Thursday 28 February 2013

Something for the weekend #4



It's week 4 :)

What it's all about?

With about 7,000 visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that  gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.


I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT.

I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade. If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one!

I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.


A few simple rules:
1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once

2) The post should be sex or relationship related, it can be erotica, education, discussion or pictures/video

3) DO NOT USE YOUR POST TITLE, unless it describes what the post is about, tell the reader what is about e.g Photos and details of 3some, Male sex toy review and pictures, Thoughts on Poly Relationships.If your unsure just ask and I will amend

4) Add a link using code on the side bar to let people you are part of the SFTW community

5) Tell people to visit if you are using social media, this is about helping other bloggers in the community so share the joy and it benefits us all

Submissions now open..... :)



Monday 25 February 2013

TMI - blogworld

1. Do you write/manage another blog?

Yes, I have a blog that covers the more private side of my life. I keep the blogs separate as many people come here for sex, kink and fun not to read about me doing mum stuff, marriage counselling and last year the demise and destruction of my mother.

Http://marriednoparole.blogspot.com

I must warn that whilst my Witt and sarcasm are still present it's a dark read and often hear from people that its made the cry.

2. Pick 3 random blogs from your blogroll and tell us why they are on your blog roll.

http://outsidevanilla.blogspot.com/

I love this guy, whilst he doesn't blog as often as he used to I find his relationship dynamic amazing and he is the only blogger I have met. I had dinner with his family and stayed over 2 years ago.

http://alwayseachother.blogspot.com/

Such a sexy pair, I love their expressive nature and passion for each other.


http://barenakedlady.wordpress.com/

I adore this young lady, her courage and her sense of adventure, not forgetting she is a brilliant writer.

3. Look around your blog, tell us about two pages or links you want us to visit, be sure to provide a link to them in your answer to this question.

First go see this to find out why my vagina hole isn't where other ladies are.

http://heelsnstocking.blogspot.co.uk/2012/06/pussy-pride-and-my-vaginal-revelation.html

And why don't you join in with Pussy Pride it's a great thing to be part of.

Next go visit this http://heelsnstocking.blogspot.co.uk/2011/04/second-night-of-debauchery-and-intimacy.html

It's the 2nd night I met YSL, almost 2years ago, reading it tonight underlines how connected we have been from the start and how filthy we can get!

4. Do you have any unique interests that you have never shared before? What are they?

Here's a biggy that I haven't shared yet....

I've been writing a book, it's finished (subject to external editing) I have a tentative offer from a publisher but I'm scared crazy about taking the next steps!!!

5. What’s your current obsession?

Finding a single male that is bi sexual to have a full on sensual 3way session. So far we have failed in our quest but I'm still optimistic and excited by the prospect of being centre of attention in such a scenario. Lots of time being spent on Fabswingers.com (free to join if you are interested)

I'm also stuck on the last level of Jewel Mania, YSL finished weeks ago arrrghghh!!

Update.... I've done it!!

Bonus: Has blogging helped or hurt your sex life?

It's helped me so much being able to process thoughts, fears, desires and above all emotions. These days though it gives me an outlet, something that is for me.

Lunch

I picked up a few groceries this morning ready for the next couple of days, I'm staying at YSL's and I wanted to do something nice for tea. An email was sent to YSL to let him know if be dropping by. What I didn't know was that the email was received by an aroused man who decided to save himself for me.

As I walked in the door, he was on the phone and I silently edged to the kitchen to unpack. Moments after the call ended he took hold of me and kissed me, the passion and intensity of his kiss clearly indicated I should start stripping. As he released his hold he suggested I head upstairs and get naked.

I often hope that these brief moments together turn into something physical but today I hadn't even considered that we would be fucking, thank god I shaved anyway!!

He followed me up the stairs and quoted a moment from our first holiday at Cap D'Agde "you will never know it was me" as his disappeared under the covers to bury his face in my soaked cunt. He licked, fingered and then fisted me until I was a quivering wreck then lubricated my anus before serving his entire length to me.

I reached between my legs and rubbed my hard and sensitive clit while he filled my arse hole and fingered my cunt, he was stroking his cock that was in my arse through the walls of my cunt, this just fucks my mind, him using both holes to gain pleasure, using me... I cum hard, every inch of me is screaming with pleasure.

He wasn't finished with me yet, he grabs the hitachi and returns his cock to my arse. His fingers push inside my cunt and I'm instructed to masturbate. It's too much and I love it, I cum again and again but I know my body is working its way towards something more. .
Suddenly I feel the swell of the orgasm build inside me, I can hardly catch my breath, every physical sensation is overwhelming and mentally I'm awash with sheer bliss. I start to cum, vaguely aware of how much I'm shouting and crying out as I give in to it.

Shuddering and whimpering as YSL takes hold of me but its only brief respite "get on your hands and knees, I'm going to fuck your arse hard". Without hesitation i move into position. He slams his length inside me and rides my arse hard and fast, the bed is swaying with our motion and I feel his cock fill me and his balls strike my cunt lips. I'm close to cumming again, just then I feel his cock thicken in readiness, the idea itself is enough to tip me over the edge but the reality of feeling his warmth spill inside me is even more powerful and has another strong orgasm rip through me.




Saturday 23 February 2013

Sinful Sunday - Kid in a sweet shop

YSL had an array of curvy girls at his disposal we thoroughly enjoyed exploring and pleasuring all of them but the morning after was the most intense and erotic sex just us two alone.


Sinful Sunday



Thursday 21 February 2013

Something for the weekend #3



It's week 3!

We got 19 links last week so lets see if we can beat that!!

What it's all about

With about 6,000 visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that  gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.


I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT.

I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade. If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one!

I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.


A few simple rules:
1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once

2) The post should be sex or relationship related, it can be erotica, education, discussion or pictures/video

3) DO NOT USE YOUR POST TITLE, unless it describes what the post is about, tell the reader what is about e.g Photos and details of 3some, Male sex toy review and pictures, Thoughts on Poly Relationships.If your unsure just ask and I will amend

4) Add a link using code on the side bar to let people you are part of the SFTW community

5) Tell people to visit if you are using social media, this is about helping other bloggers in the community so share the joy and it benefits us all

Submissions now open..... :)



Monday 18 February 2013

TMI - fill in the blanks

We got YSL excited and playing this week!!! (Don't worry that isn't a gun but I did disarm his weapon fully)

I must say when he sent his answers over I just melted.




1. I’m the type of person that likes to be _____ in bed.

YSL: Adventurous

Yummy: Naughty yet sensual


2. If the sexiest person I know propositioned me for sex, I would _____ .

YSL: Know that Yummy was with me

Yummy: Ask YSL to kiss me first


3. The worst part about _____ when I am naked is _____ .

YSL: Fucking......that there are no more clothes for Yummy to rip off me

Yummy: Sleeping...... If YSL isn't there to hold me or wake me as he pushes inside me

4. I regret my first _____ .

YSL: Instinct not to contact Yummy earlier as I thought that I would not be the sort of person that she would be attracted to

Yummy: Profile that made YSL think he wouldn't be right for me, I so wish I had met him earlier in my life.


5. The last sexual/kinky thing I expected to like was _____ .

YSL: Cock
Yummy: being tied up


6. Recently, I _____ someone.

YSL: Adored
Yummy: missed


Bonus: You have been kidnapped by lesbians and dragged into a lesbian orgy, what are you going to do?

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YSL: Settle the hotel bill at midday checkout

Yummy: hope nobody pays the ransom


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!

Happy TMI Tuesday!

E-Lust #43


Becks and Her Kinks
Photo courtesy of Beck and Her Kinks
Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #44? Start with the newly updated rules, come back March 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
P.S. Thank you for your patience while we find our way around here at e[lust] if we have made any mistakes (and surely we have) we will do our best to get it right the next time around.
~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~
misconceptions of dating polyamorous women
Compromise in D/s relationships
Writing Challenge - The Journey
~ Featured Posts (Molly’s Picks) ~
To shave or not to shave?
Of Human and Whore
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Non-Monogamy and Sex Toys – Safe Sharing Tips
A Man's Case for Being an Asshole
Thyroid function and sexuality
Property Renewal
SilverHubby: "On Being Fucked by You"
Pain In My Ass
Chivalry
Think Different
Open vs Poly
Escaping the Individual
To shave or not to shave?
Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor
Is your sex toy review breaking the law?
Kink & Fetish
Good Boy
Breathe
Erotic Writing
Take me in
Downpour
A Naughty Nurse Setup!
Afternoon Delight
Sexy Single
Tender is the Night
Butch on Butch
A change of plan
Anal: The Final Frontier
When He Comes In My Mouth
Morning Surprise
Winter
Lolita Twenty-Thirteen, Part One
Simple
My dirty fantasy
Pleasure
The Peace of Wild Things
Camping Conquests
Collar & Lead
Eat Me
Shhh! Come Here!
The End of The World - Almost
Restraints For A Good Girl
Of Human and Whore
Silver Fox, Mynx, and the Hunter – Part VI: Take Two
A Story For Sir

Saturday 16 February 2013

Sinful Sunday - To have and to hold

This week is the Valentines competition, each player has to pick a valentines quote and depict the sentiment.

I have 2, the first was part of an unusual scenario for us, we switched. I wanted to use and play with YSL's cock for my selfish pleasure. He was amenable to being restrained. It aroused me so much I stood over his head and masturbated while he was still held in place. Once I'd came I gave him my full attention and told him to give me my cum.


"To have and to hold"

We may not be married but right at this moment he is completely mine.




"My cup runneth over"

This quote is the closest expression to explain just how I feel about YSL, my heart is so full of love for him it spills over.


See who else is playing

Sinful Sunday



Friday 15 February 2013

Something for the Weekend? #2



It's week 2!

We got 13 links last week so lets see if we can beat that!!


With about 6,000 visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that  gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.


Last weeks winner!!!!

To kick things off we had a give away from the lovely folk at Sex Shop 365 of under bed restraints for the post that we (me and YSL) stirs our weekend the most.Winners will be notified on Monday.


Drum roll...,,

The prize goes to http://ladypandorah.com/2013/01/26/2254/


I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT.

I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade. If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one!

I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.


A few simple rules:
1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once

2) The post should be sex or relationship related, it can be erotica, education, discussion or pictures/video

3) DO NOT USE YOUR POST TITLE, unless it describes what the post is about, tell the reader what is about e.g Photos and details of 3some, Male sex toy review and pictures, Thoughts on Poly Relationships.If your unsure just ask and I will amend

4) Add a link using code on the side bar to let people you are part of the SFTW community

5) Tell people to visit if you are using social media, this is about helping other bloggers in the community so share the joy and it benefits us all

Submissions now open..... :)








Please ignore I just needed to rant




Do ignore this ranting post, I just need to put it down, I would normally post this on my other blog but as it has a fair bit of sex stuff in it I thought its best here and less likely to upset vanilla readers!

Feeling quite unhappy with myself this week as per usual I've kept my thoughts and feelings hidden inside the last week or so but the small concerns and thoughts have collided and I'm in a little bit of a crisis of confidence. 

I figure putting it out there (here) might help me sort things out in my mind. 

We recently set up a new profile on our swingers community, our current profile has single males blocked and we don't emphasise YSL being bi as it can put some couples off, the guy ends up worrying he will pounce on the males cock and turn him gay! The profile is straight to the point and shares a few images of me enjoying 2 cocks orally and some  upper torso images, no where as many as we have on the main but enough to show what we look like.  A couple of weeks ago we met a guy from the site and after a drink he declined to play with us. He was polite and courteous in his turn down but I realised before we even got to that point he didn't find me attractive, he wouldn't even look at me when talking. We drove back to YSL's and we discussed the need to add body images on the profile. I appreciate a fuller figure is not for some but out profile does state that I'm a BBW. 

Last week we had the maddest night ever, 10pm we acted on impulse and drove to meet a guy, the instructions were to let ourselves in and climb in bed with him. When we got outside I started to giggle nervously, what if we were at the wrong house and climbed in bed with the wrong person!?!? I sent YSL ahead and was pleased to find a man who matched his images in bed stroking his very large manhood. We stripped and jumped in, both immediately sucking his cock and snatching it from each other. The guy was in a state, gasping with passion as we devoured his length in turn. I lay back and he fumbled his fingers I assume to try and give me some pleasure, it was unsuccessful and short lived. He moved between my thighs and was about to fuck me "you need a condom" I say confused that he was even going to attempt to penetrate me without especially given the emphasis of safe sex on our profile. "I don't have any" he replies, YSL and me lock eyes, we normally say tough and don't offer them but we've driven all this way, YSL leaves the bed to get him one of ours "I won't use them" is now his excuse followed promptly with "you will have to finish her off" gesturing for YSL to take over, finish me off? I wasn't even started!!!! Again not wishing to make the journey for nothing I suggest we just enjoy each other "no" was the point blank reply. Anger I think was the strongest emotion as I dressed but its the first time in a long time I felt hurt in this situation. when I was a single female swingingthis was the sort of thing I avoided as I know my confidence can't afford these knocks but I feel safe in the company of YSL yet this guy really knocked me. We parked up round the corner as YSL knew i needed a hug, I wanted to rationalise it all but wasn't there yet with my thoughts. The journey home seemed longer than going, the tears welled up inside and every few minutes spilled down my cheeks. It felt like this guy was only after a hole to fuck and I didn't float his boat for anything else. Again I felt awkward and un appealing.

At the weekend I was away with the husband and as he introduced me his colleague exclaimed "cor she's a big'un" I assumed referring to my height as I was wearing heels and I must of been 6ft 4ish and most normally folk don't make such personal comments about people's weight when they just meet them. The husband added "yep but dont worry she's on a diet" I was horrified and I could feel the blush sweep over me. I was the subsequently abandoned by the husband as he went to talk to clients a colleagues, leaving me at a table sat by myself. I was so angry and disappointed inside but unable to express it. Thankfully I met an old friend I've worked with and spent the night talking with them before hitting the dance floor.

Finally yesterday, after a full day of work the husbands dissatisfaction of me making no effort to cook a special dinner and that I had slipped on my PJ's was made known. He never considered it was a 2 way street, he could of made the effort but for him the fact his card for me was bigger than I had bought for him therefore he had made the greater effort. Yesterday had been tough in so many ways, including starting with the eldest refusing to go to school due to bullying which resulted in a meeting at school and being late to deliver a training course.  Added to that my son asked to go see Gran's grave to leave a valentines card and a rose for her, he said he was sad as he always spent valentines with her and he wanted her to know he still loved her, this filled me with sadness and pride. So many more minor issues than added layers of fragility to the day, all things I would normally just deal with and let wash off but I don't think I was in the right frame of mind. I had sent a silly outpouring of emotion to YSL and I hadn't heard from him all day so I worried I'd said too much until I messaged him late last night to discovered in my haste the message was sat in drafts.

Needless to say my head by the end of yesterday was in knots, I slept very little and when i did sleep it was far from restful. Today I want to hide away (and eat chocolate even if it makes me fat). I need to lie in bed and sleep feeling safe and loved, YSL close by watching over me. I need to feel accepted for who I am and appreciated for what I do.

Monday 11 February 2013

TMI Fantasy and Role Play

1. To spice things up in the bedroom, how adventurous are you willing to be? (select one)
a. I have never role-played before and will need a lot of instruction.
b. I have tested the waters, but never acted out anything scripted.
c. I have got my feet wet and want more!
d. Dive in head first – nothing is too deep.

If I'm in the mood there's nothing better than loosing yourself mentally and physically and role play can certainly do that. Never done anything prescriptive but always love it when YSL gets in the Dom mood and sets the scene very well for me being at his mercy.

2. What scenario peaks your interest most? Why?
a. Romantic and sensual
b. Playful and fun
c. Kinky! I want it all.

All of the above are a good start :)


3. Which of these is closest to your ideal setting for a fantasy?
a. A brothel
b. A dungeon
c. A bedroom
d. A prison cell

More likely a doctors surgery for me, feet in stirrups and ready for my internal exam.


4. Which of the following toys would be prominently featured in your fantasy? (select one)
a. Feathers and whipped cream
b. Handcuffs, panty hose, and a necktie
c. Whips and chains
d. Ice cubes and a cold beer

Again all would be a starter :)


5. It is time to take your sexy self to fantasy island, which fantasy will you bring to life to rock your lover’s world?


a. The Sassy Sexy Jersey Whore
Gaudy, Flashy, Showy…totally Jersey!

b. Kinky Cook
It’s all about the spice! Heating things up in the kitchen.

c. Naughty Maid
Your feather duster will tickle more than just the dust on the shelves.

d. Doctor Love
Saving lives and breaking hearts but not before you administer a head-to-toe physical examination.

e. Frisky Fireman
A hose so long you can put out several of the hottest fires and leave a smoldering heap as proof of a job well done.


Doctor love please! I'm looking forward to him making me hot and taking my temperature with his special thermometer!!



Bonus: Tell us about your craziest or wildest role-playing adventure.

We go to a place full of couples, no sexual boundaries, all wishing to pleasure each other... Oops did that today, better get another fantasy.


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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!

Sunday 10 February 2013

Sinful Sunday - pretty nails

Just had nails done ready for a ball at the weekend in London. Me and YSL put them to better use with me holding myself open for him to ruin my arse.



Sinful Sunday

Friday 8 February 2013

Cap D'Agde 2012 Foam Party (AKA mousses party)


Its the last full day of the holiday, tomorrow we fly home after what has been another amazing week together. 

No beach today, last time we were on holiday in Cap D’Agdewe had dismissed going to the Le Glamour foam party as we were having so muchfun on the beach but this time we decided to see what all the hype was about.

We joined the queue outside just as it was opening, the dresscode is simple, naked. A couple of young girls are on the till and we check inour bag and shoes but hold on to a few Euros to buy beers. The entrance isn'tthe normal one for the club, it’s to the rear, a part if the club we hadn'tbeen inside of.

Lots of Bedouin type loungers already have bodies and towelson them, we grab a couple of cold beers and find a rock to hide our money underso we can climb into the pool.


Just to the left is the main part of the club, the outdoorbar we have seen on an evening isn't recognisable it's covered in foam, peopleare dancing it the suds that are waist deep. The DJ is in a turret abovethe bar and the tunes are thumping.


There must be about 100 naked people in already and there isstill a steady stream of party goers coming in. YSL is sits on a shelf in thepool and I sit on his knee, his are arms wrapped around me as we enjoy ourdrinks and enjoy watching all the couples and groups around us. A woman is saton the edge of the pool, lay back with her legs spread, her partner is in thepool licking her cunt with a passion. A woman wearing a sarong comes over andspeaks quickly in French whilst shaking her head, I gather quickly she thinkswe are having sex in the pool which is forbidden. We resolve the confusion anddecide to head into the foam. Just as we wade in to the middle more foam is delivered from the roof, quickly it's up to our necks and I can feel hands from unknown people on my body, we move towards the wall as its getting too deep and surprisingly hot, the foam seems to insulate body heat and there is plenty of that. The foam keeps coming and I'm literally drowning in it. I've gone from party mode to survival! I've got tight a hold of YSL and trying to keep calm. I realise if I tip my head forward it stops it going in my eyes and creates a breathing space, I lead YSL out and discover he is in the same state. We are ill prepared newbies at this foam party lark.
 
 We shower off the foam suits we are wearing and stand at theedge of the foam watching. It seems the first time shock is something of aregular initiation. Lots of people emerge from the foam bewildered like wewere.

This time we are prepared. We stay at the exit edge and onlygo as deep as our shoulders. In the corner is a naked woman in a wheel chair,she's English and having this time of her life inviting males over and suckingthem. We dance rubbing our bodies against each other, lubricated with the foamysuds and really get in the party mood as the DJ hypes it up. A tall handsomeguy with a tanned six pack in a cowboy hat is behind me and I reach through thefoam and find a hard cock to hold as I’m dancing. Other hands explore me, anold couple, must be in there 70’s enthusiastically rub my breasts and try tofinger me. On the bar is the woman who works here alongside a bar tender in apolice hat and not much else and 2 other guys. One is mind 50's very fit andwearing a cowboy hat, along with a the next is the hunk of a guy I had hold ofjust moments earlier. He looks like magic mike, he couldn’t be cooler, andevery man in the place must want to be him, including YSL.

To the left of us a tall guy with a petite wife are stood. Helooks reserved and unsure whilst she is enthusiastic and clearly aroused,deduced from her using her partners cock as a dance partner.

We grab another beer and watch a woman ride her husband on alarge chair, she must be in her mid 50’s and she expertly grinds up and down onhis cock until she cums. To the left of her is a woman receiving attention from2 men, it looks pleasurable but a little false so our attention is lost.

Wading back into the foam as the DJ salutes the crowd, he has us all hypnotised with some of the best beats. We dance euphorically until I find myself clinging on to YSLas an unseen stranger in the depth of the foam is working his hand inside meand then fisting me to orgasm. Just as the shudders of the orgasm pass anotherset of unseen hands stroke my arse and circle my hole. Its a woman this timeand she works her way around her body and her partner joins her again I’mclinging to YSL as I’m being played with, its not so much their expertise it’sthe scenario that has me in a state.

I need a break and I’m back in the pool and I decline YSL’soffer to sit on the edge and having my cunt licked, I’m frightened I’d fall offor even worse look unattractive! YSL ops for sitting on the edge and I enjoyhis cock, a couple sit near us and do the same. His cock is rigid and I’madoring every inch of it and slowly taking him close to coming. YSL wants tocum and we climb out of the pool to find a bed “get on all fours I want to fuckyou hard” he says as we stand in front of the first empty bed. I’m in positionin seconds and waiting for it. I gasp as his length slides inside and his handshold my hips firmly. He slams into me hard and starts to build up pace, itshard to stay upright with all the wetness on the plastic mattress but theincentive of the hard cock has me clinging on and staying in place. Abruptly hestops and tells me to move round. There are a couple fucking and he wants me towatch whilst I get it from him. With the erotic site before me and the thoroughfucking I cum hard, my juices are flowing down my thighs. YSL spills inside ofme and collapses next to me as we finish watching the couple fuck.



Thursday 7 February 2013

Something for the weekend?



With about 6,000 visitors to my blog most weekends I thought I would create a weekly blog round up that  gives my visitors a quick list of some great reads in the blogosphere.

WIN A NAUGHTY GIFT
To kick things off we have a give away from the lovely folk at Sex Shop 365 of under bed restraints for the post that we (me and YSL) stirs our weekend the most.Winners will be notified on Monday.

I will be posting this each Thursday night and closing submission Saturday at noon GMT.

I will be adding a few posts that I think my reader will enjoy and you can add posts from blogs you have read that you think make the grade. If I've already added one from your blog you can add another bonus one!

I hope you join in and enjoy discovering some great posts.


A few simple rules:
1) Choose a post from the past week that you want to draw attention to, you post can be from your archives but should only be posted once

2) The post should be sex or relationship related, it can be erotica, education, discussion or pictures/video

3) DO NOT USE YOUR POST TITLE, unless it describes what the post is about, tell the reader what is about e.g Photos and details of 3some, Male sex toy review and pictures, Thoughts on Poly Relationships.If your unsure just ask and I will amend

4) Add a link using code on the side bar to let people you are part of the SFTW community

5) Tell people to visit if you are using social media, this is about helping other bloggers in the community so share the joy and it benefits us all

Submissions now closed, come back Thursday to add your link to this weeks reading list  :)

Tuesday 5 February 2013

TMI - Furniture

1. When you bought your bed frame, did you evaluate it in terms of ropes, handcuffs, etc?

Nope, never thought of them when buying me bed. I did buy some handcuffs one year as a cheeky valentines gift in hope of getting to use then. Hubby asked if I still had receipt to take them back.

2. Aside from beds, was sex ever a major consideration in choosing a piece of furniture?

Nope, although I do think my first born was conceived over the dining table.


3. Have you ever had anyone else (friend, mom) say a piece of your furniture was inappropriate because it was clearly for sexual purposes?

Nope, but my Mum told me the dining table she gave us was very sturdy and that I was conceived on it.


4. Do you have a piece of furniture that has a stain caused by bodily fluids (baby vomit not included)?

Unfortunately not at my house. Ask YSL though.....


5. Do you have anything in your beside table you wouldn’t want your father or mother to know about?

Nope, my bedside table is a stone cube, the sex toys are all at YSL's!


6. Do you own any exercise equipment that is useful for sex?

Nope, do I look like I own execute equipment?

I did suggest YSL purchase a weights bench following a good session we had on one at a club though.


7. Aside from your bedroom, what room do you have sex in most often?

YSL's kitchen!

8. Do you have any electronics (TV, stereo) etc in your bedroom that are on during sex?

Yes at YSL's place, we usual have www.loung-radio.com playing through our IPhone via the rather lovely speakers I bought him last year.
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Sunday 3 February 2013

Kegel exercise and great sex

I’m a great fan of doing my pelvic floor exercise, shamefully I often find it turns me on. I think thts down to me mentally focusing on my sexual self while performing them.

 I first started to do them straight after I had child no.1 About 3 days after child birth I wanted to have sex, more to prove to myself things hadn't changed. As we started the horrifying moment of the hubby asking if it was inside. I started the exercises that night as the words of “your too loose to enjoy” echoed around my head.

KegelmasterI tend to do them every day now, either just sat in the house working on the lap top or even in the car stuck in traffic. I’ve used Ben Wa balls to strengthen my pelvic floor and found them quite effective but I have found they stirred me too much and I end up far to frustrate with myself!

I recently tried a proper Kegel exerciser called the Kegel Master  and I'm surprised at the huge difference it has made to me. It allows you to progress and build up your pelvic from strength and stamina. The competitive person I am certainly has me focused on achievement with it.


The main reasons for me to strengthen my pelvic floor are:

 1. A strong core help with posture and general health

 2. Having endured child birth and the stretching and trauma that comes with it I wanted to restore the strength and tightness along with being able to laugh, cough and sneeze without an accident

 3. I’m a huge fan of being fisted and I don’t ever want it to have an adverse effect on how tight I feel. (I recently discovered my blog was centre of a major discussion in a Finnish mother and baby magazine, using it to show how flexible the vagina is!!)

 4. The ability to crush a man’s cock with my vaginal muscles alone. I love to milk YSL’s cock with my muscles as he spills inside me

These days I also recognise that the strength of my orgasms are linked to how much kegal work I have been doing so for anyone wishing to increase their pleasure and avoid needing Tena Lady, get exercising!!!

Saturday 2 February 2013

Sinful Sunday - fuller figure fun

I think the pictures tell the story quite well with the exception of how us 2 ladies devoured YSL's cock and enjoyed his full on attention and passion.

Our new friend sent us a wonderful message after to say it was the most sensual and passionate night she had ever experienced. She certainly made the night special and we enjoyed leading her astray, she had so many new experiences that night including fisting, anal and spanking, all of which amazed her and left us sleeping in the shallow end, from her and me the place was soaked!

Sinful Sunday


















Friday 1 February 2013

A change of plan

Busy days for both of us yesterday and I didn't get to YSL's till nearly 6, we grabbed a quick bite to eat and headed to town. We were meeting a single bi male for a 3some.

Our safe word is agreed, if I'm happy with the guy I'm going to say 'I could just enjoy a havana' any other drink is a no. We have arrange this meet through the swingers community we are members of, he's a bi male, age 52, his pictures have him looking like a well aged graphic designer or architect, the dark polo neck, shaved head and quirky glasses have him a cert for appreciating a Mies ven der Rohe in my book. Traffic in town is heavy and we arrive a little late, having to park 10 minutes away didn't help with arrival time or with how dishevelled I look as we get through the door.

As I straighten my wind swept hair YSL orders drinks at the bar. I spot the eager wave of the bald headed guy and have to immediately hide the horror on my face. The quirky architect clearly knows how to get a good picture and how to be economical with the truth. Bounding across the bar enthusiastically is a short rotund bald man who's drank too much red wine. His big wine stained grin was his only plus point.

Now before you think in judging a book by its cover....
1. We have an honest profile, clear up to date pictures and I specifically emphasise I'm no thin lady. I most certainly would not tick the 'average' box and hope no body would notice I can't be trusted.
2. There needs to be trust, even if its a gut thing, your about to get naked and let this person do things to you, lying for the get go is not a good place to start
3. I have a preference, it's my choice, I know I'm not everyone's type and likewise this guy was not mine. I had already given in to the height thing as this guy seemed to have everything else in his favour.
4. And most importantly.... We have amazing sex together, swinging is merely an extra dimension and element of excitement we like to share, we don't need others and we can afford to be fussy.

I quickly indicate to YSL that I will NOT be going any where near the Havana tonight and say I will handle it.

I apologies for our delay and tell him it was down to being let down by baby sitters, our plans need to change but hadn't wanted to just let him down and not turn up. We have a polite one drink and make our excuses. He was a pleasant enough guy but certainly not a potential sexual partner and most definitely not our first planned bi mmf.

We head straight back for the car and discuss the plans for the night. The guy from 2 weeks ago was free but I'm not in the mood for him and I'm so aroused I doubt he would appreciate the mess I would make on his bedding.

It's my choice of what we do "I just want you" is my reply as I start the car and negotiate the car park bends. We are home in 10minutes and enjoying a warm drink curled up on the sofa watching TV. We both needed to unwind and relax before even considering getting naked.

As the TV show came towards the end the gentle caress of my legs transfers to my thighs then his fingers stroke teasingly over the top of my panties, instantly my arousal shoots of the charts. The next 10 minutes I couldn't tell you what happened on the TV my mind was too busy willing YSL to press harder or pull down my damn panties. I'm trying my best to push forward my hips and part my thighs more so that my clit has a chance of feeling his touch.

He holds my cunt firmly and forces his thumb hard against my clit, my juices are trickling from me and being captured by my panties. He stands and gestures towards the stairs, I beat him up there and start to strip. "Stop right there" he says as he climbs the stairs. I'm stood in just my bra, panties and stockings. He gets behind me and caresses my body, kisses my neck and says "lie face down on the centre of the bed" he walks out of the room and returns with our new under bed restraints from Uber Kinky . He quickly positions the restraints and takes my wrist and fastens the Velcro strap firmly, then the other, my cunt is aching so badly. As each ankle is tied and the restraints adjusted so my legs where fully stretched my cliterous starts throbbing and I know it's growing as I can feel the fullness between my lips.

I can hear him strip and the anticipation of his touch has my skin alight. Feeling so vulnerable and open to him is turning my mind on so much. He pulls down my panties just enough to expose my bottom and his first touch is my cheeks being parted followed by his tongue delving deep in my arse and delighting my hole as he swirls his tongue around it. I can't move much but I'm able to raise my hips and push back onto his face. I want more, I need him to be inside me so badly. I'm on the verge of cumming and I'm expecting him to stop, I know I'm about to be teased beyond what I've ever experienced.

He moves up the bed caresses my body, his touch is amplified, it feels so loving but also full of anticipation. I don't know if he has the crop or paddle, I'm not sure if this is going to involve pushing my limits or just making me beg to cum. His hand taps my bottom and then his fingers trail between my slit, delving into my dripping hole then circling my arse using the juices from my cunt to tease me open. He starts to vigorously finger my cunt and takes me to the edge again, I want to cum so badly I'm tempted to try and be quiet and still so he doesn't know how close I am but I'm loving this as well and uncertain I could stay quiet. He stops and kisses my neck while wanking his cock, I can't see but I know from his eyes and his breathing his cock is hard and giving him pleasure.

He moves between my thighs and slams his cock in deep taking my breath away. I want this so bad. He fucks me hard until I'm close again and pulls out just in time then smacks his hardness off my exposed arse hole, teasing even more.

I'm soaked, I can feel the wetness of my panty gusset as he pulls my panties back up, whilst nothing is touched sexually this act drives me wild it's so erotic. His fingers caress and need my thighs then he trails his nails over the fabric sending ripples of pleasure through my entire body. I want him so much.

He moves back round and this time pulls my panties aside licking my cunt and inhaling my scent before slamming his length back inside me. His body covers mine, his arms encompass my upper body and he talks filth into my ear. He tells me how much he wants to see other men take me, he wants to sit and watch the pleasure from the corner and appreciate me from afar. He asks me how many men have ever fucked me, I surrender my answer without concern of judgement or regret. I think it even arouses him to know 30 other men have been inside me especially as right now my cunt is entirely his. I couldn't give myself any more to him.

He turns me over and continues to tease, holding my cunt firmly through my panties then applying enough pressure from me to grind back against but stopping before any relief occurs, merely adding to the frustration and making me more wanton.

He stands above me on the bed, stroking his raging hard cock and then squats over my head, filling my mouth with is cock and gagging me deeply. I suck hungrily for these brief moments I'm aloud to enjoy and touch it with my tongue before he snatches it back from me and rejoins me on the bed.

The filth continues as YSL tells me a scenario he wants to see in such sensual detail. He starts to rub my clit with passion I feel sure this is it but I'm fearful I go passed the point of no return and he stops. I ask him as I desperately hold back "can I cum?" I can hardly form the words as its taking everything to not cum. He doesn't reply he just rubs harder and I can't stop it happening, every inch of me climaxes, my entire body is alight and shuddering with intense pleasure. He still doesn't stop, my clit feels ready to explode and my climax is still pouring out of me.

YSL holds me close as I float on a large fluffy cloud of orgasm. His kisses seem so soft and tender as I tremble with euphoria. He moves back between my thighs and yanks my panties down to just expose my crotch, his cock is still so hard as he drags it over my cunt before wanking himself, he holds open my lips with his other hand and shoots his hot cum over my cunt, the warmth and silkiness as it trickles over my engorged clit sets me alight again. He pulls up my panties and holds my cunt firmly as we lie together smiling and kissing each other.









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