TMI Tuesday - A Lotta Love

1. When sizing up (assessing) your romantic relationship, is there a couple that you envy? Why? (Can be a couple you know or famous/celebrity couple)

I think that envy is such a waste of an emotion as it is not going to change you or your circumstances so why put yourself through the hurt? Anyway, if you do wish to swap with someone, surely the deal is that you have to take the whole of their life, so I’m sure that there would be less appealing sections too.

2. Thinking of your current relationship, which stage are you in?

a. Infatuation stage – Intense attraction and an uncontrollable urge to be with each other, strong sexual attraction.

b. Understanding stage – You both start getting to know each other better, and everything about your partner interests and fascinates you.

c. Moulding stage – You each know what you want in a partner and you start moulding each other to change in effort to create a stranger, lasting relationship.

d. If you have made it this far you are in the advanced stages of a relationship, which one best represents the current status of your relationship:

1) Stage of doubt – This is not what you want in a partner, and you have thoughts of ending the relationship.

2) Happy stage – You’ve worked out most of the kinks in your relationship, you know each others flaws and can deal with them. You are comfortable and enjoying the relationship in what you believe will be a long-lasting one.

All of the above, bar c and d1. 

We have (a) an intense attraction and strong sexual attraction to each other, (b) we are very interested and fascinated with each other and it has been long lasting………but we have no interest in working out the ‘kinks’ within it, in fact we would like more!!

3. If you are not currently in a romantic relationship, at which stage did your last relationship end? (see stages above).

N/A

4. Do you think you are too good for your current partner? Why do you feel this way?

What a strange question and why would anyone be in a relationship where they felt that way?

5. Write a 25-word love note to your current significant other or to a person with whom you are infatuated .

I have never been in a relationship with someone like you before, I didn’t think that I ever could be and I am so pleased that I am.
(3 words over)

Bonus: Have you ever been obsessively “in love” with someone and perhaps borderline clingy? How did you get over your obsession?

When younger, being in a relationship was very significant, but as I have got older you realise that you take knocks along the way and it is easier on yourself to be practical and realistic….but always fall in to the passionate moments along the journey or otherwise you can miss out on some of the most wonderful joys in life.

Sinful Sunday - Sinful Sunbathing

Sinful Sunday - It's all about the image

TMI Tuesday - Sexy Thoughts

Fill-in-blank or answer accordingly.

1. You are looking at your lover. You say, “I’d love to _____ .”

    Heelsnstocking:  ..have a cock in my ass

    YSL: ..wank my cock inside your cunt until I make it cum in you (Excellent example of this practice here)

2. In a chat with your best female friend you say, “You look really sexy when you wear _____ .”

    Heelsnstocking:  ..my panties

    YSL:  ..your normal regular clothes because no-one has the faintest idea of what a highly sexed woman you are when you wear them 

3. Name the one piece of lingerie you would love to see a man wear.

    Heelsnstocking:  see answer 2

    YSL:

 


















4. I wish I did more _____ in bed.


    Heelsnstocking:  ..people..

    YSL:  ..cunt juice drinking..
 
5. I absolutely LOVE when you kiss my _____ .

    Heelsnstocking:  ..clit

    YSL:  ..lips when you are cumming

Bonus: Tell us your favorite sexual memory of you and your current or most recent lover.

    Heelsnstocking:  To many to choose from! I think a stand out moment has to be him holding me while feeding another mans cock inside me while in the Dark Room at Le Glamour

    YSL:  Just sitting in the garden one summers Friday afternoon and without any prompting Yummy decided to arrange a fivesome for that evening with another lovely couple and a delicious single female. Two hours later three ladies and two men were naked in a hotel room enjoying each other.

Sinful Sunday - My Pleasure Centre

Due to our hectic schedules, YSL and I don't see each other as often as we would wish

but when we do.....it is explosive!!

We hadn't seen each other for a couple of weeks, but when we got together this week my clit was the size, thickness and hardness of a small cock!!

As you can see above, it was the width of my finger.

Ohh, it was so sensitive and the sensations against it were mind blowing!!

.....I might have been a little bit wet too 

TMI Tuesday - It's just SEX

It’s Just Sex

1. Do you obsess over having an orgasm during partner sex? Are you disappointed if you do not orgasm?

Heelsnstocking:

Not in the slightest, I orgasm very easily with YSL and always multiple times too, so no disappointments here

YSL:

I just love the intimacy of sex so not in it just for the ‘cum and go’. In my early years I was always conscious not to orgasm too early and trained myself to last longer by slowing down and holding off when I felt myself getting close. It didn’t take too long to be able to be in control and be the ‘master’ of my orgasm so ever since then I’ve been able to simply enjoy the pleasures and orgasm at an appropriate time. There are times though when I just want Yummy so much and have an overwhelming desire to fuck her and cum in her for my own selfish pleasure….which she likes too.

2. Why are you into gay porn?

Heelsnstocking:

Erm, cos it’s got lots of hard cocks in it. Lesbian porn is pretty good too….so is Bi porn. Oh hell all porn is good!!! Did I mention BDSM porn?

YSL:

Sure, I like gay porn, whether it be homo, lesbian or bi. I just like the sensuality and sexuality of desire that is depicted between people who want each other, irrespective of orientation. Studio/professional porn really doesn’t do anything for me as to me it just feels sterile and actors who are just doing a job for the money. I like the amateur stuff where there is a real connection between people.

Exhibit A here

Exhibit B here: OK, not strictly amateur, but I like the raw feel to it.

3. Why aren’t you into gay porn?

Heelsnstocking:

What??? What have you got against cocks??

YSL:

No problem with it here. In fact another place where they don’t have any problem with it is Hotel CitizenM inGlasgow . Yummy and I stayed there a couple of years ago and it is corporate policy to deliver free movies to your room….including gay porn!!! We were so disgusted that we had to have sex whilst watching it.

4. Do you use drugs to have or enhance sex? (Yes, alcohol is a drug).

Heelsnstocking:

I might indulge in sex following drinks, but the drinking is only for unwinding, relaxing and enjoying rather than a deliberate act to enhance sex. In fact, probably the only linkage for me between sex and deliberate drinking is when things are going badly and I decide that getting blasted is the better option to the sex that is on offer. For examples see experiences 6 and 7 to Q1 of this post 

YSL:

No, not at all. I might have sex following drinks, but it’s never a case of ‘prepping up’ so that the sex will be spectacular….as I suspect that nobody has ever managed to be a better performer when drunk.

When at a swinging club, I usually have only soft drinks as I want to be aware of what is going on around me and from this enjoy it and remember it and although I haven’t had any issues so far, I wouldn’t wish for any drinking activities to hamper erections.

5. Do you believe that you are much more sexually open-minded/risky/kinky than most of your previous partners and friends?

Heelsnstocking:

Without a doubt, it takes a lot to keep up with me.

YSL:

Yes, I think so, but hey, the good people who do these sorts of things are also discreet about it, so who knows??

Bonus: Do you believe in ethical non-monogamy, even if it isn’t right for you? Why or Why not?

Heelsnstocking:

I hadn’t even heard of ethical non-monogamy before so had to look it up in case I looked foolish by saying that I was all for saving whales, solar energy and recycling paper as well as shagging everyone, so sure, I’m up for all of that. However after reading this article I now understand what it is about.  Nope, it’s not right for me in my circumstances, but me and YSL seem to follow the general code of ethical non-monogamy between us. So yes, I believe in it.

YSL:

I read this to understand what the ethical bit meant and I like the bit about “Ethical non-monogamy would allow for the self-actualization of individuals while supporting their current relationships, and also supporting their partner’s choice (or need) to not engage in those activities if they are outside of their comfort zone”. It’s not right for me, but I do believe in it, but it’s not something that I would impose on others. 

Where in the World Answer

....Award yourself bonus points if you got from Sinful Sunday yesterday that my picture was taken  on the spiral staircase at the end of Heliopolis in Cap d'Agde!!!

Sinful Sunday - Going Up?

Fancy going up?

Bonus points if you know where this was taken :-)

(answer will be revealed here on Monday)

TMI Tuesday - Guilty Pleasures

1. What TV show do you love to watch but are a little embarrassed to tell friends that you simply cannot miss an episode.

No real embarrassment, but I do like Geordie Shore, which isn’t amongst my usual viewing genre.

2. What website and/or magazine do you read and it’s your guilty pleasure?

This one 

It’s a pleasure, with only a little guilt :-)

3. What is the grocery store item you buy but you know you should not?

Shopping for meals to enjoy with YSL :-)

4. Tell us about something you do at work that you would not want your co-workers to know that you do.

Masturbate when the sexual frustration gets too much.

5. Do you have a secret stash? What is it?

This is it

Bonus: What is your most embarrassing guilty pleasure?

I really do adore anal sex