out. I can feel my juices flow from me I'm so aroused. He keeps placing me so I'm exposed fully for each spank.

The oven timer goes and I think we've finished but we haven't. He returns to me and pulls my legs further apart. My cunt and ass fully exposed and he starts the spank me again, this time my cunt lips and ass as a target. He asks me how many more I can take. I say 2, it's so intense, his spanks are lighter than on my ass, more like a 5 but it's a delicate area and far more sensitive.  If it's only 2 spanks he says he better make them 8's. They were harder than I've even felt and they had my almost cumming. 

He told me to go stand against the wall, he pulls down my panties and spanks the front of my cunt. He is slapping it hard and fast, it stings, my lips are on fire, my clit is aching, I feel totally his as he holds me. 

We head to the bedroom after food and drinks and he disappears between my thighs to drink me. I'm soaked, he thinks it's the wettest I've ever been. Every touch he makes on my cunt and ass is amplified by the burning and sensitivity from the spanking.

He pushes his hand inside and starts fisting me as he licks me to orgasm. I feel the physical and mental relief wash over me as I shudder in his arms.

We play and pleasure each other, both cumming repeatedly on each other for hours. We are both clearly hungry for each other tonight and enjoying playing hard. He disappears from the room returning with drinks and pegs! I had mentioned my enjoyment of using pegs on my nipples when masturbating and he was prepared to please me in this way as well. The pegs went slowly on my nipples, he takes his time making my nipple full and hard first. Each peg makes me gasp.

He starts rubbing my clit then reaches for another peg "do you think you can take it on your clit" he whispers. I nod willing to agree to anything I'm so aroused.

He licks me then places the peg over my clit and starts to close it. The pressure building is so intense I can feel my clit harden and I gasp as he let's go and I feel the full pressure. He licks the exposed tip of my clit it feels amazing, so sensitive and wanton.

He pushes his fingers inside as he is lapping at my juices until he is fisting me again. I can feel such a strong orgasm coming, I'm almost frightened to cum as I know it's going to be so intense. I was right and it was amazing. He slowly removed the pegs and the sting was as intense as the orgasm itself.

My nipples are now so sensitive even his breath against them is arousing me. We get one of the toys from the winnings box, a clit pump! I've been fancying trying it out. He attaches it to my cunt and uses the hand pump to activate the suction. It feels like he has his mouth locked around my clit, sucking firmly. He turns on the vibrating egg that is part of the suction chamber and it feels lovely. Alone I know it won't make me cum but I'm enjoying the physical feeling and the mental feeling of being so exposed as he applies it then the almost medical feel of it if that makes any sense???

He grabs some moisturiser and straddles my face, his cock deep in my mouth, fucking my throat and mouth while he slowly massages my tummy and around my pussy and thighs, taking his time adoring me. I'm gagging on his cock and it sends me into a beautiful hard orgasm and the relentless suction of the toy is tortuous bliss.

He volunteers to go in the sex swing and surrender himself to me. It feels very arousing just watching him in there let alone being able to do what I wish. I pull up the chair and sit in front and enjoy playing with his cock for my pleasure. I tease his ass as I'm playing and tell him I'm going to fuck him in the ass shortly. I work my finger into his hole and wank him firmly.

I slip into the strapon and lube my cock and his hole ready for me. Slowly I push inside pulling his weightless body on and off my strapon cock. I can feel him slip onto me. I know I'm in deep. I go slow as I know it's a lot to take. When he has relaxed I start to fuck him as I wank his cock, it's such an amazing sight seeing his pleasure and intensity as I fuck him firmly.

It gets too much and we collapse onto bed together and I hold him as I wank him. We change positions so he is lay between my legs his head away from me, his ass pressed against my tummy and cunt. I wank his cock like it's my own until I see and feel the hot cum shoot over me.

We fall asleep but wake early and he makes me cum within minutes of opening my eyes then as he holds me tightly he tells me in such a firm and affectionate voice exactly what will happen next, he is going to part my thighs and lick me until I cum for him. His words alone have me soaked.

He is a man of his word, he licks me so good I'm cumming hard for him like a good girl following his instructions. He then tells me to turn over and he mounts my ass. It's not been touched all night so it takes a few minutes to truly get inside deep but that moment as his balls rest against my cunt was breath taking and euphoric, my clit was literally throbbing. I reach for the hitachi and as he fucked me deep, I teased myself until I cum. 

He kept fucking me harder and harder, I start to cum again this time as I came and my body shuddered it started his climax, that wonderful moment of feeling his warmth, affection and care for me filling me up.