Monday 16 July 2012

TMI - what's your Fifty Shades?

What's your 50 shades?

1. I enjoy the idea that my partner wants to inflict pain on me that:

a. makes me curious
b. is titillating and sexually arousing
c. that leaves me screaming and/or crying because that’s the way I like it

Receiving pain is subjective to my mood, sometimes I ache for a thorough cropping and want to be pushed to the point of crying, it normally reflects my stress, frustration in other aspects of my life. YSL is good at reading my needs and pushing me just right. He also knows when to hold me and care for me.


2. Do you like being forced to dress or act in a way that is humiliating? If yes, please describe. If no, why not?

I'm not into humiliation I rather praise in the bedroom, statements like "good girl" or "come for me" are more likely to have my cunt salavating.

3. Do you like seeing bruises, scars, or marks that were caused during sex on either you or your partner? What kind of marks?

I do like to have a visual reminder but have to be careful not to have any marks hubby will see. I loved the bite marks YSL left on me once and one Dungeon Club visit left me with stripes. It turned me on every time I saw them.

4. Would you like to be forced to do sexual things that you don’t necessarily like to do? Yes or No.

I like the pretence of being forced but within the trust of our relationship. I have lots of fantasies based around this. I love YSL saying he is just using my holes or forcing me to cum again, it makes me feel so completely his.

5. Do you want to be forced to watch your lover with someone else? Yes, No or It depends.

I think I'd like that role play as I'm confident in our relationship, it would arouse me to see. I always enjoy watching others enjoy the pleasure he is capable of giving.

I also like the idea of him picking a man and instructing me to be fucked by them. Last year in Cap D'Agde YSL instructed a man to fuck my arse, it turned me on so much.


6. What dirty (sometimes inappropriate) things do you like to say to your sexual partner?

I love it when YSL tells me what he is going to do to me especially if I'm blindfolded or restrained, it drives me wild in such a good way.


Bonus: Finish this statement: I like being powerful in bed because __________ .

I like being overpowered, I want to feel helpless, taken and wanted.


20 million have read the book, love it or hate it, it's opened so many peoples minds to BDSM and helped them understand its not about hurting a partner, its all consensual pleasure. If you are just thinking about starting to play like 50 Shades of Grey I love this article on 'How to recreate some of the scenes' it's a good starting point for any beginner. CLICK HERE


And if you want a giggle this is super funny piss take of the book GIGGLE HERE

4 comments:

  1. See I like mild spankings and roughness. Not blood bringing or massive bruises, unless it is from biting.. Oh hell yeah bite the shit out of me anywhere it can't be seen and I feel it days later..

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  2. 1. Confused on it.

    2. Do you like being forced to dress or act in a way that is humiliating? No, I was in a verbally abusive relationship for 13 years and it would hit too close to that.

    3. Do you like seeing bruises, scars, or marks that were caused during sex on either you or your partner? Yes, but hate when it is on my neck in the summer, hard to cover at work. I had choking bruises a few weeks ago and was out with my mans parents. What kind of marks? Any!


    4. Would you like to be forced to do sexual things that you don’t necessarily like to do? Wow that is tough! a few things, but not all.


    5. Do you want to be forced to watch your lover with someone else? Yes, No or It depends.

    Not sure, maybe.


    6. What dirty (sometimes inappropriate) things do you like to say to your sexual partner?I like to be dirty in public places.



    Bonus: Finish this statement: I like being powerful in bed because I like knowing that I can use my mouth or body to bring them to their knee's. But I would rather be overpowered, except with a woman, I am more aggressive with women.

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  3. Sexy answer to #2! I also enjoy praising Jill in that fashion. "Come for me" is my usual exhortation as she is approaching orgasm.

    I especially loved your answers to #4 and #5. They are quite similar to our feelings as well.

    -Jack

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  4. Great answers. We have a lot in common. Happy Tuesday! :-)

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