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Tuesday, 28 February 2012

In room entertainment #yummyontour

We checked into the new hotel, the previous night had been just a travel lodge (motel sort) but tonight was luxury. We both had a little work to complete but I got mine done first and headed for a shower. Whilst Id had a shower before we left the other place YSL had also fucked me and covered me in cum.

Still damp from the shower I lay back on the on the bed naked in full view of YSL who was sat at the desk in the corner of the large room. He was chatting on the phone and I was slowly masturbating myself.


I totally switched off from the conversation and got lost in my own thoughts that centred around the night before passion, being held so tenderly by one man while being made love to by YSL. I was slowly moving around on the bed as my body undulated with the pleasure. YSL stood up from his desk and wandered closer to me whilst still engaged on the call. He smiled approvingly at me and admired the view. The phone call ended and he lay next to me on the bed and asked me if I had climaxed yet. I hadn’t, Id kept myself on the edge and hadn’t cum as I wasn’t sure of being quiet and didn’t want to be heard on the call. I ask YSL to finish me. He reaches his fingers into my wet cunt and then takes hold of my clit, its so hard and swollen from all the previous 2 days playing and pleasure, its almost too sensitive but I adore how every touch is amplified. He takes hold of me and kisses me so hard and deeply until he has me cumming and soaking his hand and the bedding.

We open the wine and lie on the bed together and browse the internet for some potential in room entertainment for the afternoon. The club doesn’t open until after 9 and we have 7 hours of the sumptuous surroundings to take advantage of.

The bi 3sum hadn’t happened the day before as planned and we both fancied trying to find a bi male to join us. We post an advert on the swingers site and take off the ban for single makes t contact us. The messages flood in and we quickly filter them by our preferences and if the are verified as genuine people. Work get it down to 3 we like the look of, non of which have bi on there profile but after a quick chat 2 confess they are and the other we never got round to asking as he was already on his way to us. We moved to the bar to meet our entertainment and enjoyed a few drinks, we were both in good spirits if not a little bit more than tipsy!


Stu arrives. At first glance Im a little disappointed but after 2 minutes of conversation Im happy and comfortable with our choice. He was about 5’10”, blonde, unshaven, casually dressed with messy surfer type hair, about 30ish. He had a cute smile and very articulate which is a huge plus point for me.

We had forgotten to organise our code words and figured our joke code word banana would be wrong to use at this moment so i just go for it and suggest we go to the room. My sexual entourage followed me into the lift.

In the room the guys sit on the bed and Im sat on the chair, the music from Le Glamour is playing in the background and Im getting rather aroused. I excuse myself as the guys are chatting about our trip to Cap D’Adge and head to the bathroom. Id placed a sexy black see through chemise in there before we went downstairs. I stripped and slipped on the chemise and returned to the room and sat back in the chair. YSL gave a smile that said I looked good.

When i left the room YSL had been talking about the BDSM club and it seems it had moved onto our interest in cropping, Stu had never done it but had expressed a curiosity for it. YSL instructed me to bend over the desk and handed Stu the crop from our bag of sex toys we had brought on tour. I turned to Stu and said “I will give you a number 1 – 10 each time you strike me, so you know how hard or soft it feels”

“which way round? Is 1 hard or soft”



“10 is too much, 9 is near my limit don’t push anymore, 8 is good....”

“ok” he says and strikes me quite hard for someone who has never done it before.

“7” I say and flash a smile at YSL how is sat back on the bed stroking his cock.

“9, fuck that stings”

He hits me firm again “9” the next one is too much and if it was YSL it would of been perfect “10” I know Im getting so aroused as I can feel a trickle of juice run down my thigh. He continues and gets my bottom so very tender and my cunt aching for more pleasure. He drops to his knees behind me and begins to rub my clit and work his fingers into me. Before long he is fisting me and Im about to cum, my eyes are locked on YSL who is enjoying the entire view whilst appreciating slowly wanking himself.

I move to the bed and YSL lies behind me while Stu continues to masturbate me, his cock is hard and YSL directs me with his eyes that I should suck him. I take hold of Stu's cock and slowly wank him first. YSL moves to the chair and I watch him while I tease the tip of Stu's cock. The thought goes through my head that I wonder if Stu realises he is just a prop in mine and YSL's pleasure?

I hover my open mouth over the tip of his cock and ask him how much he wants me to take him in my mouth. He is almost shaking with anticipation. I move my mouth further down but without contact with his cock, he trembles with anticipation even more until I suddenly take all of him in, every inch until his cock nestles in the back of my throat, my eyes connected with YSL the entire time.

I suck, tease and wank him until he is close then slow right down, he wants to cum but I'm enjoying teasing him, I edge him a couple more time before I tell him to give me his cum. Instantly as I demand it he spurts over my breasts, the 4th man in 2 days to do so.













TMI - sex and romance

This week’s TMI Tuesday is about sex and romance. Who doesn’t enjoy a little romance or the art of seduction before engaging in sex? Often times the prelude is better than the actual ‘event’.

1. You are sitting alone in a restaurant because your lunch date is late. Do you:
a) Throw something and then make out with the waiter.
b) Check to make sure he or she didn’t get into an accident, then wait patiently for two hours and use the time to compose a love song or poem.
c) Send a nasty text followed up by a voice mail telling him/her that “romance is dead and so are you!”
d) Wait for 20 minutes, and then text-message a pal to join you for lunch.

I think I will go with my own option...
E) non of the above, if I had a free lunch time I would be spending it being eaten by YSL


2. What’s more important, a romantic relationship or your career?

I'm going to have to say career, it makes me happy and without it I doubt I'd have the time, money or confidence to enjoy life to the limit.

3. You love to role play in the bedroom, which one of these is more likely to be your kink?
a. Doctor and the naughty nurse
b. You’re the gardener, I’m the hoe
c. Persnickety principal and the wayward pupil that needs a spanking
d. Me Tarzan, you Jane
e. Scattered-brain boss and the seductive secretary

Again making my own answer although Dr's and nurses is close, I'd like medical play but more Dr/patient. I really enjoyed it when we did it in Cap D'Agde


4. When you want sex, who tends to make the first move?
a. Me! I like to go for what I want.
b. It varies. Sometimes my partner/significant other/date or sometimes me.
c. Oh definitely the other person. Even if I want it, I’m not about to admit such a thing.
d. I drop subtle hints hoping he/she will pick up on it.

I love that I have the confidence to ask for what I want again. For too long I took what I was given and often that included constant rejection.


5. When it comes to lovemaking, select the answer that best describes you/your attitudes
a. vanilla – meets society’s middle of the road standards
b. adventurous
c. kinky
d. trisexual – I will try anything once, twice if I like it, three times to make sure. –Mae West

My answer is closest to 'd' but id rather you just know I'm me, it changes daily as I evolve and learn more about myself and my sexuality.


6. You want to seduce that sexy someone, what is the sweet-nothing that you’ll whisper in his/her ear?

I want to feel your warmth spill inside me...


Bonus: What’s your idea of a romantic getaway?

YSL, anywhere.
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Saturday, 25 February 2012

Sinful Sunday - my bottom half

We stayed away on Thursday and got up to lots of naughty fun. I thought I would share a few glimpses of what my bottom half got up to in 16hours of pleasure with YSL.

I will be share the details as it was the most intense cropping session ever.

Sinful Sunday

Spot the dildo and the bondage tape

Sorry no prize but you do get to see what happened next tomorrow on Sinful Sunday.

Friday, 24 February 2012

When it comes to romantic involvement or sexual attraction/activity, do you have an upper or lower age limit?

I think for me they need to be 30+ and downside of 60 but I do try to be more open minded and decide against the outlook they have. YSL has never had a relationship with a woman younger than him before me. His preference has always been for a more mature female. Sp thank goodness for him having the same open mindedness as me.

Ask me anything

Ask yummy a questionlengthy or girth which is better

Im a lucky girl because with YSL I get both but if I could have only one it would be girth.

Did I mention I luuuurrrrvvvveeee his cock?

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Gotta give you a round of applause for being 'out there', love it! Was the sex swing uncomfortable?

it was like a white knuckle ride until I managed to relax. YSL helped with that by sticking his face in my cunt and licking me till I didn't care where I was, after that it was like I was floating. it was also a wonderful sense of bondage, whilst I wasn't tied in I certainly couldn't of gone anywhere without his assistance.

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Have you ever paid or been paid for sex? If not, under what circumstances (if any) would you consider it?

Tough question because I think everything has a price.

Last week we met an escort in a club. She was clearly a sex enthusiast and being a paid escort for her was getting money for her hobby and favorite past time. I think I would enjoy the thrill of being paid. that someone wants me enough to spend the money to make it happen.

So lets start the bids at £500 for the evening.

Ask me anything

What one thing is most important for sustaining a healthy relationship?

Listening and talking openly with each other. I think thats why me and YSL have such a solid relationship in relatively short space of time as we are constantly revisiting the important stuff and making sure we are both happy and understanding.

I think especially when swinging if you don't talk openly and honestly it will ruin any relationship. We make a point of discuss the good and the bad and always learn from each experience.

Ask me anything

How often do you masturbate?

I used to masturbate most days if I had the time or privacy but in recent months Im more sexually satisfied that I have ever been and often don't do anything beyond a gentle stroke while remembering what we have done between seeing YSL.

I do love masturbating for YSL. Last week on our trip away he had to take a work call and I lay back on the bed naked and fingered myself with my cunt on full view of him and when he finished the call he came over and finished me.

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Wednesday, 22 February 2012

HNT & TNH black and white

This weeks theme was black and white or light.

I took this Saturday morning, the last day of our 3days and nights of passion and debauchery. I came so much all over YSL's face.

The chocolate game

Thursday night we arrived at the club and after an enthusiastic show round we grabbed a drink and met a few of the other guests. The couple in the hot tub caught our eye and by the looks of their smiles we seemed to of caught theirs.

We finished our drinks and headed upstairs to one of the main play rooms. On the bed opposite are a pile of clothes and a bag if chocolate buttons, we wonder whose they are and joke about pinching a chocolate.

I sit on the bed and YSL parts my legs and kneels on the edge of the bed, just as I'm lying back the couple from the jacuzzi come into the room. Its their clothes and chocolate, we say our hellos and I confess I wanted to pinch a chocolate.

The lady, Sue, curvy figure, large breasts and a very naughty glint in her eye comes over to sit next to us. The guy, Jim, a tall well built guy with a shaven head wanders over with a confident swagger opening the chocolates.

"we have a game do you want to play?" he asks playfully.

"yes" the only answer clearly

"place a chocolate where you want me to lick" he explains "I can't stop licking until you place the next one down".

I take a chocolate and place one on my thigh, i didnt wang to empty the bag on my pussy straight away! Jim starts licking and nibbling away, I place another on my other thigh and Sue goes for it.

I pass the bag of chocs to YSL and make him in charge of placing more. He places a trail to my cunt for Jim to follow and Sue heads for the ones on my breast. I ask for a couple of chocs, everyone thought I just wanted to eat one but instead I reached and placed them on Sues arse and told YSL to join in with the licking. Before long the chocolates were forgotten and the 4 of us were just in a knot of entwined bodies.

I was on my knees kissing Sue and sucking her breasts, YSL licking her and she's whispering to me how wonderful it feels as he makes her cum. Jim is fingering me and then trying to work his huge hand inside me until he manages to fist me fully. His hands are so big I can hardly breath I'm so full of him. He touches my clit gently and makes me cum.

He starts to fuck me slowly at first then builds up pace to thoroughly pounding me, taking hold of my hair as he pulls me back onto his cock. He slows down and pushes his thumb into my arse gauging reaction to see if Iike it or not. He grabs some lube and slicks my hole ready then pushes his cock inside. I love the connection, YSL is holding my hand as Jim fucks my other hole.

When he finishes fucking my arse I take a break and head to the bathroom and was followed by Jim, YSL is still licking Sue and she is adoring every moment of it. Jim makes it clear in the toilets he wants me, he tells me he think I'm hot and how much he has loved having his cock inside me.

As we head back to the playroom
Sue is sucking on YSL and Jim starts to spank her. He invites me to join in and keep her legs open as he played with her. I could see YSL wasn't enjoying her oral as much so I politely take over the administration. Jim starts to fist me again and spank me firmly with his unburied hand until I cum again.

Sue was on all 4's ready to be fucked, I sit back and enjoy watching while slowly stroking my wet pussy as Jim gets at the front end so she gets a spit roast. He is clearly a dominant guy, he starts to call Sue a filthy slut and pushing her back onto YSL's cock telling her to take it properly. It was a little mismatched to where we were at in play but we appreciated their enthusiasm.

YSL pulls out and finished her off with his fingers and Jim lies back to watch. His cock is hard and YSL encourages me to make use of the erection. I lie next to Jim and take him in my mouth, slowly sucking and teasing him. YSL moves behind me and pushes his hardness inside me, his cock feels so much bigger and deeper the Jims.

I suck and wank Jim until he is clearly on the edge of cumming, YSL is so close to it and whispers to make Jim cum. I lock my mouth firmly round the tip and drain his cum, the open my mouth and let YSL see it all dribble back out.

Sue is sucking another guy who has joined us in the room, he cums and pushes her back in the bed and buried his face in her pussy.

Jim takes hold of me and gently caresses my back and neck while YSL continues to fuck me with such passion, right at this moment my head is full of a fantasy of mine, I've never done a mmf so intimate, just being held and desired by a man while being made love to by another that wants me so much. I cum so deep I'm almost dizzy with it Jim had to check I was OK not being used to how wrapped in a euphoric orgasmic state I can get.


Monday, 20 February 2012

TMI


1. List ONE word to describe your last sexual encounter.

Unbelievable :)

2. Can you recall your worst sexual experience? Why was it so awful? Did you do anything at the time to try to make it better?
Inspiration: http://husbandtwomindssexually.blogspot.com

I have a few bad ones but I don't dwell on the negative, I like to take the positives from any situation and move on, even if the positive is just that I've learned not to do it again.

3. Do you fuck outside the box?
Inspiration: http://hausofmm.blogspot.com/2011/04/fucking-outside-box.html?
We all have a laundry list of things–features, demographic characteristics, etc. that we like and/prefer in a sexual partner. Do you ever deviate from that list? Give an example.

My number 1 on my list that I won't deviate from is height, potential partners had to be over 6ft.

Erm YSL is 5ft 11 so maybe a little deviation in life is good!

4. Do you blend BDSM in to your relationship? If yes, just in the bedroom or in other areas of your life? Explain.

Yes we adore BDSM, the proof of our trust and closeness it brings is wonderful. It's not just in the bedroom, it's at the clubs, in the hotels, at couples houses..... It's a long list.

5. Does the thought of your partner/significant other having sex with another person turn you on? Would you want to watch the act? Would you like to join in?

Erm am I exempt from answering this? You all know I adore this.

Picture is the woman we both pleasured on Friday night, sandwiched between us, I held her as she sucked my nipples and YSL fucked her.

Bonus: Fill in the blanks.

I like it ________ on the outside and ______ in the middle.

I think I'm going for....

I like it OFTEN on the outside and ALWAYS in the middle.

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Saturday, 18 February 2012

Sinful Sunday - Swoosh, thwack, sting

Look closely, thats the crop moving...

Details to come but that is not YSL, he was sat on the bed stroking his hard cock as I was punished over the desk.

I got my rewards straight after. Centre of attention and pleasured so deeply.


Sinful Sunday





Elust #33


Photo courtesy of Penny


Welcome to e[lust], the sex blog round-up- The best posts from the hottest and smartest sex bloggers all in one place! This edition highlights topics such as STI's, swingers and poly relationships, spanking, role play and so much more. Want to be included in e[lust] #34? Start with the rules, come back in February to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!


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I'm The 48% - I keep breathing. Strangely enough, the world didn’t end at that precise moment. I felt numb. I stared at those two red lines on the monitor.


Can Swingers be Happily Married? Long Term? - Swinging can be an exhilarating experience. It requires sincerity, honesty, vulnerability, strength, forgiveness, and patience.


Secretary - I was a little worried: my intentions in placing the ad had been purely dishonorable, but her response offered no evidence that she correctly divined my intentions.


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A Little Spanking Can Go A Long Way - All I could do was hold on until it was over. It was more than I could take, but I took it and, of course, I loved it.


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Erotic Writing


A Great Fuck
all my weight on her
Afterglow
a Masturbation Story
Bunco Night!
Fag-Break Fuck
Having him in my mouth
hypnopompic Apparition
Kiss Me There
Naked Underwater
Sodom: Enter the Fist
Soothed
Starvation


Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships


A Beginner's Guide to Spanking
A Matter of Lube
Attraction, Rejection and Uncertainty
Bad Vibes, Generally
Fluidity: Growing-up Poly Part VI
Going Down
Making Love
Never Pinch a Sadist
Near Outing due to Outrage
Porn, Pubic Hair, Sex & Reality
Sadie Says ... Remember Santa Barbara


Kink & Fetish


Cruor
Hungry Beast
Later that afternoon - Part IV
Long-distance Roleplay & BDSM
Reflecting on Vacation Playtime: Part III: Tent Slut Slapped
The Dungeon Club


Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor


Odd Sex laws around the World
Post-Brazilian

Wednesday, 15 February 2012

HNT or TNH

This weeks theme is Yummy, easy! Me!! Well I thought I would also show you what YSL gave me for valentines...


Cock :)

Our valentines romance followed a well know fairy tale, with a happy ending for everyone.

Yummy "my what a big tasty cock you have"


YSL "all the better to fuck you with"

Tuesday, 14 February 2012

I dont have to think, I know



The contrast in life these days on a daily basis is vast. Today highlights it.

This morning the husband presents me with a card, he looks smug so I think OMG he has really bothered. I open the card and thank him for the effort which I immediately want to retract as he gives me the chocolates I had got free at the weekend. I'm still puzzled by his smugness, thinking maybe he has something else planned, I hand over my card.

It was so hard to choose one, I'm sure there is a market for valentines that say... 'wow we made it another year' 'may this be the last' 'I'm here out of a strange sense of commitment'. I decided to choose one that said very little and had a thrifty price tag and grabbed a bottle of his favourite wine to go with it.

As he sees the card and bottle of wine the smug look goes, he was only smug because he thought I'd forgotten. It underlines the scoring system he seems to have in place, constantly trying to count points. I don’t know if he loves me, he says it but its never felt. I don’t think he fancies me, the years of no interest in me and the put downs about using sex toys can only mean this. I don’t think he respects me or my contribution to the family; the constant lists of my short comings are pointed out.

But the other end of the spectrum lies YSL.
I know Im loved so deeply by him, he doesnt need to say it but when he does it is heart felt.

I know I'm desired, I see it in his eyes and its measurable in inches, he is always so hard for me.

I know I'm wanted, not just as a lover, our relationship has grown in depth and breadth and we often support each other in other important aspects of our lives.

I know I'm respected, in all ways, including sexually and professionally.

I’ve never felt so secure and certain in my life of someone being there for me, I don’t need a special day like Valentines to say it but its as good as any other.


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Monday, 13 February 2012

TMI - Valentines

1. Cupid is the god of desire, affection, and erotic love. As the myth goes, a person who is shot by Cupid’s arrow is filled with uncontrollable desire. On your behalf, who would you like Cupid to shoot?

Too late, already been shot and about 3 hours ago YSL topped up the shot in the arse and happily type with an ass full of YSL.

2. Earlier in the evening you had dinner at the Fook Yue Chinese Restaurant. You are feeling quite amorous. You open a fortune cookie in the bedroom. Three fortunes appear:

1- “Your patience will be rewarded.” What would you like that reward to be?

Oral, YSL always rewards my patience with an indulgent session of face smuthering oral sex.

2- “Try something new.” What is the something new you want to try?

I think I’d like to try a full on MMF bi session. I want to be centre of attention but no boundaries for anyone just full on bodies mingling and enjoying the pleasure. I wonder if that will ever happen **evil grins**

3- ” ’tis better to give than receive.” What would you like to give?

I will give myself, totally.

3. If you were to write a special Valentine message (e.g., card, letter, etc.) what is that message?

I thought i’d found a perfect card for the husband this year but then realised I was in the ‘sorry your leaving section’. As for what I would like, whilst I appreciate the sentiment I’d rather feel loved that have a card.

4. Are you doing something special for Valentine’s day or is it just another day?

Me and YSL are doing something very special.... we are going away for a couple of nights. We have a 4some planned, a bi MMF, 2 clubs and as couple of nights in hotel luxury. Who says you have to go to Thailand for sex tourism?

5. You must give chocolate to your secret Valentine for Valentine’s Day. The chocolate is in the shape of your what?

A box of nipples!

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Saturday, 11 February 2012

Underneath - not a gap between us

This week in celebration, of Sinful Sundays' new home, Molly has set a competition with some wonderful rewards.

Her blog and sinful sunday totally rock so go join in if you fancy some lovely treats (read about it herehttp://sinfulsunday.mollysdailykiss.com/2012/02/01/competition-alert/ ) or just go see the amazing other blogs that contribute weekly and make sinful Sunday so awesome.

My contribution and competition entry:

I was curled up so close in his arms when told YSL I needed something with the theme 'underneath'.Jjust at that moment we realised how we were underneath the duvet, so close, loving each other, without separating I grabbed my phone and took the image.

This is us underneath, so close I can feel his heart beat, I can feel his arousal for me pressed against me.

Sinful Sunday



Fucked perfectly

After waking in each others arms ysl slowly stroked my clit until my first orgasm washed over me. His cock was hard already and after taking a moment to admire how swollen and grateful my clit was he moved between my legs and started to fuck me. The next 90mins was spent connected, his cock burried deep inside of me and moving deliberately to give me pleasure. At one point, I was close to cumming he was looking at me in such a way that I knew how loved I was, completely, entirely. I tell him I love him, my eyes well up i mean it so much and his reply verbalises what his eyes have said.

We only pause to change position I lie in my side and he pushed back inside and brushes my hair clear of my face and ear, ready for him to start whispering in my ear. As he talks to me we talk about what might be happening this week, a mmf, me centre of attention, all the pleasure of two men totally focused on me but without any boundaries themselves.

I cum again and as I recover he is already applying ample lube to my other hole and pushes his cock just inside, pausing and making sure i can appreciate every moment of stretching to accommodate his cock. He takes hold of me and thrusts in deep and again pauses, I'm breathless and clawing at the bed sheets as his hardness fills me completely.

He tells me how he is going to fuck my arse while the other man licks my cunt next week, the thought of being that consumed makes me cum again and swiftly followed by YSL growling as he pumps my arse full of cum.

The rest of the day was spent lazily pleasuring each other, not just physically, our discussions are rich and deep in between us, conversations punctuated by orgasms and cuddles.

He moves down the bed a little and takes my breast in his mouth, he sucks and caresses it with his tongue making me moaning and ache for his cock. He switches breast and continues the prolonged pleasure and teasing and tells me to masturbate for him, after slowly stroking my own clit and enjoying the attention of his mouth he pushes the tip of his cock to rest against my clit. My cunt is begging for his cock but the trading is also perfect and just what I need, it's enough to make me cum again.
He turns me over and takes me in spoons position, his cock is the hardest I've felt all day as he pushes inside. I'm soaked and his cock is sliding in easily, I can feel every contour of him as he moves inside me. He picks up pace until I feel him fill my cunt with the warmth of his cum. I was close to cumming and reach for the Hitachi. His cock was still hard and fill my cunt perfectly while the wand pleasures my clit until my cunt grips YSL as i climax and ensure every last drop is squeezed from him.

Thursday, 9 February 2012

What is an instant turn on for you? Physical, mental or otherwise... what turns your crank?

Having my mind stimulated is probably no.1 then touch and scent, vision is low on my list by comparison. Kissing is a major turn on for me, i adore having my neck kissed and nibbled, also so many subtle but intimate things like YSL's hands just touching my tummy, my ankles caressed and held or tracing my curves.


my biggest turn offs are:

1) A lack of manners be it at the table, at a door, in the bedroom.

2) smelly body odour or bad breath

3) Being selfish or pushy in the bedroom

4) Bad kissing

5) Apologies or asking for feedback as a way to fish for a compliment

"did I lick you ok baby?" Er no! Did I beg you to stop yet???

"sorry if my cock hurts it's big" Er no! Are you in yet??

It just sets me on sarcastic mode!!! And you don't want to be on the wrong side of that!


What turned you on the most this week?

Ask me anything

have you had more than two different guys in one day

Yes, but Im talking about them both knowing about it in a group/swinging scenario but I suspect you are refering to fucking them totally seperately without their knowledge? if so then no. Im not into one off quickies, I get little or no sexually gratification from that. I like prolonged sessions of passion and excitement that both/all parties enjoy.

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How many holes on a golf course :)

Regardless of venue I have the same number of holes that need attention.

I prefer playing 2 or 4 ball and dont mind a bit of rough.

Ask me anything

Youve said on a couple of posts about how you have had a hard week is this your marriage or job or both? And I find rough sex is a great way to get stress relief, what do you like?

I will keep it brief because I don’t want to bore you with the details. The past few weeks I’ve had my Alcoholic Mum living with us and to say its added stress is an understatement. Last night I chucked her out thought after shocking behaviour. Whilst it has resolved one aspect of the stress it opens up and whole load more from worrying about her and trying to get her moved into her new house. Previouslto her moving in this has been problematic and stressful, it’s essentially pulled the entire family apart and she still doesn’t see how she has caused any of it. If you do want to read more of the tough side of things http://marriednoparole.blogspot.com is my other blog.
Sex as a stress reliever? Yes. I find sex extremely therapeutic at times like these but masturbation doesn’t help as I often fail to climax and only add to my frustration. Tonight I know sex will be everything I need it to be, no plan or specific type of sex. My mind wanders from wanting such a hard spanking to almost justify tears, being tied up and used through to just gently love making, being held and having my brow kissed, i just know for certain that I need to be in YSL’s arms.

Ask me anything

Wednesday, 8 February 2012

HNT or TNH theme love

Since the theme is love I thought I would share 2 things I love.


This poem:

Yearn On by Katie Donovan


I want you to feel
the unbearable lack of me.
I want your skin
to yearn for the soft lure of mine;
I want those hints of red
on your canvas
to deepen in passion for me:
carmine, burgundy.
I want you to keep
stubbing your toe
on the memory of me;
I want your head to be dizzy
and your stomach in a spin;
I want you to hear my voice
in your ear, to touch your face
imagining it is my hand.
I want your body to shiver and quiver
at the mere idea of mine.
I want you to feel as though
life after me is dull, and pointless,
and very, very aggravating;
that with me you were lifted
on a current you waited all your life to find,
as though you were wading
through a soggy swill of inanity and ugliness
every minute we are apart.
I want you to drive yourself crazy
with the fantasy of me,
and how we will meet again, against all odds,
and there will be tears and flowers,
and the vast relief of not I,
but us.
I am haunting your dreams,
conducting these fevers
from a distance,
a distance that leaves me weeping,
and storming,
and bereft.

This cock

Monday, 6 February 2012

TMI - come to bed with me

TMI Tuesday this week was submitted by http://undercovermetamorphosis.wordpress.com/. Thank you! Show her some love, stop by her blog and say hello.

1. A friend is coming to have sex. There are 3 twin beds and an air mattress in the room. What do you do? (choose one)
a. Have sex where ever we land first, who needs a bed?
b. Have sex on a single twin mattress
c. Have sex on an air mattress
d. Or? (tell us your solution)

Not even considering the answer I'm just going to start kissing and get naked.

2. What is the oddest thing you have in your bedroom that someone would be surprised to find. Why is it there?

I think the oddest thing is missing from my bedroom, no sex toys here, no sex either for that matter!

3. What are your favorite sheets?
a. Flannel
b. Cotton
c. T-shirt cotton (jersey)
d. Satin

Cotton, fresh and crisp and ready for me to ruin!


4. Do you sleep with sheets tucked in or out? Why?

Out? What are you? Savages?
I hate that trapped feeling of an over tucked in sheet you get in hotels.

5. What is your usual bedtime? Why?
a. 8-10 pm
b. 10-12 midnight
c. 12-24
d. Whenever my eyes won’t stay open any longer.

Probably about midnight but I'm often still awake for a couple of hours depending on how stressed or relaxed I am.

5. Do you sleep with closet door(s) shut or open? Bedroom door shut or open? Any particular reason why?

Closet shut incase of a shoe avalanche, bedroom door open so I can hear the kids and for air to circulate.

6. Have you ever broken a bed or other furniture during sex?

Erm yes. Fucked so hard the headboard came off and landed on me and Him.

7. What’s your favorite type of bed for sex?

A crowded one with naked people on it! (or YSL's I feel so comfortable there, curled up in his arms and loved).

I love my bed and I adored the moment me and YSL fucked in it. The naughty details are here: http://heelsnstocking.blogspot.com/2011/10/hnt-marital-home.html

8. What do you sleep in?
a. Lingerie
b. Underwear
c. Day clothes
d. T-shirt
e. Nothing

Naked. Yep and still no sex.

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Totally his - Sensory deprivation


The morning had been spent with clients but as soon as the meeting finished I was on my way to YSL towers.

Both of us had a little work to finish off but as soon as I'd finished mine I headed upstairs to freshen up and wait for YSL's attention. He joins me and comments on the welcoming site of my naked back and bottom as he walks in the room.

We curl up together and hold each other tightly, the weekend has been testing for me but I can feel the stress ebb away as he pulls me in close. He kisses me so deeply, I feel my entire body surrender to him and my cunt set alight.

He takes his time caressing my every inch and making me ache so much for him, more than sexually, it's the depth of connection I'm so hungry for. Moving slowly he retreats under the covers and buries his head between my thighs and starts to devour my entire being. There is nothing comparable to the feeling of his mouth around my clit, the pleasure it gives me is indescribable and beyond physical. He is so passionate as he gifts me this pleasure, I know I'm not being selfish as he enjoyment is visible and measurable in inches. I cum all over him and he rubs his face deep in my juices before taking my swollen clit back in his mouth and torturing me so sweetly and making me cum again.

YSL rises from the covers his face dripping with my juices and slams his hardness into me, pausing a moment before making love to me so perfectly. He takes hold of my ankles and pulls my legs apart before slowly fucking me with his entire length, pulling out to the tip then pushing in deep. I'm close to cumming and he tells me to cum on him, enticing my climax out of me as my cunt takes hold of his cock as it spasms and coats him in my cum.

"Roll over onto your side" he says, I know how he wants me, it's one of my favourite positions from our time in Cap D'Agde, it always makes me think of us on the beach. The angle of penetration always pleasures me and has me cumming hard. He slowly pounds me and I'm close to cumming and he stops, "you can cum when I do" I know he is close to climax but I can't stop myself, I start to climax and I can't feel his cock stiffen and he tells me he is going to fill my cunt with cum, I feel it, it feels like more than ever as I watch his face as the pleasure washes over him.

After lunch and lazily enjoying each other he excitedly hops out the bed. The boxes of toys come out and he starts rummaging. I sense he is looking for the blindfold and I'm right. The restraints and a few other toys end up strewn on the bed I think I know what's about to come. He suggests I get a drink and use the bathroom as I'm not going to be able to have either for a while.

I return from the bathroom and surrender my wrists for him to attach the leather restraints. He attaches the chain to the ceiling hook and then tightens the tether so my arms are stretched towards the ceiling and my body is his to do what he wishes. The blind fold is tied tight and his top of the line Bose noise cancelling earphones put on, lounge-radio.com playing and I can't hear anything beyond. The sexual exhilaration was more than I even imagined I’m instantly breathless and my body is on full alert.

The details are hard to remember as the intensity of the experience was so great and I can only guess at what some of the things he did to me. His breath against me was the first sensation, his mouth gently kissing me and sucking my hard nipples. The absence of his touch was the strongest feeling, my skin was yearning so much for him to take hold of me.

PArt 2 coming soon Ysl is going to be contirbuting to the detail later this week but hopefully this will wet your apetite


 posted a picture yesterday from this session HERE.

If you follow this link you can hear me, I never new he was recording me. Im tied up and blindfolded, earphones on so I cant hear. Every thing is magnified and Im so aroused by it, then the flogger hits.



Saturday, 4 February 2012

Sinful Sunday - Completely his

Strung up to the ceiling hook, noise cancelling headphones on and a blindfold.

Completely his.




Friday, 3 February 2012

Swingers club, stupid people and 1 orgasm only

The week has been horrid, Mum moving in, all be it temporarily is taking its toll and I’m at best emotionally tired. I hadn’t planned to stay at YSL’s Wednesday but I need to escape and I know I’m welcome. After a coffee and a cuddle YSL checks I’m up for going to the club, I suppose with Hindsight I was determined to have a good time and I shouldn’t of been, plus YSL had just driven up half the country after being away.



I dress, putting on my black see through chemise, stockings and my new boots, slipping a curve hugging dress over and enjoying the look of delight on YSL’s face as he sees me leave the bedroom.



We arrive at the club and sip on sodas while admiring the new decor. During January they have done the place up and its looking all the better for it. It seems quiet but the locker key bowl had been empty so the throngs of people must be out back smoking or in the sauna and Jacuzzi as there are only a handful of people in the room and they are highly animated in a debate about teachers. We drain our drinks and head to the changing room to shed our clothes.

After a cursory look round downstairs to see if there is any action we head back upstairs and still no sign of all the people that the locker keys promised. We head to the large platform bed aware that we have a few single men on our heels. I turn and see they are fully dressed and I feel my temper rise. I say loud so they hear “im not playing” YSL pulls in close and we remain still waiting for them to get the hint. One of the dose and leaves the room. The small asian guy though has proceeded to get his cock out and is stood there wanking, he looks like the guy from Short Circuit, clearly looking for ‘more input’ and its not going to happen.

YSL kisses me and I start to relax and then I can hear the little Indian guy shuffling his cock and I cant bite me tongue “your dressed, its underwear only up here and its not respectful” I’m quite surprised by how forthright I am and he bumbles an apology “its been long time since here, i forget” he starts packing his cock away and I conclude matters by telling him to read the huge sign on the door.

We curl up and enjoy the closeness, just cuddling and kissing slowly and passionately. Right at this moment I realise we should of stayed in, all I want is YSL and I can feel YSL is of the same opinion. You can hear more people enter the room, some chatting and some watching us in hope we will get animated but we have no intention of pleasing a crowd tonight.

I can hear what sounds like a cat run round the room, I start to giggle and tuck my head in closely to hide my hysterics at the stupidity of a single guy that has been daft enough to put his locker key on his wanking wrists so it sounds like a lepers bell with his every stroke. YSL joins me in the laughter and just as I look up to see who the stupid wanker was blocking the view at the foot of the bed stood a club regular that has been interested in fucking me for ages but I have yet to yield to his advances, neither do I plan too. He thinks I’m crying, my sniggering and muffled laughter has him concerned and it makes me laugh more.

Finally I manage to compose myself and suggest to YSL we head home for porn and privacy. We climb off the bed and excuse ourselves, the room full of wanking men clearly disappointed but I have so lost the moment. All I want is YSL.

Back home we enjoy some nibbles, drinks and cuddles before retiring to bed. Both of us have a full and important day ahead and we have the next night together to enjoy even more. I want YSL inside me but he has other plans. He whispers to me that I’m only allowed one orgasm then its sleep. I can have him, the Hitachi or myself, I ask for him and the Hitachi. He starts to rub my clit so perfectly I know I won’t last long and have to pull his hand away every time I get close, I don’t want to cum too quickly I want to savour and enjoy my release. He fights back and continues to rub me and this act of forcing me to cum makes me even more aroused. I’m so close and he thinks I’ve cum but I’m just reaching for the Hitachi, I beg him not to stop, contradicting me plea from a minute ago and he pushes his fingers into my soaking cunt. It’s enough to finish me, thankfully my body recognises this is my one and only orgasm and ensure I have the maximum relief and pleasure, I cum so deeply and richly, I can feel my juices instantly flow from me.

Wednesday, 1 February 2012

HNT or TNH - nuisance

Stockings won't stay up but may they are trying to copy my panties!