Tuesday, 28 February 2012

TMI - sex and romance

This week’s TMI Tuesday is about sex and romance. Who doesn’t enjoy a little romance or the art of seduction before engaging in sex? Often times the prelude is better than the actual ‘event’.

1. You are sitting alone in a restaurant because your lunch date is late. Do you:
a) Throw something and then make out with the waiter.
b) Check to make sure he or she didn’t get into an accident, then wait patiently for two hours and use the time to compose a love song or poem.
c) Send a nasty text followed up by a voice mail telling him/her that “romance is dead and so are you!”
d) Wait for 20 minutes, and then text-message a pal to join you for lunch.

I think I will go with my own option...
E) non of the above, if I had a free lunch time I would be spending it being eaten by YSL

2. What’s more important, a romantic relationship or your career?

I'm going to have to say career, it makes me happy and without it I doubt I'd have the time, money or confidence to enjoy life to the limit.

3. You love to role play in the bedroom, which one of these is more likely to be your kink?
a. Doctor and the naughty nurse
b. You’re the gardener, I’m the hoe
c. Persnickety principal and the wayward pupil that needs a spanking
d. Me Tarzan, you Jane
e. Scattered-brain boss and the seductive secretary

Again making my own answer although Dr's and nurses is close, I'd like medical play but more Dr/patient. I really enjoyed it when we did it in Cap D'Agde

4. When you want sex, who tends to make the first move?
a. Me! I like to go for what I want.
b. It varies. Sometimes my partner/significant other/date or sometimes me.
c. Oh definitely the other person. Even if I want it, I’m not about to admit such a thing.
d. I drop subtle hints hoping he/she will pick up on it.

I love that I have the confidence to ask for what I want again. For too long I took what I was given and often that included constant rejection.

5. When it comes to lovemaking, select the answer that best describes you/your attitudes
a. vanilla – meets society’s middle of the road standards
b. adventurous
c. kinky
d. trisexual – I will try anything once, twice if I like it, three times to make sure. –Mae West

My answer is closest to 'd' but id rather you just know I'm me, it changes daily as I evolve and learn more about myself and my sexuality.

6. You want to seduce that sexy someone, what is the sweet-nothing that you’ll whisper in his/her ear?

I want to feel your warmth spill inside me...

Bonus: What’s your idea of a romantic getaway?

YSL, anywhere.

Go see who else played



  1. Great answers, and a beautiful image that makes us wish we were present.

    The thought of you whispering something in my ear along the lines of your answer to #6 is exciting and erotic.

    So glad you've ceased putting up with rejection and started taking what's yours.


  2. I liked your answer to 5. Being a voyeur as your sexuality evolves is part of what keeps me coming back.

  3. Great answers, especially to 5 and 4. Good for you for asking and getting what you want. :)

  4. That sounds like a good way to spend a lunch time to me!