1. Do you think that acting out a fantasy can sometimes cause damage to a relationship?
I suppose that depends on the relationship, I certainly don't feel confined in my relationship with YSL and I know i could tell him any aspect of my sexual wants and he would understand and accommodate where possible.
When we first met YSL wasnt into anything BDSM/Kinky beyond a light spanking but once he knew my hunger for aspects of it he undertook to learn about it and has become an enthusiast. One Saturday I was subjected to the most wonderful domination session where he totally used me and ended with a seriously good spank.
2. Some couples role play their fantasies rather than introducing another person into the relationship to live out their fantasies. Do you think that this is an acceptable substitute?
I think its a great way of spicing things up and for those not into sharing their partner a good healthy substitute. I pleased though that if my fantasy requires a big strapping black man and a BBW to fulfill my needs YSL is straight on the case finding the right couple and not needing to find the face paints.
3. Is there a particular movie or TV series or character from a movie or TV series that you fantasise about?
I think group sex with the male cast of Greys Anatomy would be a good starting point for me.
4. Apart from the obvious things like child abuse, are there some things that are ‘off limits’ for a fantasy e.g. incest fantasies, age play, rape fantasies. Why/ why not?
I'm very open minded and I'm please to have a partner that i can share fantasies with. I think that if you open your mind to your partners desires and see their arousal it gives them its not hard to want them to occur, even just for the giving of pleasure to them.
5. What is the most taboo thing you have ever fantasised about doing?
Probably rape fantasy stuff where I'm tied up and used and forced to orgasm.
6. Tell us about a fantasy that you have that you don’t ever see yourself actually acting out. Why do you think you will never act it out?
The answer of why i wouldn't ever do this is the safe sex element...
I'm lay in YSL's arms my neck nestled into his neck, I hear the door open and the shuffle of feet . YSL holds me closer and firm and tells me these men have come to fuck me and abuse my arse and cunt and I have to let them do what they want. One after another they fuck both holes and spank me until YSL tells them to fill me. I can't see them or how many there are. In quick succession they take turns shooting their cum deep inside me until both holes are overflowing. They leave and YSL let's go of me and inspects my holes before he fucks them and adds his own cum.
7. Have you ever pretended the person you were having sex with was someone else without telling them?
8. Have you ever tried to make a fantasy a reality only to have it fail miserably? What happened?
Several times! failure has generally been foscused on my over enthusiasm and husbands lack of interest.
Bonus: Tell us about your most cherished fantasy. Did you ever live it out? Please give us all the juicy details because that is the kind of people we are.